A male colleague said I was so fat and still ate. What is this person's psychology? I'm not thin, but it bothers me to be said that.

I thought my colleagues said you were not out of sarcasm, but mostly joking with you. Your colleagues' blunt words and deeds will hurt your self-esteem. But when you think about it, you have nothing against him, either he is not good at expressing himself or he is not sweet-talking, or he is joking on purpose. If you think this is not good, it also means that you are not open-minded enough to make jokes, or that you are not good at self-regulation. There is nothing wrong with being narrow-minded and loving beauty. Pay attention to the balance between obesity and diet. Through a reasonable diet and active exercise, the originally obese body will become strong and healthy, and only others will envy it. I wish you health and beauty!