Have I offended my uncle? (depressed)

Your uncle obviously heard what your co-workers said about buying a laptop, and expressed his dissatisfaction with the content of your speech in such a way. You also said "there is something in your words" , I think that’s what it means.

But usually these words are used to vent some kind of dissatisfaction in the heart in such a suggestive way. After venting, it will be nothing. Your uncle is in his 20s, so he should I wouldn’t care so much about you, a person in your 20s, right? So your brooding is just adding trouble to yourself, which is unnecessary!

You mentioned: In the next few days, I noticed that he was deliberately avoiding me and stopped talking to me. He used to always say to others very affectionately, "What's wrong with my Aqun?" But Now when I walk over, he seems to turn his head away on purpose

I think this is because you are overthinking. Just because you think you said the wrong thing, your uncle will be dissatisfied with you, so even his small actions will be misunderstood by you as "deliberately avoiding". In fact, many troubles in life are the source of it. You are the only one who cares so much about yourself, and your uncle himself has no intention of avoiding you. Avoiding others is usually a sign of guilt or guilt. What does your uncle feel guilty about? What are you feeling guilty about? It's just that you are too sensitive and suspicious.

You wrote such a long story. I guess you are a sensitive and delicate person. I am also such a person. People like us just add a lot of unnecessary troubles to ourselves. , in fact this is not necessary! Open your mind and you will find that the sea and the sky are brighter!

As for the issue of changing jobs you mentioned, I think it is better for you to ask more reliable people about this kind of thing. Like you said, The co-workers talk about boring topics like "How do you get out of a watermelon" every day, so words like yours are of course a good opportunity for them to catch you when they are bored. They can accuse you of demagoguery or something like that. Anyway, there are As the old saying goes: Too much words lead to mistakes! If you really have this idea, you can tell your parents or someone reliable, and don't trust others easily.

Finally, I don’t think your uncle will hate you, because blood is thicker than water and you are related. But you must not bother with the mistakes I just mentioned, as this will easily make him wary of you.

Also, people don’t have to work in one job all their lives! I understand your situation very well. You can try to do something within your ability instead of always thinking that you are disabled, inferior or something! Never think so! You are only 25 years old. How young is 25? We are also the same age. I really hope you can get out of your narrow life circle and face your life actively and happily!

Wish you good luck^_^