How do college students establish a correct view of love?

For contemporary college students, it is necessary to advocate the establishment of a healthy and scientific concept of love, which mainly includes the following aspects:

1, define the standard of love

When college students fall in love, they should put the same thoughts, the same beliefs and the same pursuit at the top of the love standard, and take kindness, reason and responsibility as the important criteria for choosing a spouse. Therefore, in the choice of lovers, the most important criterion should be like-minded. As the successors of the socialist cause of the motherland, the love view of contemporary college students should be an organic combination of ideal, morality, responsibility, obligation and career.

Step 2 be responsible

Many college students experience love with the mentality of "only wanting to have it once, not wanting to last forever". However, it turns out that love is a kind of responsibility, which requires the other party to have a strong sense of responsibility. Only by treating each other sincerely and living in harmony can we ensure the continuous development of love relationship in a positive and healthy direction.

3. Correctly handle the relationship between love and study.

Love is beautiful, it is an important part of life, but not the whole of life, it should be subordinate to the cause and promote the development of the cause. Only when one's career is successful can love be better. Therefore, college students should put their studies first and straighten out the relationship between love and studies.

4. Know that love is a kind of dedication.

College students should know that love is not only taking, but also a kind of responsibility and dedication. Once college students enter the kingdom of love, they must have a strong sense of responsibility and dedication to work in order to obtain lofty love.

5. Understand and trust each other more.

Love is the unity of mutual love. Both parties who love each other have their own independent personality and spiritual world, and they can neither completely rely on each other nor demand complete possession of each other. Love, like being a man, understanding and trust are very valuable qualities.