What should people do when they are confused?

What people should do when they are confused is as follows:

1, reduce the selection.

What determines you is not your ability, but your choice. When there is no choice, people will be confused; And if there are too many choices, people will be more confused. Once lost, it is easy to become anxious, fearful and uneasy. Sometimes you will be confused, because you are faced with so many choices that you can't tell which is more important.

2. Start with what you like to do.

Only if you like to do it, will you keep your passion and motivation and go further. Einstein said, "Interest is the best teacher." Everyone has their own hobbies and dreams that they are most eager to realize. Only in this fast-paced society, many people forget their original intentions because they are busy. If you don't know what you like to do, you can get to know outstanding people from all walks of life through deliberate contact, trying and learning, and then discover what you really want to do through constant observation.

3. Be sure to read more books.

I remember reading a passage in a book: "When you don't know what you are going to do, go to school." . Because reading can't be wrong, everything that puzzles you and can't find the answer can be found in the book. "So, there is nothing wrong with reading and learning more when you are confused. Every reading, every dialogue with the author is actually a dialogue with one's own heart.

The cause of confusion

1, there are not enough books to read: the most easily confused thing is that people who are illiterate or above are not full of wisdom, knowledge and insight, and always worry about some things and want to plan ahead, but just because they think too much, they will have more troubles and will keep calculating and analyzing, making the originally short life cumbersome and heavy.

2, the social circle is too narrow: staying in a comfortable or even decadent circle will become more and more ignorant and superficial, and over time it will become that kind of frog in the well, but I have never noticed it.

3. Lock yourself up and don't know how to "travel": Travel is not necessarily just superficial sightseeing, but also a kind of self-relaxation to get rid of the troubled haze. When you are enclosed in this inherent life pattern circle, you will only enlarge your anguish infinitely, copy your life all day and see no hope for the future.