Why is life so painful? Why are there so many things that can’t be let go of?

If you just live simply, it doesn't mean much, it would be better to die. Don't think that I am hurting others, I am telling the truth.

Your problem has two points: 1. You have no goals at all in life. You don’t know what you want or what you don’t want. You just live quietly according to the laws of nature. As for why you want to live, you have no goals and your life has never had a certain direction. Or according to you, your family is better and your height and appearance are decent. It seems that the ideal that ordinary people have to work hard for their whole life is easy for you. That’s it. You don’t have to be like ordinary children from poor families who are so exhausted just to survive that they don’t have time to think about whether or not to live and how to live.

To put it simply: You may have fulfilled most of the dreams of ordinary people, but after that, your soul still feels a little unsatisfied. This is human nature, but your biggest problem is that you know that you are not satisfied. , but you don’t know why you are not satisfied and how you need to be satisfied. You are very confused about this.

Second, I want to say that you lack a sense of responsibility. What I said before is ideal, but this point is reality. I think your biggest problem is that you are too self-centered. This does not mean that you are selfish, or that you are just who you are. What I mean by being self-centered is not a moral issue, but a problem on a moral level. A question of life attitude. You are always thinking about how I should live a better life and how this society should satisfy me. Just like you often have suicidal thoughts, it is just because you feel that life is boring, but You have never thought about what you can do for your parents, your family, or your friends, or what you feel is not necessary to do. All your arrangements for life are strictly based on yourself. requirements to set. You have never thought about what role you play in the eyes of others, and what role you can play in the social chain. Just like if you want to commit suicide, you think it is your business alone. , you never thought that this would cause fatal damage to your relatives and friends. You rarely consider their thoughts and feelings, which will lead to you becoming more and more isolated from the entire society and the circle around you. In the end, you are isolated invisibly, and your current mentality is the best portrayal of it.

Finally, what I want to say is, a person who has no goals in life and lacks a sense of responsibility, what is the meaning of living? That's a bunch of walking dead. Death is an inevitable thing. It happens once in everyone's life, but before you die, you should think about: What do I need to do to live? Have you completed all the things you want to do? If you feel that you have no regrets anymore, then go die, I support it, if you feel that there are no regrets, then continue to live.

Either simply die, or change your attitude towards life and find something you really like, a goal you can achieve, and an unshirkable responsibility.

The words may not sound nice, but in fact I am facing the same problem as you. I have thought a lot about this. This is the result of my thinking. How you choose is up to you.