Why do some people say that when a daughter is married, she should not go to her family again?

The premise is that you are not the only one at home, but also a brother or younger brother. After marriage, you will feel alienated when you go back to your mother's house.

There is a saying that after a woman gets married, she pours out water; In other words, as long as a woman is married, your home is her husband's home; Your mother's house is no longer your own, and nothing in your house belongs to you; You used to talk about this and that at home, but when you get married, you will get into trouble and be hated by your sister-in-law.

Therefore, a woman must know how to change her role.

A woman, when you get married, your family is your husband's family, and her husband's relatives are your relatives; You must learn how to live in your husband's home; If you still miss your family, you still miss everything at home; Then you won't be happy, you won't be happy; Because you are married at home, that is to say, you are an outsider; There is no room for you. Go back to your mother's house once, you are a guest, and you have no right to tell you what to do anymore.

Marriage is the only way for every woman, and one day you will marry someone else; Many girls have always been used to their homes; Therefore, after marriage, everyone still feels that their home is their home, so they always run to their home every once in a while; In fact, after you do this, there will be some problems; It doesn't matter if you don't have a sister-in-law or aunt. Your family especially welcomes you, but as long as you have a sister-in-law and a sister-in-law, they won't like you; You always go back to your parents' house, and they will be very unhappy, especially unhappy; Because your home is not there, it already belongs to their home.

Don't go back to your mother's house as if you were still the master, then you are wrong; They will give you a look and embarrass you; You should know that your husband's home is your home. You must think of yourself as the mistress of your husband's family. Everything is yours, otherwise, you will feel that there is no sense of existence; It seems that your mother's house can't go back, and your husband's house doesn't belong to you, so you will have no sense of belonging. Women must have the idea of marrying a chicken with a chicken and a dog with a dog; Don't follow the chicken, you still think you are a phoenix.

Women must know how to change roles; When you marry your husband, don't treat his home as a home that doesn't belong to you; So you are like a guest, waiting for others to cook for you, and you will only be looked down upon by others; Since you entered your husband's house, your husband's house is your home, and you must regard yourself as the hostess; Take everything at home as your everything; You must not think that your home is not here; You know, if you go back to your mother's house, everything there no longer belongs to you.