I have an appointment with my best friend to go out to play. She is often late. How can I express my dissatisfaction?

I have an appointment with my best friend to go out to play. She is often late. How can I express my dissatisfaction?

I like her most comfortable and relaxed state, so as a best friend, I don't need to change her, I just need to adapt to her change.

From this perspective, two equal relationships, whether love or friendship, will last longer.

My best friend likes being late. We have an appointment to go to the movies at 1:30 in the afternoon. Finally, watch a movie at 4:40 pm.

Many people find it incredible, but we have never argued about the concept of time.

On the one hand, because she is not sensitive to alarm clocks and time, as her friend, I know very well that sometimes she doesn't mean it. She can't control it. It is unfair to blame her.

On the other hand, I think my lifestyle should not ask my best friend, just as she didn't ask me to do anything. Two people with similar tastes should have the same pace of life, but they will always meet people with different pace of life but the same pace of thinking. It seems to be the nature of every girl to be late. At this time, you may have nothing to do with her, because even if you rush him again, you will still be late if you tell her in advance.

Faced with my girlfriend's abnormal view of time, I usually do the following two things:

1. If there is something very important that day, I must not be late. I will go to her house to wake her up in advance so as not to miss an important appointment.

2. If it is my girlfriend's daily party, I will prepare tools that can make me stay for more than 3 hours, maybe a book, maybe a charging treasure, maybe my computer. Then at the appointed time, while doing your own thing, go to a nearby bookstore or coffee shop to eat and drink, and wait for your best friend.

There are always people who know the story that I indulge my girlfriends and think that I have too many girlfriends and have been bullied too badly.

In fact, it's not who takes advantage of who, but where the other side can't help it. We give in to each other. In the field where I can't do anything, my best friend also accepts me, understands me, and treats me well again and again without complaining.

Being wrapped in such kindness and gentleness is the meaning of girlfriends.