Why do the white things in the village come uninvited, and the red things don't have to be invited?

Why do white things come to the village uninvited, and red things don't have to be invited?

All our friends living in the countryside have encountered such a thing. If someone gets married and the village notifies us, then it is possible that we are busy in other places and have no time to live, and the gift money may not be returned, but the gift money will also be returned. At this time, the main family will not be picky and can understand. However, if an old man dies, the villagers will even go without notice. Then why did it appear? Red things come uninvited, and white things come uninvited?

The so-called "red events" in rural areas generally represent more marriages. Although this is also an important moment in life, we are all in the same village. After all, there are still many opportunities to meet in the future, and no one will be picky. Maybe you didn't go when you got married, and you can still meet your family for a banquet at other times. You can also exchange greetings.

However, white matter is different. In rural areas, white matter means that someone has died. This is a great event. As long as people in the village know who has passed away, they will take the initiative to help without notice. It will also send away the last journey.

After all, everyone will get old one day. In the countryside, we all pay attention to interpersonal relationships. We all know who goes to the main house and who doesn't, so you will come to help me if my family has something, and he will take the initiative to help you if your family has something. If you don't go to your house when you see someone in the countryside having something to do, then if your old man dies and no one goes at all, it will make you very upset and have nothing to do.

There is such a family in our village. An old man died in another family, and their family did not go at all. They are always busy making money under various excuses, either in other places. No one in the village will do anything, even if his relatives have something to do. One year, his father died and he was very sad. Generally in rural areas, when someone dies, someone will go to worship, and when there is a funeral, a coffin will be carried. These are all from the village, and no one in his family has been there. When it comes to the funeral, no one helps, even if they are looking for relatives, no one wants to go. If you don't want to go, you will go door to door and kowtow to invite you. Even so, everyone didn't want to go. He went to the intermediary and said that everyone didn't want to go. This can show a strong relationship.

Therefore, in the eyes of rural people, if you don't help my family with white things, then I won't go to your home to help. After all, white things can't ask for help like red things, so how can red things move themselves to get busy again? But you can't do it in vain, and the degree of sadness is not allowed. If no one comes to see the old man off on the last trip, you can't stay in this village. Because rural people pay attention to a kind of human relationship and help each other.

The white matter in the village belongs to the last journey of giving people away and must go. Red matter depends on whether there is contact. If it is not very good, please don't go.

In the countryside, I feel that I can still get married, and I will give you one hundred. Much better. 200. Now everyone is eating well. Most people are popular, so they don't want to attend. Drinking too much is not good for your health. You can't face it without drinking. White matter is different. Everyone has parents. I can't go to anyone's house. There is no one at home. Make others laugh. So I'm busy for nothing. Try to go for a day when you have no time.

Anyone who has an old man will die and go for nothing. Red matter is different. Someone can help.