In other words, this is not a good time to be negative. It’s not about trying to play rogue with others, but it’s about taking positive actions to influence and influence the other person, and promote

In other words, this is not a good time to be negative. It’s not about trying to play rogue with others, but it’s about taking positive actions to influence and influence the other person, and promote the situation to change for the better. As the saying goes, human hearts are made of flesh. No matter how big the gap in understanding between the two parties is, as long as we are good at using actions to prove our sincerity, we will make the other party think. Jing'an came to understand our painstaking efforts. Jump out of the stubborn box, that is when we will throw out hope.

Third, use the power of a smile, always be polite, present facts, and make sense with a smile on your face, and always appear in situations where the other party can see you. For example, his office, home, etc., and he must be on time every time, making the other party feel as if he is at work. Came here at 1 o'clock. In this way, the other party can always see himself within his field of vision, and he can always think of his own affairs.

Fourth, use clever words to attack people’s hearts at the right time. Sometimes when we ask for help, the other party refuses to do it. It’s not because we don’t want to do it, but because we have practical difficulties or have doubts. At this time, if we just rely on action to soak. It is difficult to work, and it may even make the other party angry and annoyed, which is not conducive to getting things done. If you encounter this situation, the skill of speaking is very important. To be considerate, grasp the crux of the problem, and use language skillfully to hollow out is the key to happiness. When you get to the point, you knock on the door to the other person's heart. Then your model. That's when it really worked.

The fifth "grinding" is a kind of quiet politeness, waiting for the other party to reply as soon as possible, and not making the other party feel that you are deliberately looking for trouble. If you deliberately affect his work and rest, you must be as reasonable as possible and minimize the interference to the other party, so that you can succeed. "Grind" can not reveal its edge. Don't mention what you want to do, just keep getting close to the other person, let the other person know more about you, sympathize with you, and thus develop a willingness to help you. That is to say, find ways to get close to the other person, or get close to the other person's family, and use various methods to build a good relationship with them, and get closer emotionally to this emotional "run-in". The other party is hard to refuse.