It is better to find someone who supports you than to find someone who supports you.

It is better to find someone who supports you than to find someone who supports you.

Chris used to write only romantic stories, and the pain, pain and sadness in love almost became Ku Kuiji's emerald pure gold Dalian ring, which could never be sung, and became an eternal proposition for thinking. However, that fall is a long-term fall, and the long-term mind is long-lasting. It is called love by repeatedly performing various sad dramas and anesthetizing yourself.

I often think that if I had started my business with a dead spirit, it is estimated that the company can now go to the C round. . . . Alas, heroes didn't mention courage in those days, and good women didn't mention stupidity in those days. However, when I met the right person, the creative inspiration of my former love poems disappeared and I couldn't write a word. I am angry and jealous of you. Every day, I just play silly, tease my mouth, eat silly and drink silly. Then I found that the temperament of young women in literature and art gradually faded, and the gas field of second-rate young women gradually formed.

Just when I thought I was going to seal my pen and put an end to emotional topics all my life, this gentleman turned to the love poem I wrote to ex and asked for one full of jealousy. . . . Unfortunately, however, this promise has been delayed from his birthday last year to this year. After frequent reminders, I deeply realized that "a woman who is satisfied by love can't basically write advanced words with depth and feelings that can only be produced after lovelorn". After this cruel reality, I decided to dedicate the whole article to this male god who has always stood by my side and supported me.

When I was a child, I saw Qiong Yao. The hero was handsome, bohemian, rich, or well-off. They all had one thing in common, that is, they always loved the heroine, and this love was heartfelt and unreserved. They loved, pampered and cared for the heroine at all costs, no matter right or wrong, no matter whether she loved herself or not.

During the summer vacation of junior high school, I read all the works of Aunt Qiong Yao (not counting that she later changed her life into Princess Huanzhu, which is how to sell her age in such a minute), and then it influenced my love view throughout my girlhood and even my youth. I must find a boyfriend who loves and pampers me very much, shelter me from the wind and rain, create the world and die for me.

I believe that many girls, like me, hold the idea that this day is (space), (spring), (wisdom) and (luck) and start their love journeys again and again. Among all the candidates, except the one who is more handsome (eternal) and has better grades (earns more), basketball is better (XX is better, you can change one at will. This kindness can be reflected in the following aspects: when I am hungry, I will be given food; When I am thirsty, someone will give me water to drink; When I am sleepy, I will get a blanket; When I am bored, I will tell jokes; And so on.

Fortunately, some girls can always find this kind of love (Jane), and more and more become the heroine in menstruation, immersed in the ocean of love, traveling freely and enjoying the carefree life of falling in love.

Some girls are miserable, but they can't find them all the time, or they started looking for them and then lost them, or they found them at first and then disappeared. In a word, the princess's dream was left out in the cold for a long time, either she despaired of men from now on, or she walked into a dead end and was obsessed with the past. In short, she can't have a good relationship.

However, with the growth of age, self-awareness is constantly awakening. More and more, I feel that if the standard of finding a partner is just to be nice to me, listen to me and accompany me to the movies no matter how busy I am, I guess I won't get any high-quality love in my life.

But even when women wake up, most China boys are particularly easy to switch to the "shopkeeper" mode in the mode of love, just like the wedding in Jay Chou mentioned a few days ago. One article is particularly good (I forget who wrote it). The main idea of the article is that during the whole wedding, all you can see is Jay Chou's idea, the castle fairy tale he wants, the wedding symphony he made, and he traveled all over Europe to take the wedding photos he wanted. This is a dream of Jay Chou's own wedding. When did you see Hannah Quinlivan jump out and say what she thought? Maybe even if it wasn't Hannah Quinlivan, there would be another beautiful and obedient little girl standing there and saying I do.

Yes, this is the price of love. I will give you thousands of splendors, and I will give you a lifetime of stability. What else do you want? Be my girl, not your me Don't be naughty, be obedient.

I want a classic scene of a western-style wedding. My daughter walks slowly in her father's arms, and the father solemnly gives her hand to the groom. In the handover of two men, a woman's life is settled like this, which is incredible!

But my ideal love is not like this. Love is not to please me, buy me a bag and treat me as your daughter who can't take care of herself or a beautiful doll.

A passage that my goddess Yang Lan once said on the Internet, in my opinion, is the best portrayal of love.

"I think the strongest bond in marriage is not children, not money, but spiritual growth. Love is sometimes a kind of loyalty, not only because this person is seriously ill, or you are still with him when he goes bankrupt. Another is that when he is mentally confused and miserable, and even loses his temper with you, you still know that he loves you. I have experienced a lot of confusion, but my husband Wu Zhi belongs to that kind of special loyalty. No matter what you do, I will go with you. This kind of power is quite powerful. When you walk through that paragraph and look back, you will especially thank that person. "

Yes, this is my understanding of love. Support each other and grow together, hold up my chin and support my spine when I am weak and sleepy; It is trust, respect, understanding and tolerance, which encourages me to realize my dream, cheers me on and guides me.

Fortunately, so far, my male gods have done this. For me, he is more like a comrade-in-arms who accompanied me to the war, a playmate who can be happy together, and a person who can support me to the end.

When I wanted to quit my job and go to school, the whole family objected. It was he who stood up and told his elders that he was extremely supportive of this decision. I can have children at any time, but the earlier I study, the better. When I was tempted to start a business and everyone didn't like it, he told me to do it when you thought about it. If you fail, you should go to work (note that he didn't say I raised you, but I am still grateful); I was running around, and when my client came home and kicked my ass, he leaned over and said, wife, I really like you. When I was worried that the outsourcing of the company's website was too expensive, he silently helped me contact vendor to learn what I had learned many years ago and helped me make a beautiful and practical website.

The only and last time I thanked my male god in an open article for giving me the love I wanted. Love you. Happy birthday and Happy Valentine's Day.