The method of girls' long-term failure to reply to high emotional intelligence

The method of girls' long-term failure to reply to high emotional intelligence

The method of girls not responding to high emotional intelligence for a long time. Girls we like usually chat with her, but some girls don't reply to our messages for a long time, which makes us very annoyed. Next, I'll show you why girls don't reply to high emotional intelligence for a long time.

The method of girls not responding to high emotional intelligence for a long time 1 1, the exploration of humor

Humor is the best way to resolve the embarrassment between two people, so if you meet a girl who doesn't reply, you can test her with humor. For example, you can send her a lovely pet picture and say, I'll tell you with a small animal, hello. Then send a smile. At this time, if a girl sees that cute little pet, she may be tempted to reply to you. In this case, you should resume communication with her. Or you can try some ways to praise her and humorously express that you want to get back in touch with her. For example, you can say: I caught a little fairy, please reply. At this time, when you praise her as a fairy, she may not be able to help but reply when she is happy.

Step 2 rebuild attraction

If the girl doesn't reply to your message, it is likely that she is not interested in you, or you don't meet her requirements in some ways. At this time, you can try to re-establish your attraction with her. First, improve your temperament and charm, cultivate your self-confidence, be broad-minded and be generous to others. Second, try to be happy at all times and give girls an optimistic and cheerful feeling. Then, you still have to be careful about the girl's needs, and you don't need to wait for her to speak when she needs help. You should also have your own hobbies and specialties, take life seriously, work hard, and then show your changes in your circle of friends so that girls can see and feel your little changes. In this way, girls will see your change and change your mind, and then like you.

Step 3 give up directly

The best way to get along is to meet the right person. If this person is not suitable for you at all, there is no need to go on. It is a good idea to give up directly. If we can meet a girl who knows empathy with ourselves, it is actually the best, so that our' love' will feel happy and sweet, and the road ahead will be broader. Some girls are not suitable for themselves, and not every girl in the world is suitable for herself. It's important to find a girl who suits you, but if you accidentally pursue a girl who doesn't suit you, you should stop loss in time and quit this love, so that you can get to know her.

Method 2 1 for girls who don't reply to high emotional intelligence for half a day, and chat without making up words.

First of all, the "supplementary" means that when the girl didn't reply to your last message, you also replied to the second and third messages.

I believe many people will naturally "strike up a conversation" when chatting with girls. In fact, it is annoying for girls to make up words with girls, because girls say they have been busy and have not answered you. When you ask her why she doesn't reply, it's actually to make the girl admit her mistake, and it's easy to make the relationship between you stiff. For example:

Boy: What are you up to? Never answered me. W: I'm in a meeting. I haven't checked my cell phone. I'm sorry

Doing so is waiting for the girl's reply, but it will also find that the atmosphere of chatting becomes stiff. The correct way is definitely not to directly ask the girl what she did before, which will bring a misunderstanding to the girl. Correct operation should avoid this direction.

For example:

Boy: You must have been robbed this afternoon and taken to be Mrs. Zhazhai. Girl: Haha, I forgot to reply to you after a long meeting.

2, retreat, reduce contact

1, twice a week is enough. Let her off guard by retreating. She stays away from you because your sense of need is so great that she is under pressure.

During this time, enrich your life and WeChat circle of friends and show high value. Your life will also make her curious, especially when you suddenly disappear. She will wonder why you suddenly ignored her, and then she will wonder about your life and see what you have been doing recently.

3. Provide emotional value to girls.

The process of chatting with girls is actually providing emotional value, such as humor, teasing, push and pull, and so on. Let girls find you interesting, not flattering, because chatting is to make communication easier, not to make girls feel oppressive.

Under normal circumstances, girls reply to you for half a day, and these situations will occur:

1. I was busy then. I will call you back when I have time, but I don't want to call you back.

At this time, the girl is busy with business. She is working. At this point, her energy is focused on another thing. Even if she has time to call you back, she doesn't want to call you back, which means that if you chat with her, girls will feel tired and have no interest in chatting with you.

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I was busy at that time and didn't have time to reply you. I don't want to reply to you when I see it afterwards.

In this case, the girl is also busy with her own business. She is thinking about other things and has no time to reply to you. She doesn't answer you when she is busy, which means that this girl doesn't pay attention to you.

I don't want to reply to you.

Girls don't want to answer you at all, which means that you did something that girls don't like during the chat.

Methods of girls not replying to high EQ for a long time 3. Three skills of chatting with girls for a long time.

1, an interesting supplement to remind girls

Suddenly, the girl was silent and didn't reply to your message. We should take the initiative to send messages to girls. It is possible that you happen to have a topic that girls are not interested in. You can supplement it with a topic that she is interested in, so that she can continue to chat with you, thus reminding girls to continue to chat with you. For a girl, in fact, you take the initiative to talk to her and talk about some topics she is interested in. I believe she is willing to continue to associate with you, because she won't get bored with you.

When two people are together, the girl suddenly stops talking, or doesn't understand you for a long time. We can make up interesting topics to remind the girl. Of course, we can also send her something she is interested in and let her talk to you. Don't let girls think you are particularly cold, and don't let girls think you are particularly casual. Anyway, let girls feel that there is no pressure to chat with you, and there will be no pressure.

In fact, the hardest thing to chase girls is chatting. Without chatting, you can't talk to girls, and you can't open the emotional lock of girls. I used to be all thumbs and couldn't chat. I don't know how to please girls. Later, I looked up a lot of information and bought a lot of video teaching. Finally, I learned a lot of tricks and practical skills before I realized that chatting was so simple. Now I have about three girls a week, and two of them are very beautiful. Single brothers, if you want to take off the bill, you can trust me privately: chat video! (code word), I will give you all the videos I have learned, even the videos I have paid for. Without spending a penny, you can learn many tricks and high emotional intelligence routines, and you can improve yourself casually. There are also many tricks. You can also ask girls out as long as you copy more. Isn't it better than being single?

2. Reduce contact and make girls anxious.

Don't worry if girls don't return your messages. We can minimize contact and make girls worry about you. This is also a preconceived practice. Of course, sometimes girls think you don't care about her. When you lower the topic, sometimes girls will find you interesting. Because you have occupied a position in her mind, she knows what your purpose is, and she will take the initiative to chat with you. This tells us not to be afraid. Proper contact reduction will make girls care about you and care about you.

Reducing contact will also let girls know your importance. I don't care much about girls when chatting. Often we can use this method to test whether girls care about you. When two people are chatting together, there are many things to master. As long as we really do it, let the girls care about you, understand you and be with you, it will prove that you are successful. So when girls ignore you in the process of chatting with girls, we can try to reduce contact and let girls.

3. Have the cheek to play a little joke

Talk some jokes with girls. In fact, when girls ignore you, don't worry too much. We can have the cheek to joke with girls and tell her some jokes at ordinary times. Of course, we can also make fun of her and deliberately fight for a picture. Even a small quarrel between two people is ok. When chatting with a girl, you must know how to enhance your feelings with her. Don't be too dull. Often if the topic we talk about is too dull, girls will think that you don't care about her.

For many people, it is not particularly embarrassing to have the cheek to joke with girls. As a boy, since you like girls, you should learn to have the cheek to fall in love. Everyone knows there is nothing wrong with chasing girls, so as a boy, don't feel particularly ashamed of chasing girls. We need to know that as long as we catch up with that girl, this girl is worthy of your love, and then you are right.