Off-sheet Chat: How Important Is Emotional Value?

Off-list chat: How important is emotional value?

I saw a joke before, in which a boy made a ppt to persuade a girl to stay with me. ..........'s result is imaginable.

why?

Because the human brain is divided into three layers: rational brain (prefrontal cortex)-emotional brain (mammal) crawling brain. The speed of human's crawling brain and emotional brain is much faster than that of rational brain.

when you do ppt or try to convince a girl with behavior and language, the girl will only consider your "appearance", "value", "family" and "income" ...

The other party will think you are suitable at most, but have no feelings for you.

think about it. In ancient times, two monkeys saw each other right. Did they "think"?

and this is also the meaning of emotional value.

To put it simply, you need to convey emotional information to the other party through your interaction and presentation, so that the other party can feel for you at the emotional level, and then she will convince "I love you" with rational self.

Look at those who are not handsome and have little money. They may also get beautiful girls, which is not only based on "hard conditions", but also creates emotional value for girls.

What are the specific mood swings? We'll talk about them later. ......