Who is the irony of "teaching what not to do, calling parents first"?

Parents send banners to teachers: it is also a shocking move to teach parents what not to do and call them the first.

On the surface, this parent seems to satirize the teacher's incompetence in teaching in this way and put the responsibility of education management on the parents.

In fact, it is not necessarily the teachers who are sarcastic in this way, but also the parents themselves.

There is a simple reason. Parents who send banners can do a survey to find out if other parents in their children's class are often called by teachers.

If other parents, like themselves, are often called by teachers, it really shows that there is something wrong with teachers' educational methods, at least it can show that teachers have some problems in dealing with the relationship between home and school.

But if other parents in the child's class are not often called by the teacher, it means that there is something wrong with the child. So, where do children's problems come from? From home, of course. So, parents are actually bring disgrace to oneself.

Education is a trinity of family, school and society, which cooperate with each other. Family education is the foundation of the whole education.

Some people compare family education to root education and school education to branch education.

Imagine, if there are problems with the education of the roots, can the education of the branches be good?

At present, local education is becoming more and more disharmonious, and school troubles occur frequently. On the one hand, some teachers do have some problems themselves, on the other hand, some parents do not cooperate with the school, do not support the teachers, make troubles without reason and protect their children.

In either case, it is not conducive to children's education and growth.

In order to make children grow up healthily and receive better education, it is necessary to realize home-school cooperation.

According to official rumors, the incident was false news. In fact, a little analysis can tell that it must be false. First of all, how can there be such tough parents? Your child is still in the hands of the teacher. What will happen if you send this banner? People send similar pennants to the property, and the other party has no hostages.

In addition, no teacher can call parents every day. By reducing to absurdity, suppose there is such a teacher. How often does he call his parents? Suppose you call each student's parents once a week, and each class counts as 40 students. Then the teacher meets eight parents every day, and each parent meets for 30 minutes. Then the teacher needs 4 hours to see his parents every day. Do you think this teacher is stupid? It would be nice to have this time to sit and have a rest with tea. Why do you want to do something thankless?

If only one parent is called, it is even more necessary to reflect. Why not call other parents, just yourself? It must be your child's bad behavior or frequent violation of discipline. Teachers can't go looking for trouble to see their parents, can they?

So for some things on the internet, don't blindly follow the trend, first consider the truth of the matter.

This kind of parent is the second child, learning to send banners to the property with others. A child's first teacher is a parent. Children's poor study at school is largely a continuation of the state at home. When the parent is 250, the child must be 250. When he sent the pennant, he thought it was a joke for the teacher, but it was actually an ironic joke for himself. I guess he feels good about himself.

However, after investigation by the police, the names of schools and teachers mentioned in the banner were not found. It's just a false alarm, because I have nothing to do after dinner and want to be an online celebrity.

However, this incident reflects that it is not a case for school teachers to call their parents to school when their pedagogy is very vivid, but a common fact. Therefore, the occurrence of this incident is not groundless.

Then, from the banner: Who is the irony of teaching what not to do and calling parents first?

I think it's not just satirizing the teacher. How can the educational problems it reflects be like this? Why don't teachers live like teachers? And parents who are often called by teachers are very angry.

Experts have spoken very well about the existing educational problems. I won't repeat it.

As for teachers who don't live like teachers? I have a say in this question, because I am a teacher. Nowadays, when educating students, teachers can say that they dare not manage it, and there is no way to manage it. They are afraid of getting into trouble or even losing their jobs. There is nothing wrong with the teacher asking parents to come to school to educate their children in a collaborative way. It will be better for teachers and parents to educate their children together. However, parents don't think so.

Parents are never to be taunted. If parents are called too much, they will be very annoyed, such as sending banners to teachers. If you don't call your parents, you can't control their children. The children are in trouble. When a child has an accident, parents will make trouble. Why don't parents ask if their children are excellent? Wait a minute.

Hehe, this parent is also one-track-minded Shouldn't we be involved in children's growth? You are the first guardian of the child. If you think that you can be the shopkeeper who cuts and relaxes by pushing your children to school, it is all wet.

If your child's grades are really messy and the class is at the bottom, it's the children's intelligence, study habits, family education, low level of teachers and irresponsible teachers, isn't it? ...

Poor grades are not the responsibility of your parents, but the responsibility of your own school and education authorities.

We don't know the specific reasons. Parents should correctly understand this matter. If they go their own way, the child will still get hurt in the end.

The greatest success of a family is the success of children's education, and the greatest failure is the failure of children's education. I advise you not to be a shopkeeper when your children grow up, but to grow up with them.

Zhang Anbang talks about things in Wulin-

The poor tell fortune, the rich burn incense, and the nobles invite teachers! Zhang Anbang will tell you these three words that he understands first. At the end of the year, we get together for a meal. We seldom meet each other all the year round and talk about our respective businesses and industry trends next year. This is fortune telling, listening to other people's analysis of the industry. I will earn more subsidized households next year than this year; I often go to temples, and all the people who burn incense are well-off families, mostly middle class. Although they survived this stage, they began to pursue inner peace and seek peace of mind, which in itself is the demand for material things at a certain stage; A noble man seeks a teacher, but a man struggles upwards. Not rich is expensive. Noble people believe in Buddhism and believe in themselves. If they want to be independent, they will inherit their wealth. Whether they can keep their wealth depends on the ability of their descendants. How did they acquire their abilities? Tigers also need cats as teachers. Of course, people who are the spirits of all things know, but what is the most expensive in this world is not houses and cars, but people, talents, famous doctors, teachers and sensible people. Having said that, everyone knows that a master is a rare thing, and a noble person uses the best because his resources are the best. Understand what I said, and then talk about the problem itself!

Seeing this sentence, I am deeply touched. Today, I speak my mind, tell the truth, and say something that no one likes to hear. Everything is the best arrangement. Why are our children in this school? Why is the head teacher him, not someone else's? Everything is the most suitable match. If you can give your child the freedom to register as a student, other people's homes can also be yours. Of course, what Zhang Anbang said is extreme. Money is not the solution to all problems, but it can solve most problems. In the final analysis, it is our own ability to integrate resources that restricts children from receiving a better education. What you can't see in school can be seen outside the school, and what the class teacher can't see can be seen outside the school. What if we can't do it? Making the child's current configuration the best is the only better opportunity for the child. It's no use complaining. My parents and I are poor. It took me half my life to understand this simple truth!

I teach boxing for a living. Many children from home and abroad come to learn boxing every year. I have taught thousands of people. Many people come to learn boxing just to open a museum to teach students and gain fame and fortune. Like me, peaches and plums are everywhere, and disciples are all over China. By the way, their cars and houses have been solved. I told them that reading is the way with the highest success rate, and eating martial arts meals is not as successful as reading. Many people don't understand this truth. If the teacher scolds him, the teacher makes it difficult for parents, and parents can't stand it. Blx, you can't stand anything on your face, let alone the hardships in your career. I may have said too much, but I still wonder why the teacher is like this.

Take education in Nanjing as an example. Teachers in famous public schools are very polite, but the children's business is still your business. Of course, it is also a fact that the interview of famous schools is strict and the admission is based on merit. As a result of the death of middle school, the future of these children can be up and down, crowded and easy to fall; Poor schools, teachers and students, teachers and parents, every day is a discipline problem, small contradictions between children, each child only does one thing a week, dozens of children, teachers should not pay attention to learning. Teachers are willing to give parents a hard time. This kind of teacher with poor emotional intelligence is still suitable for some parents who are busy with small businesses. He can repeatedly urge you to help their children with their homework. Think about it, he can send you away without losing his temper or urging you. Is this a fact? It's no use being angry with the teacher. Angry at your social level, jump on it. You are poor, and I won't give you a good one!

My senior is in primary school, and I occasionally talk about boxing in primary and secondary schools. It is not easy to be a class teacher. As long as you are willing to take responsibility, it is really difficult to be in a good mood. Because of work maintenance, I often go out to eat. At seven or eight o'clock in the evening, someone suddenly said, I'm busy for a while, turn on my mobile phone, and it must be a primary and secondary school teacher, start approving homework, supervise the progress of parents in the group and so on. Who wants this? Teachers may be harassed at any time. What are you and me? There are thirty people in the class, only one thirtieth. The head teacher is the only one. Who do you think should be forgiven?

Indeed, some class teachers can't set an example and their personalities are worrying. These are rare in the education industry. If you happen to meet them, read what I wrote carefully twice, just for the sake of children!

The pictures in the article are all my senior sister, because she grew up in the martial arts school, so I have this title. Like all parents, I hope my children are healthy and happy!

Who is the irony of "teaching what not to do, calling parents first"? Obviously, this move is actually satirizing parents themselves!

Children's education is a comprehensive project, which is a comprehensive function of family education, school education and social environment. Any sober parent will clearly realize that among these factors, family education is the key.

The reason why this parent-teacher meeting made such a childish and ridiculous move may be because he himself knows nothing about the role and obligations that parents should play, and he still lives in the naive idea that "I send my children to school, and the teacher should take full responsibility, so I don't care, leave me alone".

In school education, as a frontline teacher, there are too many responsibilities. There is no perfect education system and no perfect teachers. Teachers are not lawn mowers above students and have no obligation to solve all children's problems. What's more, the overall environment is different now, with high requirements for teachers and low tolerance. In addition to teaching, teachers also have Nissan management, safety affairs and so on. Teachers must seek the help of their parents in some things.

On the one hand, the teacher actively seeks the help of parents to prove that he is a responsible teacher; On the other hand, it also shows that children's education really needs the help of parents. If parents realize that good communication with teachers is the best help for their children, they will not stand on the opposite side of teachers and make such ridiculous and childish actions that harm others and do not benefit themselves.

There is a saying that loving children means supporting teachers. If you can effectively interact with schools and teachers and help children better, then the biggest beneficiary of children's education is yourself. Therefore, if you understand this simple logic, you will know how to face your children's teachers and how to communicate with them: be considerate, understand, support and cooperate with teachers, and learn to communicate rationally instead of just venting negative emotions. This is the attitude that a mature parent should have.

I am "Sasha Jiajia stands up", the mother of two children, a media person, and I explore the test-taking routines of family education research after work. Share test-oriented dry goods and deliver positive energy.

Parents of students can't do this. Teachers and parents have the responsibility and obligation to educate their children. Children's poor academic performance, don't blame the teacher! Don't your parents have responsibilities and obligations? It's your own child!

I am a teacher and a parent. In my opinion, parents can scream, but they should scream less.

Education is complicated, and the main position of compulsory education is in schools. Teachers need to use their own teaching experience, appropriate educational methods and multi-angle educational measures to deal with educational problems. Parents should cooperate with the school to do a good job in education, but it is not a very special situation. Teachers can't always call their parents to school. Parents have their own jobs, families, teachers call their parents at any time, parents need to ask for leave, some jobs are not easy to ask for leave, and some parents are far from school. I heard that some high schools let parents study by themselves every week and leave study notes for parents. It's really too much. The school treats parents as students. In this way, how can parents work with peace of mind, and where does the huge cost of students' life, study and make up lessons come from?

Nowadays, it is too difficult to be a parent. Please be kind to them.

It is better to be a teacher. If you learn well, it's because teachers teach well and poor grades make students stupid. There is no risk, wages and bonuses are appropriate, and there is no risk. Unlike a doctor, it's risky and there's a lawsuit waiting for you at any time. Not very popular, speechless.