Who do you like, tell him

Who do you like, tell him | What 33 girls want to say to their 22-year-old selves.

It is late at night,

Members of our new business women's community spontaneously launched "if I meet my 22-year-old self" because of an article "I want to say a few words to myself at the age of 22". What would you say to her? "The topic.

22 years old, beautiful youth, there are always endless stories worth remembering.

Some people want to thank themselves for wandering alone and insisting on chasing dreams;

Some people want to tell themselves not to repeat past regrets;

Some people regret that there is no vigorous love;

Others are glad that they didn't listen to their parents' wishes and did what they wanted to do.

Listen to what they said.

@ 乜乜乜? 28 years old? Founder of education company

I was very dark when I was 22.

I rented a small farmer's house with a square meter of 10 in Hangzhou. There were many cockroaches and the salary was meager.

Doing several jobs at the same time, thinking about what to do tomorrow every day. It was a pity that there seemed to be no love at that time.

If I write a letter to my 22-year-old self, the first sentence will say: Thank you for your persistence, hard work and unyielding. At that time, even if you chose to give in and give up for a moment, I wouldn't blame you, but I felt even more distressed.

If I can see myself at the age of 22, I will hug her hard and tell her that everything will pass and the future can be expected.

@ King? 28 years old? Partners of educational institutions

I had just come to Guangzhou from my hometown at that time. In a company of 300 people, I have no connections, no education, and I am anxious and afraid of the future.

Because everyone around you is so excellent and out of reach.

Ha ha ha ha, I also made a lot of jokes because of my lack of knowledge.

I didn't even eat pizza when I was 22. Once, our boss asked me to buy him one, and he ate it alone.

I'm so stupid that I don't even know where the pizza place is. Finally, I bought the wrong size and brought back a huge pizza, about enough for ten people.

Breathing heavily, I carried the big pizza back to the office, and the whole office laughed wildly.

At that time, I looked puzzled and didn't know why they were laughing.

At the age of 22, I always do some stupid things like this.

I want to say to myself at the age of 22: Don't be afraid of losing! After all, you have nothing to lose. Do it, learn what you want to learn and meet the people you want to know. Always worried and afraid, you don't know how many possibilities are waiting for you in the future.

@ Big Fish? 32-year-old founder of educational technology company

22-year-old, just graduated from college, originally wanted to stay and work in Beijing, but I didn't know what to do, so I stumbled into the internet industry by mistake.

At that time, I was lonely, lonely and unaccompanied, but I persisted.

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell her: you are great, drifting north alone, sticking to it all the way, and the future is really good.

@ 京京京京? 36-year-old founder of Frish brand

I just graduated from college at the age of 22, and my family spent a lot of money and energy to arrange an iron rice bowl for me.

But I don't want it. I just want to have a rest.

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell myself at that time:

Thank you for your courage and wisdom and give up the so-called "iron rice bowl".

I went to Shenzhen alone and had a wonderful time later!

There is no need to argue about anything, and as a result, I can speak!

@ Zheng Meng? 36 years old? Founder of heart banking psychology? ?

If I write a letter to my 22-year-old self, my first sentence will be:

Thank you for coming out bravely, enduring the loneliness in a foreign land and persisting.

This makes me extremely strong and brave. I have the courage to say: I can!

@ Qiu Xiaoxue? 34 years old? Advanced BD

If I write a letter to my 22-year-old self, I will thank myself for having the courage to work hard in Guangdong from my hometown.

I have never lived according to my parents' wishes. I have been tossing and turning, and now I am very happy.

@ Snow? 36 years old? Taiwan Province province yixiu maternal and infant health Dongguan general agency

What I want to say to myself at the age of 22 is that if I am more determined about my life goals, I will be closer to my dreams.

At that age, a man was ignorant and stumbled into Guangdong, changed his job and praised his courage.

I am also very grateful to meet my husband in the past and go all the way to today.

@ 京京京京? 29 years old? freelance journalist

At the age of 22, I worked as a real estate sales intern and earned a commission of more than 100,000 yuan.

At that time, I wanted to tell myself to send the recommendation letter from the tutor of the University of Macau.

I feel that fate played a joke on me, because the system was broken at that time and I had to send a letter of recommendation manually. Didn't read the email, missed it.

And I want to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination, apply for more schools, take the IELTS test and study abroad.

Miss KT? 3 1 year? Founder of KT college

At the age of 22, I had a lot of worries, thinking about entering the establishment to satisfy my family.

My boyfriend's secular vision thinks the system is decent, but I actually like to start a business and do my own thing.

After that, I entered the system to work, aimless and completely out of state.

It wasn't until I gave birth to a baby six years later that I didn't think I could do this anymore. I'm not happy at all. Although I have a house, a car and a trip to Europe, I'm still not full.

So, I resolutely resigned and used maternity leave to review the postgraduate entrance examination, and it was an interdisciplinary exam.

At that time, I felt bitter but happy. I live for myself.

If I had the chance to be 22 again, I would say to myself: Do whatever you want, and don't be afraid of failure.

Don't care so much about other people's comments, be a happy and full person!

@ 丫丫丫丫? 28 years old? Central enterprise project manager

I am now working as a project manager in a central enterprise, and my work nature is basically the same as that of civil servants. In the eyes of my family and friends around me, it is very good that I can achieve my present position in this job.

But this is not what I really want to do from the bottom of my heart.

At the age of 22, I am too weak psychologically and cognitively. At that time, I couldn't control what I wanted to do. Now I can only grit my teeth and stick to it.

So from this year on, I will change, learn to experience, re-recognize myself, re-view my work, and reconcile with myself and work.

So, at the age of 22, please stick to what you want to do. Pain is not a setback when you do it, but something you really don't want to do.

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@ obscene? 37 years old? Diagonal youth

I went crazy when I was 22. Although I have a boyfriend, I don't think it is the key, but I feel troublesome.

I'm a little puzzled that his family is getting engaged. I didn't refuse or agree at that time. His family thought I was embarrassed and agreed? !

Then I didn't even want to explain, so I packed it myself and sent it abroad.

The world is so big, is it bad to eat or bad to read? Why am I engaged and married so early?

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will melt these words into my bones, blood and soul.

1.？ No matter what level of life you go to, there are people looking up to you and others looking down on you. You look up and feel inferior, and you bow your head and be complacent. Only by looking directly can you see your true self. Yang Jiang

2.？ Your main problem is that you don't read much and think too much. Yang Jiang

There is no simple happiness in the world, happiness is always mixed with troubles and worries, and there is no eternity in the world. Yang Jiang

Reality is only an illusion, although it is a very lasting illusion.

Reality is just an illusion, although it is extremely persistent. -Einstein

The only thing I know is that I know nothing. -Socrates

In this way, I can at least avoid detours in 10. Since it is entrusted to look back, that's all I have seen, and I don't regret it, because it's all beautiful.

@ 丫丫丫丫? 27 years old? Partners of educational institutions?

Looking back on my 22-year-old self, I was tangled and tangled all over. At that time, I talked about a love that everyone opposed.

In order to fall in love, I gave up the opportunity to study in Japan, and now I regret it.

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell her: Don't rush to prove, defend, show, and let life learn to settle.

Nothing is eternal, feelings or things. The past of life should only be watched, enjoyed or drunk silently by one person.

@ 京京京京京? 3 1 year? Co-founder of parent-child brand

22 years old, junior. I didn't study hard, didn't let myself go out to experience more, didn't meet some excellent people, and lost a lot of time in my little love.

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell her to seize this stage of solitude while enjoying love.

Spend more time reading, studying and improving yourself.

Let yourself get out of the ivory tower, accumulate a little social test and become more independent and powerful.

Get to know some excellent people, learn how to deal with people, set goals, make progress step by step, and become more and more excellent.

Travel more, see the wider world, and open up your own horizons and patterns.

@ Star? 29 years old? Co-founder of educational institutions?

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell her who is going to study for a master's degree:

Read one book at a time, eat one bite at a time,

Now this kind of love can be suppressed.

@ light light blue? 28 years old? Content director of educational institutions

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell myself that I just graduated with a master's degree. Don't worry, don't be anxious.

Look at the world more and think more about what you want.

Don't work for work, and don't study for study.

Dare to pursue your dreams and meet different people.

Also, go and love!

@ 丫丫丫丫丫? 39-year-old Zhu Feifei, founder of the chicken feet brand.

I want to tell my 22-year-old self that I love you deeply when I fall in love, and a book may be a best-selling author in the future.

Don't learn if you don't want to. Mechanical life will only make you dislike studying even more.

Invest time in what you like, then plan your future life, and realize that you are more important than anything else earlier.

@ Xinghai? 30? Co-founder of education company

If I write a letter to my 22-year-old self, I will say to myself:

Try harder and be brave. You can do more.

The greatest sorrow in the world is not that you encounter setbacks on your way forward, but that you have no chance to work hard.

Don't be defeated by temporary economic pressure, just do something that doesn't create value and sells time.

Love is not the only theme of life. Get out of the small circle and stand with excellent people.

@ obscene? 30+? Founder of Khan Niu College, founder of educational institution.

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will say to her:

Who do you like, just tell him!

Instead of torturing yourself every day, causing internal friction and wasting time, it is better to speak out your love and express your love bravely, so that you will not be wronged, 10 years later, you will not regret not taking the initiative at that time.

In life, people seldom regret what they have done, but often regret what they wanted to do but didn't do.

So, while you are young, do what you like, love the people you love and realize your dreams!

@Wynne？ 23 years old? Yoga practitioner

Hello, I was last year. On the whole, I didn't let you down.

The only regret is that I didn't talk about an unreserved and vigorous love.

Don't forget to stop and enjoy the surrounding scenery when running. I think I will always keep my 22-year-old mentality, because I have dreams? , always upward dream, come on! "

@ Zhang? 20+? Free entrepreneur

If I were 22 years old again, I would tell myself, buy a house with a loan and don't fall in love!

Go to Alibaba, hahaha ...

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@ Ren Li Xia? 24 years old? Project leader of cultural media company

At the age of 22, he entered Tibet by car and gave up the opportunity to enter the Propaganda Department of the Municipal Party Committee from the provincial media.

At that time, after hearing the news of personnel transfer, I struggled for a long time and left.

Because of my personality and family environment, I don't like staying in a comfortable area very much.

I was afraid for a long time, and I didn't have any ideas.

So I am very grateful to my 22-year-old self for doing a lot of crazy things.

But today, it seems that it is because of my original self that I can listen to my inner voice calmly and have the strength to make various choices.

@Vicky？ 27 years old? Marketing manager?

At that time, I just started working and worked hard every day. I often stay up late and work overtime, and I am always the last one to leave the office.

Fortunately, after working for a year and a half, I brought a team of about 10 people and became the youngest member of the management.

But at that time, because of lack of experience, I took many detours and had ambitions, so it was not very good.

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell her:

You must work hard, but don't worry! Do a lot of things as long as it is better than it is now. Don't be afraid, be confident.

If your idea is right, you should speak out bravely and do it with your heart.

@ 丫丫丫丫丫? 37 years old? Head of women's clothing company

If I had another chance to talk to my 22-year-old self, I would say to her:

The most wonderful thing in life is not the moment when you realize your dreams, but the process of persistence.

In this process, we should have the enthusiasm for life, the pursuit of the future and the spirit of perseverance, as well as the power to pursue subversion.

I believe so, I will be able to move forward with a chic attitude until I grow into what I like.

Life is always like this. Only in this way can we understand the attitude that life should have.

@ Orange? 30? Founder of education company

At the age of 22, I met a noble man. She is the first social worker with great personality charm in my social work career.

Now she is a doctor at Sun Yat-sen University, and I am a graduate student at 20 18. It was also after communicating with her that I made the decision to take the postgraduate entrance examination.

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will say to her:

There are many choices in life, and I will stick to my choice and go forward bravely!

I will tell myself that life should be planned and time is precious. The only way to solve anxiety is to study, study and study again.

I will say to myself, cherish the excellent people around me, go out and express my thoughts, and dare to meet more excellent people.

@ Moonlight Night? 33 years old? Quality Engineer/Diagonal Youth

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will say to myself:

Don't be confused, cherish the present.

Study hard, spend more time with excellent people, and discover your excellent qualities as soon as possible.

Then try to enlarge it, see the world more, improve your cognition, and cherish the people you love and those you love.

@ Xu Ying? 35 years old? Communicator to culture

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell her:

Life is short, dare to challenge, get in touch with different people and things, don't live a fixed life, and let youth keep beautiful and rich memories.

Do what you want, do what you want, do what you want. You can do anything you want. ?

When you underestimate the material benefits of the world and only pay attention to your own growth and promotion, you can naturally reach a higher and better place.

@ 京京京京? 25 years old? customer service

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell her:

Don't judge the world by feeling, listen to the suggestions of people around you and look at the world rationally.

See the world more and keep a humble heart.

Don't ignore your heart because of others, be more curious and embrace the world more.

@ 京京京京? 48? Season youmei exclusive dealer

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will try my best to love myself.

Don't feel inferior, don't be willful, and jump out of your comfort zone while you are young.

Don't be complacent, improve your cognition and learn to think.

Find out what kind of life you really want, and then work hard.

@ Zhang Lin? 30? Co-founder of education company

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell her:

Believe in yourself, you are better than you think, as long as you find the right direction and work hard, you will get everything you want in the end!

@ 丫丫丫丫丫? 2 1 year? College students and media people

I hope that at the age of 22, I can continue to do what I like, free from negative external influences.

Cultivate a better moral foundation, hone a stronger mind and help others reduce emotional internal friction.

@ Jojo? 33 years old? Health manager

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will say:

Life is precious, don't spend it in small family ties.

The world is very big, you have to experience more possibilities, be full of curiosity and awe, and strive to grow!

@ Xin Yuan? 36 years old? Co-founder of maternal and child institutions

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will tell her:

Don't just focus on loving someone, don't just focus on running, and keep your feet on the stars.

Know some excellent people, learn how to deal with people, how to set goals, how to make progress step by step and become more and more excellent.

Travel more, see the wider world, enhance your cognition, and open up your own vision and pattern.

@ Sunshine? 49 years old accountant

If I write to my 22-year-old self, I will say to her:

You're amazing! I admire your courage, I admire your spirit of daring to think and do, I admire you for following your heart and being yourself!

If I can see myself at the age of 22, I will hug her and say to her, "study more, broaden your horizons and think about your dreams!" " "

@ Guo Xuwei? 29 years old? Founder of the women's community

If I have to say something to my 22-year-old self, I want to say to her:

There is only one precious life, you are the future day, enjoy the beauty at that time.

Even if the future is not what you expect, there will still be many surprises and beautiful situations.

If you can't see the sunrise, there will be a sunrise, and there will always be surprises. Open your heart and experience this process is the best harvest.

Where are you at the age of 22? What are you doing?

Still on campus?

Or are you wandering outside alone?

Are you immersed in the sweetness of love?

Or regret not telling the person you like?

Do you persist in pursuing your dreams?

Or did you listen to other people's ideas and do something you didn't want to do?

Come and leave a message and tell us!

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