Common sense of novice parents

1. What should novice parents pay attention to?

Many people don't know the common sense of parenting. The world of two people, which has always been carefree, has been in a hurry because of the birth of a baby-this is the status quo of many young families with new babies.

Many novice parents always have a lot of funny things because they don't know the common sense of parenting or how to deal with emergencies. Let's look at some real examples of parents who are confused. Just change the brand of milk powder. Wenwen's mother was originally a careless person. Since she became pregnant, friends around her often laughed at her as a "child with children".

Wenwen's mother really made many jokes after she became a mother. She told reporters that the most "oolong" is the child's "milk powder incident."

It turned out that Wen Wen's mother's colleagues and friends sent a lot of milk powder as gifts. At that time, Wenwen still mainly drank breast milk, so they didn't decide which brand to drink, so Wenwen's mother's colleagues and friends made their own decisions and sent various brands of milk powder. After more than 8 months of weaning, Wenwen's mother began to feed Wenwen with milk powder. However, Wenwen's mother took turns giving Wenwen different brands of milk powder. She always tries four or five brands. At first, she thought it was a good practice, because the formulas of various brands of milk powder were different, and she thought it would be more balanced to drink regularly. Later, when she read the newspaper, she discovered that the child's gastrointestinal adaptability was poor and often.

After reading the report, Wenwen's mother finally understood: "I will never change milk powder again." The child cried and was helpless. Miss Wang used to be an art teacher in a middle school. She gave birth to a son this year. Now the baby is almost 10 months. Because her parents are in poor health and can't help take care of the baby, Miss Wang simply resigned and became a full-time mother at home.

Miss Wang said that she and her husband have no experience in raising children, and the only thing they can rely on is books. They bought five or six classic parenting books recommended online, such as Parenting Encyclopedia, Parenting Must Read and Baby Feeding Monthly Talk. When they encounter something they don't understand, they will find the answer in the book. However, books are only theoretical knowledge after all, so many jokes have been made.

According to Miss Wang, at first, I didn't know why the baby was crying. After leaving the hospital and going home, the baby cried at home for the first time. Teacher Wang's husband hurried to look through the books to find the answer. According to this book, the baby may cry because he is hungry, too cold, too hot, or uncomfortable. So, Miss Wang and Mr. Wang adopted the "exclusion method" to solve the problem. First, they fed the child, but the child continued to cry without eating. Then they explored the child's hot and cold, and found that the temperature seemed to be fine. Finally, they only showed it to the children once. Is it uncomfortable? But I don't seem to find any problems.

Just as the couple were anxious like ants on hot bricks, the child suddenly stopped crying. At first glance, the baby actually fell asleep, and then he realized that the baby was just sleeping, hoping that his parents would put him to sleep and lose his temper. The pacifier was stuffed under her daughter's tongue, and Lily and her husband Thomas thought they were confused parents.

Both of them were born in the 1980s and became parents at the age of 26. Lily is still on maternity leave after her daughter's full moon. During the day, she takes care of the children at home without asking a nanny for help. In the evening, Lily and her husband Thomas take turns on duty.

Lily said that the most interesting thing is that Mr Thomas feeds his daughter with a bottle. During that time, my daughter was less than a month old, and the action of opening her mouth to drink milk was not very skilled. On several occasions, when Thomas was feeding his daughter milk, he would seize the opportunity to "pry open" her mouth with a bottle and put the nipple in it, but many times her daughter always made a "oops" sound while drinking. At first, they thought it was her daughter who didn't like to drink milk from bottles, but later they found out the problem. It turned out that Thomas, who was confused, was in a hurry to put the nipple in his daughter's mouth and didn't notice the position of the nipple. He even put the pacifier under his daughter's tongue. As a result, the baby must be very anxious when he can't drink milk.

Thomas realized that nursing the baby should pay attention to such details. Tips for getting started: reading books and learning from others is a brand-new challenge for novice parents.

If novice parents want to get on the road quickly, "theory plus practice" is the most basic way. To sum up, novice parents can practice and explore according to the following cheats.

Cheat 1: reading a lot of books is the easiest way to understand the common sense of parenting, and it is also the most convenient for novice parents to understand the problems that their children may encounter in each growth process. But now there are many books on parenting, and how to choose the most suitable one is also a science.

It is understood that at present, many mothers unanimously recommend a parenting book compiled by Matsuda, a famous Japanese pediatrician. Although this book was written in the 1960s, it has been revised and reprinted in the past 40 years, becoming the most popular parenting textbook in Asia. Because this book was written by Dr. Song Tianbo, it explains in detail the physiological characteristics, feeding methods and abnormal conditions of children in different periods, which not only covers the crystallization of several generations' parenting experience, but also has strong practicability. In addition, the best-selling parenting books at present also include books to develop the baby's intelligence, such as how to play games with children, parent-child entertainment and other books, which are also suitable for novice parents to read and practice.

Cheat 2: Participate in various free training courses. Many expectant fathers and mothers during pregnancy have received many such notices. They can go to a place at a certain time to attend a free parenting course, which not only includes matters needing attention in pregnancy and childbirth, but also teaches novice parents how to take care of newborn babies. However, due to their busy work, many prospective parents always miss these opportunities easily.

In fact, such courses are often free courses provided by hospitals or infant product brands, and senior doctors or parenting experts will be invited as speakers. The content is practical, and many courses will also arrange audience to practice on the spot. It is suggested that novice parents have time to participate as much as possible, from which they can get a lot of real parenting knowledge. Trick 3: learn from the elderly and nannies. Nowadays, some young parents always.

2. What details should novice parents pay attention to?

1: Newborns with many quilts should use heavy quilts as little as possible, and the quilt should not be too tightly pressed on the baby's hand, which will limit the baby's hand movement. When the quilt covers the face, the baby's hands can't save themselves.

The correct way, if it is cold, is to put a sleeveless sleeping bag/pajamas on the baby's thin clothes, and then cover it with a thin air-conditioned quilt, so that hands can be exposed from the quilt to prevent self-defense in case of accidents. 2. Measuring the temperature under the armpit to measure the baby's body temperature: It is not accurate enough to touch by hand, and it is difficult to grasp it with an underarm thermometer, because the baby is easy to move, and it is not suitable to use an underarm thermometer; Oral temperature is also affected by drinking water, diet and breathing.

Therefore, the better method to measure the baby's temperature is ear temperature/forehead temperature, which is convenient, fast and accurate. But no matter what kind of thermometer you use to measure your child's temperature, don't do it after the child has just taken a shower and fed milk.

And parents should not leave when taking their children's temperature. 3: Don't cry, don't make trouble, and eat normally. The baby doesn't cry, doesn't make trouble, and eats normally. This shows that the baby's daily life and mood are fine. The baby may be related to external factors such as being too hot and feeding the baby the night before.

Because the underarm temperature is 37 degrees, you need to add 0. 3~0。

5 degrees, the baby's temperature was about 37. 5 degrees.

The normal temperature of children is 36. 9-37。

5 degrees, the baby is still in the body temperature, it is normal for the mother to worry, but if the child "doesn't cry or make trouble, it is normal to eat", then the mother should be patient and continue to observe, instead of taking medicine immediately.

3. What artificial feeding skills do novice parents need to master?

Under normal circumstances, new mothers will breastfeed.

But artificial feeding is also good. The results of modern research show that the formula milk powder for artificial feeding is more and more close to the nutritional composition of breast milk. Therefore, if the baby is artificially fed, new parents don't have to worry. They should actively choose formula milk powder suitable for infants and master more comprehensive and scientific common sense of artificial feeding. Artificial feeding is different from breastfeeding. If you don't master the skills, it will easily lead to the baby spitting milk.

The following are some feeding skills that novice parents need to master: adjust the ratio of water to milk powder according to the instructions: the milk should have the right concentration. Too strong, easy to damage the baby's kidney function; Too thin, it is easy to cause insufficient nutritional supplement or spitting milk.

G nipple size should be suitable for the baby: the nipple is too big, which causes the baby to inhale too much air, causing stomach discomfort and inducing vomiting. The nipple is too small to satisfy the baby's desire to breastfeed.

Breastfeeding according to the baby's needs, don't wait until the baby is hungry. Manual feeding posture should be correct to prevent the baby from spitting milk: it is best not to lie flat on the bed, and the mother can hold the baby to feed.

4. What are the puzzles of novice parents?

Just change the brand of milk powder. Wenwen's mother was originally a careless person. Since she became pregnant, friends around her often laughed at her as a "child with children".

Wenwen's mother really made many jokes after she became a mother. She told reporters that the most "oolong" is the child's "milk powder incident."

It turned out that Wen Wen's mother's colleagues and friends sent a lot of milk powder as gifts. At that time, Wenwen still mainly drank breast milk, so they didn't decide which brand to drink, so Wenwen's mother's colleagues and friends made their own decisions and sent various brands of milk powder. After more than 8 months of weaning, Wenwen's mother began to feed Wenwen with milk powder. However, Wenwen's mother took turns giving Wenwen different brands of milk powder. She always tries four or five brands. At first, she thought it was a good practice, because the formulas of various brands of milk powder were different, and she thought it would be more balanced to drink regularly. Later, when she read the newspaper, she discovered that the child's gastrointestinal adaptability was poor and often.

After reading the report, Wenwen's mother finally understood: "I will never change milk powder again." The child cried and was helpless. Miss Wang used to be an art teacher in a middle school. She gave birth to a son this year. Now the baby is almost 10 months. Because her parents are in poor health and can't help take care of the baby, Miss Wang simply resigned and became a full-time mother at home.

Miss Wang said that she and her husband have no experience in raising children, and the only thing they can rely on is books. They bought five or six classic parenting books recommended online, such as Parenting Encyclopedia, Parenting Must Read and Baby Feeding Monthly Talk. When they encounter something they don't understand, they will find the answer in the book. However, books are only theoretical knowledge after all, so many jokes have been made.

According to Miss Wang, at first, I didn't know why the baby was crying. After leaving the hospital and going home, the baby cried at home for the first time. Teacher Wang's husband hurried to look through the books to find the answer. According to this book, the baby may cry because he is hungry, too cold, too hot, or uncomfortable. So, Miss Wang and Mr. Wang adopted the "exclusion method" to solve the problem. First, they fed the child, but the child continued to cry without eating. Then they explored the child's hot and cold, and found that the temperature seemed to be fine. Finally, they only showed it to the children once. Is it uncomfortable? But I don't seem to find any problems.

Just as the couple were anxious like ants on hot bricks, the child suddenly stopped crying. At first glance, the baby actually fell asleep, and then he realized that the baby was just sleeping, hoping that his parents would put him to sleep and lose his temper. The pacifier was stuffed under her daughter's tongue, and Lily and her husband Thomas thought they were confused parents.

Both of them were born in the 1980s and became parents at the age of 26. Lily is still on maternity leave after her daughter's full moon. During the day, she takes care of the children at home without asking a nanny for help. In the evening, Lily and her husband Thomas take turns on duty.

Lily said that the most interesting thing is that Mr Thomas feeds his daughter with a bottle. During that time, my daughter was less than a month old, and the action of opening her mouth to drink milk was not very skilled. On several occasions, when Thomas was feeding his daughter milk, he would seize the opportunity to "pry open" her mouth with a bottle and put the nipple in it, but many times her daughter always made a "oops" sound while drinking. At first, they thought it was her daughter who didn't like to drink milk from bottles, but later they found out the problem. It turned out that Thomas, who was confused, was in a hurry to put the nipple in his daughter's mouth and didn't notice the position of the nipple. He even put the pacifier under his daughter's tongue. As a result, the baby must be very anxious when he can't drink milk.

Thomas realized that nursing the baby should pay attention to such details. .