"Daughters' Love": Fan Kaijie does not cooperate with Li Shaminzi, Zhang Yuqi and Li Bingxi are enviable

By looking at the problem from God’s perspective, you can indeed quickly discover the root cause of the problem. "Daughters' Love" has this kind of God's perspective. For example, in the first episode that has been broadcast, the relationship between Li Shaminzi and Fan Kaijie can be said to be very unsatisfactory, while Zhang Yuqi and Li Pingxi are an exciting couple. Everyone envied CP, and many viewers expressed that Zhang Yuqi had found a good boyfriend this time.

(1) Li Shaminzi Even Li Shaminzi's father couldn't help crying because he felt sorry for his daughter. In the first issue, they went to Hainan for a trip. Because the weather was too hot, Fan Kaijie was a little irritable, which led to a very bad attitude towards Li Shaminzi. When Li Shaminzi asked to play the drums, Fan Kaijie was a hundred thousand dissatisfied. She was willing. In the end, although Li Shaminzi agreed to accompany her to play the drums, she was still very uncooperative, making Li Shaminzi very unhappy. Li Shaminzi's father, who saw all this in front of the screen, couldn't help feeling sorry for his daughter and shed tears. Li Shaminzi was the treasure held in the palm of his father's hand, but she was treated like this by her boyfriend. Her father's treatment of Fan Kaijie The impression was even worse.

(2) Zhang Yuqi x Li Pingxi

This couple received a lot of praise when the first episode was broadcast. Everyone lamented that Li Bingxi's three views were very upright. Regarding Zhang Yuqi's soul torture, Li Bingxi also answered very responsibly and soberly. Li Bingxi first has a clear self-awareness. He will first consider whether his current ability can support Zhang Yuqi before replying to her answer. This is It shows that he is very responsible and does not just talk empty words to make girls happy. He said that although he doesn't have the ability now, he will always have it, which shows that he is willing to work hard to make himself better for Zhang Yuqi. He is also really attentive to Zhang Yuqi. He can learn to cook Sichuan cuisine for Zhang Yuqi and learn things that he is not good at

(3) Comparison of two couples

Although the two couples The couple are both siblings, but the two couples have obviously different feelings. In the pilot film, Lee Shamin-ja gave everyone the impression of a "love brain". As expected, in the first feature film, Lee Shamin-ja was responsible for the entire trip, from the strategy to the daily trivial matters. , but Fan Kaijie didn't seem to care much, and it seemed that Li Shaminzi was very humble in this relationship. In contrast, the pairing of Zhang Yuqi and Li Pingxi is different. First of all, Li Pingxi's answer of "the world is awake" has been praised by observers and audiences. Then, Li Pingxi cooked Sichuan cuisine and the two of them completed the dance lesson together. , all give people a feeling that this is love. Among the two relationships, the love between Li Pingxi and Zhang Yuqi is an equal love. Li Pingxi takes care of Zhang Yuqi meticulously, and even learns to do things that he is not good at for each other, while Fan Kaijie does not care for Li Shaminzi. Complete lack of care. Not only was she very dissatisfied with Li Shaminzi's schedule, but it also made Li Shaminzi a little embarrassed. Throughout the issue, Li Shaminzi was taking care of Fan Kaijie's feelings, but Fan Kaijie did not take into account Li Shaminzi's feelings. Saminzi, is this still an equal love?

(1) Don’t be “love-brained” in love

“Love-brained” is really not a good sign in a relationship. Putting all your energy and thoughts on the other person is good in the short term, but over time, the other person will soon feel tired and bored. When you love someone, it is often easy to impose your own ideas on others. For example, Li Shaminzi specially chose a restaurant with a drum performance in front of Fan Kaijie, but Fan Kaijie didn't like it because he likes the sea, so he chose Went to Hainan, but Fan Kaijie felt hot. Li Shaminzi took care of Fan Kaijie's feelings throughout the whole process, and even prepared his daily necessities for him. As long as Fan Kaijie was happy, Li Shaminzi was happy, but she paid so much for Fan Kaijie, It seems that many of them are not satisfactory to Fan Kaijie.

(2) The relationship that gives to each other can last long

In the first issue, we can see that in the pair of Li Shaminzi and Fan Kaijie, only Li Shaminzi is giving, and The pairing of Zhang Yuqi and Li Pingxi both sides are giving, so it gives people a good feeling. In sweet idol dramas, the emotions in them are two-way, which is why they appear sweet. Likewise, the dedication in the relationship is the same. For example, Li Pingxi cooked Sichuan cuisine for Zhang Yuqi, and Zhang Yuqi was worried about whether Li Pingxi's hand would be injured. Only by giving to each other like this can a harmonious atmosphere be created. The two finally went to learn to dance, and their tacit understanding was also displayed in this session. After they came out, they were very cooperative with each other, so this relationship was beautiful in everyone's eyes. If like Li Shaminzi and Fan Kaijie, only the woman is always giving, this is a relationship that will not last long.

(3) Communication is the basis for reducing conflicts

Judging from the journey of Li Shaminzi and Fan Kaijie, the two lacked communication when making strategies. This time the travel guide was all taken care of by Li Shaminzi alone, and there may be little or no participation from Fan Kaijie. As soon as he arrived in Hainan, Fan Kaijie kept saying that it was very hot, so he had no interest in playing later. It was obvious from the beginning that there was a lack of communication between the two. Li Shaminzi knew that Fan Kaijie didn’t like summer, but she chose such a hot place. If she had discussed it with Fan Kaijie when she first formulated the strategy, she might have chosen a place that was not so hot. There is a place with sea. Another example would be if Li Shaminzi asked Fan Kaijie when choosing a restaurant, and she might not have such an embarrassing scene. It can be seen here that communication is really important. Only through communication can we understand each other. It is not too late to create surprises with real understanding.

Judging from the first issue, Fan Kaijie’s approach was really not very good and he did not take care of Li Shaminzi at all, while Li Pingxi was obviously much better, and his tacit understanding with Zhang Yuqi was also very good. I hope that next time Hopefully Fan Kaijie can change everyone's impression of him.