"Your girlfriend is poor and sour. I don't like it." "Mom, our family has no money." what do you think?

I really can't understand my mother. She is an old woman. Why doesn't she understand? The most important thing in life is that she knows nothing. Can she be happy all her life with money? Just like my dad, he didn't squander it in the end. Now in the face of my marriage, my mother still has the concept of money first. I really can't stand it.

When I was a child, my family was rich. My grandfather has been doing business all his life, and he has already laid a solid foundation. He wants my father to inherit it, but he can't bear hardships because he has been spoiled since childhood.

So the company that Grandpa left behind was left to fend for itself. My mother is very money-worshipping. She thinks my father's family conditions are good, so she got married without much consideration.

After getting married, my grandfather thought that his father could change his mind and start a career when he got married. I didn't expect my mother and my father to be the same virtue. Both of them belong to that kind of lazy person. Later, they became addicted to playing cards. So I slowly lived in the open space, and then the investment failed. A good home was destroyed by them, and my home is very bad.

Although the family is poor, my mother still thinks that the thin camel is bigger than the horse, so she has never been able to recognize the status quo. She will always be a leftist of the rich. She is very particular about eating and dressing, and she always likes to brag about the elegance of our family when talking to others.

My mother taught me from an early age that I must marry a rich girl when I grow up, so that I can struggle for at least 20 years in the future. I despised her theory and asked my mother, "Isn't marriage the first thing?" She directly retorted: "Emotion can be used as money or food. You are too young to understand these things, so I will tell you in advance ",but I have never heard what she said.

After going to college, I talked about a girlfriend, who is very nice and excellent, but her family conditions are not very good. She comes from the countryside, although my mother has always stressed that I should not be in a hurry to find someone, saying that she would help me find someone with rich friends around me.

After making friends with my girlfriend for half a year, I told my mother. My mother was quite satisfied after seeing the photos, but when she heard that my girlfriend was from the countryside, she was immediately unhappy. She felt that her family conditions were not suitable for our family, so she asked me to break up with her quickly. Don't delay myself, I won't listen.

To show my determination, I took my girlfriend home. Her dress is simple, but decent, and she brought gifts to my parents when she went.

As a result, after entering the house, my mother's attitude has been very cold, and she didn't even think about greeting her girlfriend. Her girlfriend is embarrassed and wants to talk to my mother, but my mother loves to talk to her.

After I sent my girlfriend home, my mother couldn't wait to tell me as soon as she entered the door: "Your girlfriend is so poor, I don't like it." She also said how can our family marry such a woman? Isn't this a joke for others?

I was really helpless and angry and said, "mom, our family has no money either." Can you recognize the reality? " Parents should have taught their children the positive truth of being a man, but as a result, my mother gave me such a lesson, ignoring my son's happiness and focusing only on my own self-interest, which was really chilling.