What is the best way to stop parents from urging marriage?

I suggest that you can show my answer to your parents.

I dare not call myself a senior marriage lawyer, but I have worked for many years and have a thorough understanding, research and analysis of hundreds of divorce cases. I'm not bragging. Judging from the marriage experience, not to mention my parents, even my grandparents and all my relatives can't compare with me.

Parents can't simply judge others by their own standards, and take it for granted that their marriage experience is acceptable, and the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, so is the child's marriage.

I don't know why the younger generation now has higher spiritual requirements than their elders, but lower endurance limits. All I know is that it's true.

This fact will cause young couples who are forced by their parents to wear so-called hats of responsibility and filial piety to experience the happiness of marriage but taste the pain of marriage. Long-term, trivial and endless repeated torture will lead to their emotional problems and even mental illness.

For today's young people, an inappropriate marriage is like walking 10 km in worn-out shoes. It's bloody and painful, but I don't know when I can get rid of it. It's really easy to go wrong, and no matter how strong the willpower is, it can't force the wound to heal.

I'm not alarmist. As far as I'm concerned, the cost of psychotherapy is much higher than the lawyer's fee. Improper marriage is not support, but destruction for the only child who is now spoiled and growing up smoothly. If you want to think clearly, it is easy to destroy and too difficult to rebuild! I can guarantee that I can get rid of my marriage, who can say that mental illness can be cured?

Are you really willing to risk your child's pain, mental illness, or even ruin your life and let ta get married in a hurry?

The purpose of marriage can only be happiness, not marriage itself.

Marrying an inappropriate person will never reach the so-called "what to do at what age", "what to say if you never get married", "It's amazing to get divorced when you get married" and "it's too shameful for you to never get married, divorce is better", which will only make you more humiliated and lose money.

Everyday life is not a fairy tale. After the prince and princess get married, it is not the end but the beginning. The contradiction between husband and wife is hard to hide. At that time, the young couple smashed pots and bowls all day, one went back to her mother's house and the other became a monk. Maybe they can fight in front of their neighbors three times a month on average. Is this very proud?

The fact that I'm not married is still a constant state. I can say one sentence at most when I think of it. That's great. Your moth comes out at two ends every three days, attracting people's attention all the time. It was abruptly changed into a live exhibition of family ethics dramas. I'm embarrassed to come to your house without buying three pounds of melon seeds. Some even called the police to the leading trade union of the unit, school or even unit before my parents retired, which is not a good thing.

Divorce is definitely a waste of money and a bone-breaking thing. It takes at least one or two years for a chicken to fly a dog to jump a cigar, and the minimum loss is 10 to 200,000 RMB. There are dozens, and millions of people are unlucky enough to get in. According to the ratio of the lost money to the family's economic situation, 80% of families will earn five or six years without eating or drinking.

You can buy face with money? After the divorce, no one said it was a fable. Some children say that you are cold-blooded and selfish and don't think of your children. No child said you were infertile or cheated. It is better to be told that you have a high eye, are too picky and have an eccentric personality and miss the flowering period than not being married.

Everything will be fine when you get married. It's amazing how relaxed and comfortable divorce is. It is purely the imagination of inexperienced people. It's no use. Wash and sleep.

To sum up, "forced marriage" is a terrible idea. The only advantage of forcing children to get married quickly is that they can help me brush my performance, but there are priorities, and people are far away. Let's talk about it first.

I am a divorce case. For their own performance, it seems that they should hope that everyone will get married in a hurry and then leave in a hurry. If you have more cases, you will naturally earn more.

But I hope everyone can get happiness, at least a quiet and peaceful life, and go home happily to buy some food after work, instead of sitting in my office with a sad face and tears.

If you really want your children to get married as soon as possible, the core is to teach them how to run a marriage. In action, you can introduce more suitable opposite sex to each other. I really can't even think about it. Come and talk to me, instead of forcing them into a siege with both hard and soft methods. After all, this is a real person, not a duck, don't you think?