It is often not an outsider who can't hide you, but these acquaintances around you.

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Believe it or not, it is often not outsiders but acquaintances around you who can't hide your good life.

not only that, they are also afraid that you will have a better life than them.

such people, no matter who they are, are not worth continuing to associate with. Because you never know when he will suddenly break your heart, or try to hurt you, making it difficult for you to turn over again.

at that time, it's impossible to prevent, and you may not be able to fight back at all.

Human nature can't stand the test. The more you trust blindly, the easier it is to suffer. In life, it is often you who are too soft-hearted and kind-hearted and honest.

if someone often does this to you, there is no doubt that he really can't see how you are.

one: I always like to dig at you.

More than ten years ago, Xiaoyan and her husband stumbled into the marriage hall, which was not as beautiful and complete as everyone imagined. In short, in the eyes of relatives and friends, they were not a good couple.

But fate is sometimes hard to say clearly.

With Xiaoyan's running-in and getting along with her husband, the relationship between them is getting better and better, and what people predicted did not happen, such as a restless life, or eventually ending in divorce.

According to common sense, relatives and friends around you should give blessings and be full of comfort, but Xiaoyan's second aunt is different.

Every time I pick up Xiaoyan's mother's phone, before Xiaoyan's mother can speak, my second aunt's first sentence is always: "Sister-in-law, did Xiaoyan break up with her husband?"

Xiaoyan's mother is also very puzzled. Why does she always care about Xiaoyan's relationship with her husband when there is nothing else on the phone every time?

However, Xiaoyan's mother didn't think much about it, thinking that it was also the concern of relatives. Who made Xiaoyan and her husband have so much unhappiness when they got married? It is no wonder that others ask more questions and think more. My second aunt just loves to worry.

After a few years, Xiaoyan and her husband's life is booming, and the feelings of the young couple are getting sweeter. But what I didn't expect was that my aunt's daughter Lili was divorced.

At that time, when Lili got married, it was completely different from Xiaoyan's wedding scene.

Lili and her husband are in love, and they entered the marriage hall with the blessing of relatives and friends. No one would have thought that Lili's marriage could go wrong.

But life is such a surprise-Lili is divorced.

Relatives are afraid that the second aunt will feel sad, and they will enlighten her from time to time, or ask the second aunt out to distract the brothers and sisters.

On one occasion, just as Xiaoyan's mother advised her second aunt to relax, she suddenly became angry and said to Xiaoyan's mother, "You don't have to read my jokes. Don't think that your little Xiaoyan is doing well now, but she will be fine in the future."

this sentence immediately stunned Xiaoyan's mother. Xiaoyan's mother realized why her second aunt used to call and always ask Xiaoyan about her husband.

It turned out that Aunt Yan wanted Xiaoyan's unhappiness to set off Lili's happiness, but it didn't turn out to be what she wanted.

two: double-dealing, like to slander you behind your back

There is another kind of person who is always double-dealing and seemingly good to you, but in fact, he stabbed you in the back from time to time, and it is difficult for you to notice.

friend Jia Jia has a relative.

Jia Jia is still unmarried at the age of 3. When she comes home on holidays, she is always gossiped by relatives and friends, and one of her relatives is particularly concerned about her marriage. Not only help Zhang Luo believe in the object, but also do Jia Jia's parents' homework from time to time, hoping that parents can persuade her more.

I thought she meant well, but later I learned that she was watching Jia Jia's jokes behind her back and kept slandering her, saying that Jia Jia was dressed beautifully and didn't know where the money came from.

even, it is said that she found a rich man outside, and her life was so moist.

This duplicitous person really practices the evil of human nature to the extreme. Jia Jia sees through her and naturally won't contact her. She just loves her parents and will suffer together.

3: You live a good life, he is jealous of you, and you live a bad life, he laughs at your jokes.

People who like to meddle are never in the minority in life. No matter whether they are friends or relatives, there are always some people who are particularly interested in other people's family affairs or private affairs.

but you never know what these people are worried about.

There is a kind of person who, when you live a good life, will not sincerely bless you, but will be jealous of you and try to slander you and frame you; When you have a bad time, he is happy instead.

He will feel particularly balanced and comfortable. Not only that, but he will also read your jokes, taunt you and laugh at you whenever he has the chance, especially when he's down.

Such people are often small-minded, narrow-minded, and extremely poor in character. They have never been sincere to you. Don't expect him to correct them. It is the best policy to stay away.

why don't we envy billionaires, but people around us who are similar to us? This is human nature, so those who can't see how you are are often not outsiders, but acquaintances around them.

but anyway, after seeing it clearly, there is no need to continue to pay.

Sincerity is very expensive, so it must be reserved for those who really deserve it. Those who can't see how you are, those who always slander you behind your back, hurt you and are often jealous of you, no matter who you are, don't contact.