What did the parents who didn't accompany their children to do their homework finally get?

Jokes like this are everywhere on the Internet.

I don't know when it started, and it has become a phenomenon to accompany your baby to write a composition. My parents never accompanied me to do my homework when I was a child. They didn't even ask me about my homework. They just want to do it, and they don't care about me if they don't want to do it. Maybe they think my homework is my business, not theirs!

In recent years, writing with children seems to be a popular trend. Many parents show their talents and don't want their babies to lose at the starting line.

To tell the truth, my baby didn't have the habit of accompanying him to do homework since he was a child. I remember when I was in elementary school, my dad told him: Do your own thing, do your own homework, check it after you finish, and if you need to sign it, take the initiative to ask your parents to sign it.

Sometimes the child wants his mother to accompany him to write, but his father refuses to accompany him and lets him finish it himself. I have to obey my father's decision in order to unify the educational methods.

My father and I are really worried about not doing homework with my baby. We don't seem to have really checked whether it is good or bad. We signed it when he asked for it, without really checking how his homework was done, whether the topic was done correctly, whether there were any typos and so on. We hardly noticed it. Eva's father said to Eva, I believe you can do it well. I always say that.

But what are the consequences of this?

First, the handwriting is not good, and the strokes are all wrong. You can write whatever you want, and it's easy to write. So, we enrolled him in a calligraphy class and studied for two years. At present, his writing style is reasonable.

Second, the degree of homework completion is not high, either this or that. Although the results are not the worst, they have been wandering in the middle and lower reaches. Dad's request is that primary school doesn't matter, as long as you can keep up. Take him out to play when you have time, and ask for leave to play when you don't have time. Anyway, he thinks playing is the main task of primary school. The head teacher in charge of the primary school commented on the child: No matter where it is, he can talk to you about Kan Kan.

Third, self-discipline is relatively poor. There is no one to supervise when doing homework. He is more free and totally depends on his own preferences. The concentration time is too short, and I can't sit still for a long time. I just want to play and touch it, even in class. The teacher also reminded me repeatedly that there are good times and bad times.

Not accompanying Eva to write a composition has disadvantages, and of course it has advantages.

Advantages 1: peace of mind. Because we don't have to do homework with him, we can do our own thing. Everyone is very busy and no one will bother anyone. Only when we meet a problem that we can't solve and need our help will we go over and explain it to him. There are almost no lions roaring, chickens flying and dogs jumping, and there are no soaring hypertension and myocardial infarction.

Advantage 2: With the growth of age, the baby gradually grows up and is sensible. She knows what she should and shouldn't do, and her self-discipline is getting better and better. Especially after she went to junior high school, she didn't have to worry about her homework, but she took the initiative to do it herself and looked up the questions online. We don't have to worry about it. If you need any study materials, you will tell us on your own initiative and let us buy them for him. Then someone will say: surfing the internet, doesn't he play games? I don't have to worry about that at all. My baby never plays games. I remember he said before: I don't play games. I know it may be addictive, so I don't play. Dad was particularly pleased to hear this. With such a baby, life is full!

At present, the baby is in junior high school, so don't worry about anything. She is sober. Even their head teacher said: The child has been trained successfully. Although there are some minor faults, he will become better as long as he is taught well!

In fact, we never worry about our children's future. We are most concerned about whether the children are happy and healthy. Everything else is the child's own business.