What should I do if I lose my business and my family falls out?

Jinling Changfeng Xuan answers for you:

Let me tell you a story first:

A farmer, who only attended junior high school for two years, has no money at home to continue his education. He dropped out of school and went home to help his father cultivate three acres of thin land. When he was 19 years old, his father died, and the burden of his family was all on his shoulders. He has to take care of his poor mother and a grandmother who is paralyzed in bed.

in the 198s, farmland was contracted to households. He dug a puddle into a pond and wanted to raise fish. But the village cadres told him that fish could not be raised in paddy fields, only crops could be planted, so he had to fill the pond. This incident became a joke. In the eyes of others, he is a very stupid person who wants to get rich.

Hearing that raising chickens can make money, he borrowed money from his relatives in 5 yuan and raised chickens. But after a flood, the chickens got chicken plague and all died within a few days. 5 yuan may be nothing to others, but it is astronomical to a family living on only three acres of barren land. His mother couldn't handle this stimulus and died of depression.

Later, he made wine, caught fish, and even made a hole in the cliff of a stone mine ... but he didn't make any money.

at the age of p>35, he had not married a wife. Even divorced women with children despise him. Because he only has a mud house, it may collapse at any time after a heavy rain. A man who can't marry a wife is looked down upon by no one in the countryside.

But he still wanted to take a chance, so he borrowed money to buy a tractor. Unexpectedly, less than half a month on the road, this tractor carried him into a river. He broke a leg and became lame. And the tractor, which was fished up, was in pieces, so he had to take it apart and sell it as scrap iron.

almost everyone said that his life was over.

but later he became the boss of a company in my city, with assets of 2 million yuan. Now, many people know his bitter past and legendary entrepreneurial experience. Many media have interviewed him and many reportages have described him. But I only remember such a plot-

The reporter asked him, "Why don't you back down again and again in a miserable day?"

He sat behind the big and luxurious boss desk and drank a glass of water in his hand. Then, he held the glass cup in his hand and asked the reporter, "What will happen to this cup if I let go?"

The reporter said, "It fell to the ground and broke."

"Then let's give it a try." He said.

as soon as he released his hand, the cup fell to the ground and made a crisp sound, but it was not broken, but intact. He said: "Even if there are 1 people present, they will think that this cup will definitely break. However, this cup is not an ordinary glass, but made of glass fiber reinforced plastic. "

so, I remembered this classic and wonderful dialogue. Such a person, even if he has only one breath, will try to hold the hand of success, unless God deprives him of his life ...

We will certainly encounter many difficulties in life, and the key is to see how we treat them. No matter when, we have to have a heart of FRP ourselves! You only have 18, yuan left, which is not much. As long as you work hard, you will get better soon!

good luck! Get out of trouble as soon as possible!