Why are some friendships so cheap?

We often say that you rely on your family at home and your friends when you go out. The more friends you have, the easier your journey will be. On your way forward, if you fall, there will be friends to help you, and when you feel down, there will be friends to accompany you. By your side, a good friend can bring you great benefits. Of course, they are not vulgar financial benefits, but they can help you grow and are your strong backing. They can make you raise your head and chest. Go on the road of your life bravely, so that you can safely give your back to the other person. Everyone wants such friends, and such friendship is naturally priceless. However, not everyone has smooth sailing on the road of friendship. Yes, some people's friendships are not as glamorous as they appear on the surface, and stabbings in the back may be commonplace. Then let me talk about my opinion on how cheap some people’s friendships are. Let me give you an example first. When I was a child, my father had to work, so I always moved. Naturally, moving sometimes also involves moving schools, from one place to another city. That was when I just moved to a city. As a transfer student at the time, I naturally couldn’t live without the unanimous exclusion of my classmates, so I usually went home alone after class. Then one day, a girl was willing to accompany me. I was very excited at that time. I was so touched. Naturally, I regarded her as a good friend from the bottom of my heart. I would feed her whatever I bought. People were poor at that time, and they were considered rich if they had 1 yuan a day. Every time I wanted to eat ice cream in the afternoon, but I also thought that she liked spicy chips and eventually bought spicy chips so that we could share them. I thought our friendship would continue like this until one day... At that time, the children near my house stopped playing with me. Because my grades were pretty good, for some reason I became the public enemy of the kids in the neighborhood. Some of them even spat at me and scolded me when they saw me. When I was a kid, I was all alone and didn’t want to cause trouble to my parents, so I just talked about it. The child suppressed it all by himself. I thought that the parents of those children often mentioned me in front of their children, which caused the children to resent me, but I never thought that it was my best friend who stabbed me in the back. She told those children that I scolded them and said something about me. She was arrogant and looked down on those children. She asked those children not to play with me, so this scene happened. When I knew the truth, I was really sad. I regarded her as a friend, but she regarded me as a doll. So there was no contact again. Later, I analyzed the reasons why some people's friendships are so cheap and worthless. Either one party doesn't know the person well, or there is something wrong with the character and character of both parties. For example, if a person is jealous of you, how can you expect him to be sincere? If you treat him as the only one, but he treats you as just another person, how can such a friendship be valuable? To be friends, you must first have the same outlook on things. If you have different outlooks, you can't make plans. Only when you have the same three views and are sincere in your hearts can your friendship be valuable and go further!