How to chat with your girlfriend

What are the topics of chatting with your girlfriend?

Tango, a well-known pick-up girl, mentioned in "Bad Boys Teach You How to Attract Girls on a First Date" that chatting with men and women and going deep into her heart is closer rather than stagnant.

. I'm afraid these problems are common problems of many people.

In fact, these questions are the same-you care too much about her, and you are always careful when you speak. Gradually, there is no topic, let alone deeper topics, and it is difficult to see that your relationship can develop further. Especially when you really like her, you will be very concerned about her ideas, her hobbies and whatever you say, you want to cater to her.

Seriously think about how to answer the next sentence, what you are interested in ... what topics men and women talk about, go deep into her heart, and the relationship is closer rather than stagnant.

I'm afraid these problems are common problems of many people. In fact, these questions are the same-you care too much about her, and you are always careful when you speak. Gradually, there is no topic, let alone deeper topics, and it is difficult to see that your relationship can develop further.

Especially when you really like her, you will be very concerned about her ideas, her hobbies and whatever you say, you want to cater to her. Think carefully about how to answer the next sentence and what to say before you are interested.

If your brain is short-circuited and there is an accident, you suddenly become embarrassed and you become anxious-what if there is an ice break? But people get confused when they are in a hurry and don't know what to say. I can understand how you feel in this situation.

You must be surprised, why do you stutter, be embarrassed, be embarrassed in front of her, and always can't think of a topic? As mentioned above, your concern about her opinion is one of the obvious reasons. You always feel that no matter what you do or say, it will affect your impression in her heart, and the topic she talks to you is related to her feelings when she is with you, and it will also affect whether she will fall in love with you.

So if you think too much about the result, you will behave like this. It seems that you like A very much. If you like her and she is attracted to you, of course you feel very happy. If you like her, but you are not attractive to her at all, of course you will be very painful and depressed.

If you like her, her behavior can easily determine your own state of mind. Your emotions are no longer controlled by yourself, but by her reaction-or whether she can call back or smile at you. This will weaken your attraction to her and reduce your own charm.

Looking back on life, which man will be controlled by others at will and still be attractive to women? At least I haven't seen it, because women have a strong sense of smell when looking for such men. The legendary sixth sense really exists. Most women do, most men don't, and probably don't feel it.

Once she finds out that everything she says and does can affect your mood, it means that you have become a person who can control at will in her heart. Naturally, they will not deliberately notice this phenomenon, and then your attraction in your heart will be greatly weakened.

There is a paradox here: liking her will of course care about her and how she feels about herself, so she will care about everything that may affect her feelings. Concern here seems inevitable.

But you should try not to care too much about the emotional level. Maybe you know clearly in theory that you can't show too much concern and be comfortable, but in fact, when you are with her, you will still be nervous. When you are nervous, you will forget all the theories, but you still can't find a topic to talk about.

Since such a thing happened to me, how can I change this situation? The following skills, which I have explored in my long-term teaching and my own practice, are based on what I have taught before and add some new elements. Do you remember how to make your words more humorous by twisting her meaning? Let's review it again: using a framework of "She is chasing you", deliberately distorting her meaning, playing silly jokes on her, and sometimes teasing her with emotional jokes, women are very interested in this.

Now, on this basis, I'll teach you another method. The combination of the two can play a huge role. Just a few words can be like magic-I fell in love with you as soon as I met you, and even let her who wants to leave you come back to you. In the process of chatting between men and women, grab the key words in her words at will, even if it is only one, and then deliberately distort her meaning accordingly.

In this way, you can solve the above problems first-you will not have nothing to say, not only have a topic, but also show your sense of humor in the next topic; After that, you can make fun of her in good faith and laugh at her, but you can also make her laugh. Here is a true story, my friend's.

Once he asked a girl to meet him in a coffee shop. The girl said to him, "Sorry, I have something at home, so I may have to go home first." If a girl tells you this, how do you want to respond? Using the above method, which keyword do you want to determine? Is the key word "home"? And said, "well, why don't I take you?" Or the key word "something"? And said, "What is this? Can I help? " .

. He pretended to be surprised and said, "Go home? ! "But we just met for the first time. How can you be so casual? I'm a conservative, I won't go home with you! A frame is used here, which distorts her original meaning. ) She smiled and said, "Haha, that's not what I meant. I mean to go home alone. "

He immediately replied, "I know what you mean, but I will never go home with you." I am a man of principle. Forget it. " She laughed and denied, "that's not true. You misunderstood me. "

He went on to say, "Besides, my house is super comfortable and guaranteed to be more beautiful than yours. If you really think so, you should come to my house with me. " In this way, he opened the chatterbox between them, and the more girls talked to him, the more they felt.

After that, like many couples who have developed for a long time, girls first have dinner with him, watch movies, visit the night scene together and then come back.

Went back to his house together. Key words don't have to be grasped and understood in the text.

Chat with your girlfriend.

First of all, knowing about her life now will make you very careful and considerate.

If she likes to eat, talk to her about a place to eat. If she likes talking about love, let's talk about love. I'd better read more touching love stories recently. You can tell a wonderful story with your eloquence, and it is best to combine it with you. Talking about movies, anything will do, as long as you have enough connotation to believe that any topic can make her like listening.

If you want to chat with content and topics, you can't do without your own knowledge. Boring topics can only make her bother you.

Just watch more things. Title: 1. Do you remember any interesting things about Mid-Autumn Festival? 2. Customs vary from place to place. Can you talk about the unique customs in your hometown? 3. What kind of moon cakes do you like best? 4. Where is your favorite place to enjoy the moon on Mid-Autumn Festival night? Please call the manager at 999! Title: 1. What do you think of the crazy idolatry among teenagers? 2. Do you have idol worship complex? Which star do you like best? What do you like? Should stars give up some personal preferences and privacy for public image? Title: 1. Do you like online games? Manchester United, legend or something else? Why do you like it? 2. Are you addicted to online games? Are you an expert in online games? Talk about your experience of playing games online? Title: 1. Which of the four major cuisines do you like? Why? 2. Can you accept the hobby of eating mice? American fast food is very popular in China. what do you think? 4. What do you like to eat? Tell me about your best home cooking. Title: 1. Do you like sports? What kind of sports do you like best? 2. Tickets for the Women's World Cup are much cheaper than those for the Men's World Cup. Do you think women's sports are unattractive? Can you accept high-risk sports such as mountain climbing or bungee jumping? Title: 1. Do you think watching TV can replace reading? Which one do you like? 2. How often do you read a book on average? 3. What kind of TV programs do you like to watch? What do you think of the advertising phenomenon in TV programs? Please call 999 topic: 1. What kind of movies do you like to watch? Comedy, action movie or something? Do you like watching movies or watching movies at home? Talk about different feelings? 3. How many movies do you like? What do you think is the best movie when you are in love? Please call 9 to buy wheat. Oh, that's stupid.

In addition to eating, people study, work and so on.

Care about her life and friends around her. Something she likes.

Favorite character. Favorite snacks and favorite things to do.

. A lot.

Take your time.

. You can tell her what kind of person you used to be and some interesting things that happened to you before! When you say this, you can probably guess what she likes, because if she likes something, she will definitely ask more questions. Good luck! Pay more attention to the things around you, maybe there will be a topic, and look at her usual hobbies. You can teach yourself some to communicate. More is to go out and see things ~ pay more attention to details, listen to each other's words, grasp those subtle changes, and then respond, inadvertently give each other care and understanding, and then give each other some small surprises and touches, and strive to achieve that kind of tacit understanding until the heart is connected. I suggest you show enough interest when chatting with her, find some current events in various forums, or pick up some school anecdotes, and talk about whatever you want. Now the information is constantly updated every day. Save your strength before going to bed at night and find more topics to prepare, so that you will fly into a rage the next day. There is something wrong with your way of speaking. Stop chasing. You keep asking questions, and the other person can only answer them, but there is no time to express his thoughts.

This will put you at a disadvantage. You will say anything, but in fact you don't know what the other person thinks. Solution: After asking questions, listen to the other person's answers and let her fully express and read more.

It doesn't matter what you think now, what matters is what she thinks. If you want to be her support, you can't be too weak.

Daily weather, life, reading some short stories and telling her stories ... 1) Topics at work 2) Her hobbies 3) Her idols 4) Pets 5) Clothing/cosmetics 6) Humorous jokes 7) Movies/music 8) Interesting things in daily life 9) There is no need for affectation and exaggeration, as long as she has the heart, she will feel your sincerity. I have to praise her for her beauty and cuteness.

Share her difficulties. After all, what a girl wants is a boyfriend who can make her happy and share the difficulties. Usually, everyone is most concerned about their own problems. As long as they ask the right questions and listen attentively, Israel will treat us as bosom friends, and then give us an opportunity to express ourselves in return. Time and time again, the strange embarrassment of the first date will turn into a long talk.

The following topics can promote intimacy: 1. What do you do? Why do you like this job? What is the biggest challenge? What is the biggest setback? What are your hopes for your job and future? 2. What achievements have you made in your life so far? Any major setbacks? 3. What do you like best? Why are you interested? What was the most memorable happy event last year? (or an unfortunate thing? 5. How will you handle your work? 6. How do you like to spend your holiday? 7. Do you want to be famous? (Why) 8. If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it? 9. In your family, how did you grow up? 10, what was your character strengths when you were growing up? What are the disadvantages of fear? ) 1 1. What kind of relationship do you want to develop? 12 Are you romantic? How romantic? ) 13. What do you think is the difference between men and women? 14, what makes you happy? What makes you sad? 16. When you were young, what did you want to be when you grew up? 17, where do you think you are different from others? 18, do you believe in God? What do you think of God? ) 19. to what extent do you think your personal behavior has an impact on changing society? 20. What do you think are the important events in society at present? If possible, what action would you take? Some of the above topics seem to involve too many personal problems, especially for people who are dating for the first time, but please remember that few people don't care about themselves. As long as they don't ask each other like investigating their accounts, everyone is willing to discuss their own problems. There are three.

Chat with your girlfriend

Well, I said I was a girl, but I came to give you some advice.

Boyfriends are not very good at finding topics, and I usually say it. In the morning, he would send me a good morning message, greet each other and ask me what I was doing and what I had for breakfast.

Then give a general idea of what you are going to do today. Does it make you feel distressed or confused, happy or interesting? Whenever there are a few interesting things in life, you can tell them to your girlfriend.

Occasionally ask your girlfriend about her family, such as her relationship with her parents. There is also what constellation the girlfriend is, what she likes to eat and what she likes to do.

You can also imagine your future, such as where you want to work in the future, or you can say something sweet, such as buying a diamond ring for your girlfriend, buying beautiful clothes, taking her shopping and eating delicious food. If you think the food in any place is delicious and distinctive, you can tell her to take you to eat next time.

What does it taste like? What is it like? but ...

. These topics are all raised by me. My boyfriend and I talked about everything on the phone. Chat more, everyone is familiar with it, feelings will go further, there will be more tacit understanding, so there is no need for so much communication.

Why don't you and your girlfriend have a topic? You lack the same circle. This circle can be friends or classmates, but because my boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, we only occasionally tell interesting stories about our classmates.

My boyfriend and I play the same game, and we play games together every night, so we have a tacit understanding. Also, I recommend you to watch a software called Embarrassment Encyclopedia on your mobile phone.

Commonly known as one hundred. There are funny clips and stories about real people and events. I like them very much. If you like it after reading, you can recommend it to your girlfriend. If your girlfriend is not available, you can choose a joke and send it to your girlfriend to make her happy.

I believe your relationship will go further! .

What topic to talk with your girlfriend?

Sweat, man, it depends on you. What is your personality?

Don't change yourself in front of him, it will be exposed after a long time.

The most important thing is to look at your girlfriend's personality.

The most important topic is how to care.

Let's add some humor.

When talking on the phone, don't say anything boring. Never speak until you know what to say. If you don't know what to say, just ask him what happened today and talk about him.

Well, you are not in the same city? I think you are still very simple. This kind of love is fruitless. There is always a distance between you.

Hearing is empty, seeing is believing.

A word of advice, don't be too emotional.

What personality do you belong to?

So you belong to the first love? First love is the simplest, so accept it.

You will never forget virtue in your life.

I wish you happiness.

Chat with your girlfriend.

Hello, my friend: I also have your problem. I'm here to talk about my little suggestions, hoping to help you. First of all, I think what you need to do is to say good morning and good night to her by SMS, whether she responds or not, so as to make her feel that you are a persistent person, and you can persist all the time, so that it will last for her.

You said you couldn't find a topic to talk to her, and you asked everything you needed. When you don't know what to say, you will inevitably feel anxious and embarrassed. At this time, you don't have to worry, you can ask her what she is doing at the moment. Talk about today's weather, or talk about what happened around you today that reminded you of interesting things in your childhood. You can tell her all these things. The most important thing is what you have. Don't hide anything from her. Tell her everything generously and she will understand you. Also, don't think about talking to her every day. If you love her, you should devote all your energy to your career and study, because only if you live well can her future be guaranteed, she will be happy and your future will be happier.

Of course, I didn't mean to hinder you from chatting with her. Chatting should also pay attention to appropriate principles. Don't always talk to her, which sometimes makes her feel a little disgusted. Finally, I wish you happiness forever.

What is there to talk about with my girlfriend who just chased me?

Bad boy college-helps you quickly master dating skills and make the girl you like like like you! Finding a girlfriend and not knowing how to chat with girls is a big problem, so is there a comprehensive topic of chatting with girlfriends? As long as you are good at summing up and discovering, there must be. Let's share the topic of chatting with girls in the girls' collection:

Many people say how to pick up girls. I finally caught a beautiful girl on WeChat. What if there is no topic to talk about? Now the information is constantly updated every day. Before going to bed at night, you should recharge your batteries and find more topics to prepare, so that you can be furious the next day. There is something wrong with the way you speak, don't chase after it. You keep asking questions, and the other person can only answer them, but there is no time to express his thoughts. This will put you at a disadvantage. You will say anything, but in fact you don't know what the other person thinks. Solution: How to find the chat topic of * * *, listen to the other person's answer after asking questions, and let her fully express and read more. It doesn't matter what you think now, what matters is what she thinks. If you want to be her support, you can't be too weak. Everyday weather, life, read some short stories and tell her stories.

1) Topics at work

2) Her preferences

3) Her idol

4) pets

5) Clothing/cosmetics

6) Humorous jokes

7) movies/music

8) Interesting things in daily life

9) worry

Chatting with your girlfriend: there is no need for affectation and exaggeration. As long as you have the heart, she will feel your sincerity. I have to praise her for her beauty and cuteness. How to chat with a girl is actually not that difficult. You just need to bring her fun and share her difficulties. After all, what a girl wants is a boyfriend who can make her happy and share the difficulties. Usually, people are most concerned about their own problems. As long as we ask the right questions and listen carefully, Israel will regard us as bosom friends and then give us an opportunity to express ourselves in return. The strangeness and embarrassment of the first date will become a warm talk. What kind of boys do girls like? Most girls like the kind of boys who are willing to associate.

The following topics for chatting with girlfriends are all topics that can promote intimacy:

What do you do? Why do you like this job? What is the biggest challenge? What is the biggest setback? What are your hopes for your job and future? )

2. What are the important achievements in life so far? Any major setbacks? )

3. What do you like best? (Why are you interested)

4. What was the most memorable happy event last year? (or an unfortunate thing? )

5. How will you handle your work?

6. How do you like to spend your holiday?

7. Do you want to be famous? (why)

8. If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it?

9. In your family, how did you grow up?

10, what was your character strengths when you were growing up? What are the disadvantages of fear? )

1 1. What kind of relationship do you want to develop?

12 Are you romantic? How romantic? )

13, what do you think is the difference between men and women?

14, what makes you happy?

What makes you sad?

16. When you were young, what did you want to be when you grew up?

17, where do you think you are different from others?

18, do you believe in God? What do you think of God? )

19. to what extent do you think your personal behavior has an impact on changing society?

20. What do you think are the important events in society at present? If possible, what action would you take? )

Some of the topics mentioned above about chatting with girlfriends seem to involve too many personal problems, especially for people who are dating for the first time, but please remember that few people don't care about themselves. As long as we don't question each other's chat topics as hard as investigating accounts, everyone is willing to discuss their own problems. And there are three chat topics that can be used in any occasion: food, family and philosophy.

It is probably a custom in China that the protagonist of the first date with a girl should be the man, while the woman is reserved. This person should take the initiative to ask some questions to get Tan Xing's attention. Both sides should avoid long silence. When dating, it is best to make the atmosphere pleasant. The content of the conversation should be broad and popular, and the questions should be short, so that the other party is willing to answer and can answer. We can talk about work, study, hobbies and trivial things in life. Don't embarrass the other party, let alone ask questions that make it difficult for the other party. If the other person is silent and unresponsive, you should change the subject quickly. Both men and women can consciously introduce themselves, including their family members and personal hobbies and specialties. But don't brag about yourself. Don't let it spoil the fun of the first date. Swearing should not be said, otherwise it will be regarded as disrespectful, uncivilized and impolite to each other. Bad boy college-helps you quickly master dating skills and make the girl you like like like you!

What should I say when chatting with my girlfriend?

First of all, you shouldn't let her take herself into an unfamiliar field. Once you enter, you must admit that you don't know how to pretend to understand, which makes girls despise you more than not knowing, but if you honestly admit it, the effect may be different. Moreover, you should pay more attention to fashionable things, especially things that girls like to talk about. You should have your own unique views on issues that everyone agrees with, and your views should be attractive enough. Take a girl from a topic you are familiar with to another topic. Finally, the most important thing is to find the topic. Don't look for unfamiliar girls, it's best to be by her side. Pay more attention at ordinary times and write down the topics you can talk about. If you are on the phone, it is ok to write them down on paper, but if not, you must rely on your brain to remember them. This can't be taught. If you want girls to like chatting with you, you should learn more from them. When a girl begins to treat chatting with you as a very comfortable enjoyment, it is not far from catching up with her. If you are with a girl, you must first understand what she likes, likes to talk about and is interested in.

At least find a topic that is the same as * * *. Or she is unhappy, pay more attention to what is the reason and make her happy.

Know what she likes to eat and watch. When we are together, we can buy her favorite things, eat and chat together, go shopping together, visit the campus together, or run together.

In short, spend more time with the girls you like and get to know each other better. However, these should be limited. You should give her a certain degree of freedom. After all, everyone needs privacy.

The most important thing is that when we are together, we should be natural, don't be artificial, and be the truest ourselves. This is the best. After all, putting on airs in front of people is very tiring and insincere.

When one day you find that you are together, it is natural to talk about everything. Without pressure, you will succeed. In fact, all the rhetoric is false, and only sincere efforts are the most important.

As long as you are sincere, your words and deeds will naturally make him feel very happy, which has little to do with your skills. If it's just to make her happy, then your question is unnecessary.

A comprehensive list of topics to chat with girls, the more the better (blind date, no topic every day)—

How to find a topic? How can I have a humorous chat with the girl I like? Chasing girls to chat-the first topic, travel experience.

On the one hand, it can make girls feel that you are well-informed and have a good family. On the other hand, show your interesting side.

And after you finish speaking, generally speaking, the other party will also tell the other party about their travel experience. There is interaction.

Most girls are interested in the topic of tourism. Chasing girls to chat-the second topic, life experience.

For example, what about one of your neighbors? If there are some interesting things, girls will be interested. Because girls have a gossip mentality and always like to listen to other people's interesting things.

For example, my mother is so funny. She is always like a child. Every time I go home on holiday, my mother always lets me play tank battles with her. Every time she always lets me stay at home and go to the beach by myself, which makes me embarrassed. By the way, I suggest girls that your family is very interesting and easy to get along with when they get married. Chatting with girls-the third topic, personal experience.

Every ordinary person, in fact, is similar, but you always have to make something unique. For example, this story: I had a buddy in high school who hung out with him every day, played billiards in the game room, not to mention fighting.

Then one day, I lay in bed and found that I would get nothing if I went on like this, so I began to stay away from him and study hard, and finally I was admitted to a good university. However, he mixed up as usual. Although I advised them several times, they just wouldn't listen.

Finally, I did something. This story shows that you are very clever. As long as you get serious, you will be admitted to a good university and you will attach great importance to your friends.

Chasing girls to chat-the fourth topic, the biggest interest between men and women is to increase understanding through some topics, but we should also know which topics can be talked about and which topics can't be talked about. The first one is what is your biggest interest? Quickly judge whether you and the person sitting opposite you have the same topic. If you have the same hobbies, it will be a great opportunity to meet again.

For example, if you like music, movies, travel or pets, you can find some of the same interests as girls, but you must pay attention to talking about each other's hobbies as much as possible, so that she will be interested, not just talking about her favorite topics. I used to be a frustrated person. Later, I accidentally met a man named Paoshenglaoyu on the Internet and learned a lot about his pick-up routines and dry goods. At the beginning of life, there were many beautiful women and friends, which was simply another world. Paoshenglaoyu wrote many diary articles about picking up girls. Brothers who want to read it can find Paoshenglaoyu and read his article.

How to chat with women and girls 150 topics.

All roads lead to Rome, and there are many topics to chat with girls, but for male friends who want to fall in love, the most important thing is to arouse the interest of girls.

This article is taken from "Introduction to Chatting Skills of Bad Boys". If you want to have fun with the girl you like, you should pay attention to the following points: Chatting with girls 1, and why no one responds when people nearby say hello. 2. First, look at the flow of people in your geographical location (some people flow, not fixed). If you live in a bustling metropolis, there are many people and a lot of people flow. Even if you don't take the initiative, someone will greet you.

If you live in a remote mountainous area or a small county, no one will pay attention to you even if you say hello, because no one will. Or you are greeting the same person, Tian Swan, and it will become stale over time.

Second, your space avatar A real and handsome avatar will be more popular with others than those non-mainstream avatars on the Internet, and the frequency of reply will be higher. Everyone likes to see beautiful things. Beautiful things are always so eye-catching.

Third, your nickname in the library, you often see some strange names, such as a cosmetics agent, a platform and so on. We usually find these strange names offensive and generally don't add them as friends. If you are already friends, you will be blacked out and don't want to see the information sent by this person in the space. It's too much. It's annoying. 3. Others chat with girls constantly. Why can't you? 4. First, there is a saying that "your appearance determines whether she will play with you, and your quality determines how long she will play with you."

Secondly, I am average-looking, but I am still very popular among women, because I firmly believe that a joke that can bring joy is a good joke. Don't be too restrained, just be responsible for making him happy. Then I'll give you some basic things here: (1) Most photos in your space are PS-processed, making the picture exquisite.

(2) Are the third-party links in your space directly related to your life? If not, please delete it.

(3) When chatting, don't bring modal particles ("Ba, Ma" modal particles, just use punctuation "! ,? "), use more cute expressions (don't send expressions like" You're fucking teasing me ",use some cats, dogs and hamsters, or directly use the expressions that come with the system). This article is taken from Introduction to Chatting Skills of Bad Boys.