A 45-year-old woman said to her husband: Our daughter has passed the college entrance examination, and we must get a divorce. What do you think of this?

After the college entrance examination every year, there are more divorced people. After unloading the heavy responsibility for children, two people who have been in strange beds for a long time can finally break up. Although such a couple is regrettable, it is also admirable. Married life has made her (him) exhausted, and love is gone, but for the sake of children, she (he) still sticks to that heavy responsibility and affection.

Liu is 45 years old, and he is no longer young. But she filed for divorce with her husband. At this age when she no longer has any advantages, she dares to abandon her family and file for divorce, which shows that a woman is heartbroken by her husband.

At the age of twenty-three, Liu met her husband Li through a matchmaker. After they kissed once, their parents finalized the matter. In the eyes of the old man, the so-called love is nothing, and it is talk.an excellent thing for two people to live together in a down-to-earth way. Liu and Li met only a few times before marriage, and later their parents arranged their marriages.

As the saying goes: marry a Han, dress and eat. Liu is a traditional woman. After her marriage with Li, she plans to set up a small family of her own. She thinks it's ok to cultivate feelings after marriage.

In the first few months of marriage, Li was very attached to his wife. Besides going to work, he goes home to accompany his wife. They are kind and full of love. But when Liu was pregnant for six months, Li often stayed out at night. At first, I always prevaricated that the unit was working overtime. But every time he gets paid, he gets less money instead of more.

Later, Li did not take money from home, but took money from home. Yu Xia found that her husband was caught in the bad habit of gambling and often ate, drank and gambled with several friends after work.

At the beginning, Yu Xia earnestly advised her husband to put family first and cut off contacts with those friends. Although the husband promised verbally every time, he still went his own way. Once, I lost my money and let Li go home to coax her. As a result, my husband punched me and the child was born prematurely. At that time, Yu Xia doubted whether they could grow old together.

Yu Xia was in the second month, and her husband still went out early and came back late, which made Yu Xia feel very chilling. After confinement, she took her daughter back to her family. But my mother said that it is not a big deal for men to gamble some money; Complaining that she shouldn't go back to her parents' house so willfully that her parents can't lift their heads in the village.

Yu Xia complained to her mother that she wanted a divorce. However, her mother stopped her and said, "When a woman divorces, she will find another man, and this will be fall in price. Besides, Li is also the father of the child. " Liu was moved by her mother's words. For the sake of her daughter, she refrained from mentioning the divorce. Who knows, this forbearance is twenty years. During these twenty years, she has been under mental and economic pressure, and no one will understand her pain and suffering.

In recent years, I have worked hard to earn my daughter's tuition, even her husband's food is earned by her. Li's life is very chic, and he hasn't changed at all. Besides going to work, he plays mahjong, or chats online and plays with some girls. Yu Xia urged. On one occasion, I found my husband cheating and quarreled with Li Da, only to be punched and kicked by her husband. She gradually lost patience and despair. Yu Xia doesn't know what her husband did, and she's too lazy to know. She devoted herself wholeheartedly to her daughter, but fortunately, her daughter is very sensible and studies hard, and her grades have been excellent.

A few days ago, my husband lost money. He reached out to Yu Xia for money to pay his debts. Yu Xia doesn't want to give it. Her husband gave Yu Xia a direct slap in the face. The slap woke Yu Xia. She said to her husband, "In another month, my daughter's college entrance examination will be over, and we will divorce." Li wondered that he had been beaten more than once over the years, and she had been with him. How can you make such a request now?

The husband said, "You 45-year-old yellow-faced woman, no one will marry you without me." Besides, you are not afraid of villagers' jokes, but my daughter and I have to face them. "The husband doesn't agree to divorce.

When Li saw that his wife really wanted to divorce him, he was a little panicked. He tried to get his daughter to persuade his wife to save his marriage.

Who knows the daughter said to Li, "Dad, were you afraid of jokes when my mother divorced you?" Why aren't you afraid of being laughed at when you hit my mother? Mom divorced you, and I have 100 support. How did you treat my mother growing up? I saw it in my eyes. Mom, you don't have to wait until I finish the college entrance examination. Now you can. I have grown up and have enough psychological endurance. "

Li reached out to hit her daughter, but her daughter dodged. Li tripped and almost fell. My daughter took this opportunity to help Yu Xia get out of the house. Lee did the same thing again, trying to get forgiveness again, but his heart was dead. Her husband has apologized to her several times in the past twenty years, but he hasn't changed his old habits since it happened. Yu Xia will never trust her husband again. After 20 years of forbearance, she finally came out.

There are many women who have been unhappy in marriage since childhood, but they have endured it all their lives for the sake of children or face. In fact, in Bian Xiao's view, if the married life is unhappy, it is necessary to stop the loss in time. Some women say that children are too young to live without their fathers. That's true, but it is more harmful for children to live in an unhappy family.

As a husband, you should care and cherish your wife. After all, she is the one who wants to spend her life with herself. As a man, you should go home on time. The wife harms the man, not marrying you as a nanny. As fathers, we should communicate with our children more, spend more time with them during their growth, and let them feel that they live in a happy family.

Li has never fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband and father. Yu Xia should divorce a man whose wife and children are so neglected. From the support of Yu Xia's daughter to her mother, we can see that Yu Xia's forbearance for 20 years is not love, but a kind of harm to her children. In fact, the children also want to leave this unhappy family as soon as possible.