If girls can't have children, can boys accept it?

I think most people can't accept this realistic society and this world where interests are paramount. Especially in rural areas, it is even more unacceptable. In the countryside, no child will be laughed at and pointed at. I can't blame the old man It's just that women are unlucky and have no choice.

If she can give birth to a child, she and the man are still a happy couple, just a trick. After all, children are the foundation, hope, sustenance and indispensable part of a family's stability and happiness, which is unacceptable to 99% families.

Now I am a dink, but when I am old, I have no service. Lonely, want to cry, life is very difficult. Therefore, women who don't have children in China are not accepted by boys in most cases and feel that they can't lift their heads.

Go and see those couples who insist on dink. Later, when they were old, the man gave birth to a child and finally divorced his wife. It's everywhere. In real life, if the man is infertile, he will probably adopt a child, and if the woman is infertile, she will probably divorce.

Some people will say that there will always be exceptional men, but there are exceptions in everything, but who can guarantee that every woman who can't have children can meet that exceptional man? And even if men don't mind, don't men's families necessarily mind?

Look at the previous programs about Chen Songling and Zhang Duo. What's her mother-in-law's attitude towards Chen Can because she can't have children? Look at the marriage and family situation in Christy Chung and Yi Nengjing. Children are often not a couple's business, and even affect a big family.

Don't say anything special, most families in China are like this. There was a colleague who had a good relationship with her husband and talked for a long time, but because of her own physical reasons, it was not easy to get pregnant. At that time, it happened that her parents were in hospital, which was equivalent to worrying about her own health, going to the hospital to accompany her, going to work during the day, and the nature of her work was not good. Finally, the mother-in-law will encourage her son to divorce on the grounds of infertility.

Fortunately, my colleagues are very lucky. The difficulty of pregnancy is not infertility. Finally, she recovered. Later, she also gave birth to two children in succession. Now the family is happy, but she once told us that she was forced by this matter and almost asked for a divorce. Fortunately, she has no impulse.

Not every man can accept that he can't have children, but really not every man can accept it. Even if boys can accept it, I don't think parents will accept it, because parents' thoughts are still stuck in carrying on the family line and providing for the elderly. No young and open mind. The most important thing to find a daughter-in-law is to have a descendant.

So as far as the present society is concerned, it is difficult for most people to accept it. After all, the idea of carrying on the family line in traditional culture is still deeply rooted, and it will be less in a few decades, but the mainstream thought will always hope for future generations.

But what can I say? It depends. Sometimes when you meet true love, you can find Dink's boy. After two people work together, choose Dink or adopt a child, and life can be very happy. If a girl has the ability, find a boyfriend to fall in love, not talk about marriage. Life will be much simpler.

Children are the cornerstone of a stable family. If there are no children, I believe many people will choose divorce. After all, married life is too tired, life is not a fairy tale, and there are too many trivial things in life. Anyway, I think my married life is a chicken feather. My heart is too tired. In order to give children a complete home, as long as it is not a mistake in principle, I will accompany them.