A letter to a divorced wife, an excellent model essay

This marriage has come to an end, and his wife is about to divorce. Before the divorce, the husband left a letter to his wife and wrote down everything he wanted to say. The following is a letter I wrote to my divorced wife. Welcome to reading.

Letters to divorced wives.

Baby:

I love you! Love you very much! It is my deep love for you that makes me jealous. I don't want you to have too much intimate contact with men who like you. I don't want you to tell me what you said to other men, and I can't convince you, so I can read your XX messages, QQ and telephone messages like a thief. In fact, I am also very helpless. It's not that I don't give you freedom. I don't want your freedom to wash away our feelings. I love you as much as I can, but I can't always compete with other men. I am desperate. I hope you find a man who makes you happy in all aspects and live a happy life!

Here are some of your shortcomings (I'll bother you again):

Being late is a bad habit, which will make you miss many things. They are angry when others are waiting. Over time, friends and colleagues will look down on you, and your future in-laws will certainly be unhappy, which will not help your career and family. Please try to recognize and correct it. If something is really late, be sure to tell others how long it will take to arrive, and don't blindly say that it is coming soon, so that the other party will be more upset.

2. Don't stay up too late. You should know that you have developed the habit for many years, but after 1 1 in the afternoon, your body's immunity is at its lowest. If you go on like this, you will get sick easily. Don't go to XX to read the post in the early morning. If you are healthy, you will be happier and enjoy all the beauty that life brings you.

Learn to communicate with others, which is the foundation of society. To learn to judge people, do you remember the story I told you when Qi Huangong asked Guan Zhong if he could be a clever, elegant and childe? This is the most basic principle to identify personality. Keep it in mind and you will benefit for life.

4. Learn to be modest and don't compete with others for the time being. The long-term solution is to accumulate a lot of money, make your surroundings better and better, and let you have the last laugh when competing with others.

Try to stay focused when doing things, don't try to do two things at once, it will not do both things well. Concentrated firepower can effectively annihilate the enemy.

No matter how much time you have, remember to have breakfast. You can't eat until your stomach is well.

7. Remember not to drink at parties and banquets. Generally speaking, no man will try to persuade girls to drink. As long as you start not to drink, you must not drink. Don't lay the foundation for drinking. Drinking is harmful to girls.

8. Learn to study and form the habit of reading. A beautiful woman will grow old, but a learned woman will remain attractive. Think more when reading. Your knowledge is not wide. It may be difficult to read at first, but you must stick to the first stage. You can look up things you don't know online. After reading for a long time, the book will naturally look relaxed.

9. Do a good job in your career planning and be optimistic about the development of the industry. You must find a future industry that is suitable for your own rise. You can start from a small company, accumulate experience, and slowly jump from company to company to achieve a certain position, but remember! Be sure to practice your ability in a post before you go! Remember to keep a diary at work and take notes at meetings, which is a very effective means to improve your ability.

10, learn some good dishes, even if your husband doesn't need you to cook them at ordinary times, you can cook them when your in-laws come, which is good for family stability. In addition, you can help yourself, especially your favorite boiled fish.

1 1. If something goes wrong, don't cover it up with lies, things will get worse. Remember that sentence from Lincoln? You can fool all people for a while, or you can fool some people forever, but you can't fool all people forever.

12, to get along with people, you should learn to master the scale. If you go too far, put yourself in the other person's shoes, and you will know what the other person thinks, ask him not to make things difficult, and let him do his best.

13, we should have a correct understanding of our abilities, don't do something difficult, and learn to refuse.

14, there are always unpleasant moments in life, so you should treat them calmly, and don't lose your temper, hurting your liver and anger your lungs.

15. Call your parents more often, especially on Mother's Day and Father's Day.

16, you must give yourself a buffer time when doing things. You know, sometimes there will be unexpected events, such as traffic jams, which will affect the time for you to send important things back to work, so you should think ahead.

17, simple things are simple to do, and complex things are as simple as possible. Sometimes it's a good idea to be straightforward. Learning to save doesn't mean saving everything. Sometimes you have to see the main points clearly. One investment is better than many wastes.

18, learn to control your greed and eat less cold food, especially in some periods.

You said that I always talk about your shortcomings and can't see your advantages. In fact, you are wrong, because you are the smartest and most beautiful wife in my heart, because all your shortcomings are advantages in my heart, because I love you, take care, goodbye! One day!

XXX

XXXX。 X. X

The second part of the letter to the divorced wife

Dear wife:

Before the divorce, I had something to say to you. I held it for a long time, but now I have to say it.

Before marriage: you try your best to make me spend money, and I will buy this and that in the future. Did I say something?

After marriage: You racked your brains to make me save money and gave away all my salary and bonus. A man will lose face if he has no money in his pocket, you know?

Before marriage: you dress up for me every day.

After marriage: you are always in a mess, and occasionally I see you dressed up. That's the way you're going out to dress up for others, in my heart.

Could it be better?

Before marriage: How confident you are. You always feel that other women look down on me.

After marriage: you are always worried that other women will take me away, and you will stare at me or follow me by phone. I'm still tired if you're not tired.

Before marriage: you and I are always very much in love and flirting.

After marriage: You often have a back-to-back cold war with me. All you care about is the children. Do you still have me in your heart

You don't want to think, you and I are both middle-aged, old and young, and the burden of life is on my shoulders. Is it easy for me?

How I long for emotional communication with you, how I long for your understanding and gentle touch. Honey, if you still think

Divorce can bring you happiness, so let's divorce! But can divorce really bring you happiness?

A husband who was forced to divorce

XXXX。 X. X

Letter to divorced wife Part III

Dear wife:

This may be the last time we call you that in our lifetime. It's 23: 1 1, and I'm still on the plane to fly back to Chengdu. I got up at 5: 00 this morning to catch a plane back to the company, and immediately rushed back to Chengdu after the meeting, and I also went to Panzhihua registered permanent residence. The goal is that you force me to divorce you. I have been on the plane for 10 days in a row, with an average of nearly 1.5 times a day. My waist hurts and my heart is broken. No matter how many mistakes we made before, I only know that I am exhausted now. I really want to give up this marriage. We're together. You care too much. Maybe you really are that kind of person? When others make mistakes, you always complain, you always hold a grudge, you always ask questions, and you always look at each other angrily. It was not until this time that you broke my laptop and yours and almost fought with me that I fully saw the inappropriateness between us.

In your eyes, I look numb, unpretentious, boring, inconsiderate and bad for you, but all I know is that my salary card was given to you voluntarily from the day I got married, because I know that a man's greatest responsibility is to support his family. I come from the countryside and have been in debt since I went to college. I have to pay my own debts. I ate 65438. You have to go to school for an MBA even if you don't have enough food in a foreign country. You have no dignity to make money again and again for better study and work, but you have never experienced it. When you were in college, you took my 10 times the living expenses, and your parents didn't let you get into debt. You are so superior that I really don't deserve you. You like to buy things for me, and you also like to buy things by yourself, but you don't know these things. I really don't care. I don't care how much you buy. I also feel that these things make me uncomfortable. When have you ever seen me buy decent clothes with luxury goods? No, because I know it's not easy to bring home the bacon. I really don't care how well I dress and eat. What I care about is that my family must be well. I am actually very stingy with myself. Up to now, the most expensive clothes I have ever bought for myself have not exceeded 1000 yuan. I'm really generous to you. If you say to travel abroad, we will travel abroad. You say buy Estee Lauder, you buy Estee Lauder. I'm using1the oldest Nokia mobile phone that 99 yuan bought from Guangzhou, and I feel very satisfied. I seem to be particularly incongruous with the Gucci bag you are carrying and the clothes around me. Although your ex-husband bought that bag, you didn't consider my feelings. I believe that no man wants to see his wife carrying what her ex-husband left behind all day. I've never shown you anything from a woman before, but you've never shown it to me. I have seen many of your bags, all of which are Gucci. I was thinking, your ex-husband is the second generation of officials, and he can't live on his father. You also bought so many bags. I don't know how beautiful you were in their home, but the scenery didn't satisfy your own desires. Finally, you divorced him. Your past marriage made me sad. You married a man whose parents are very rich, and his education, ability and job are so different from yours. What kind of person are you? I didn't dare to think about it, so I continued to wait and see. I felt that we seemed out of place, and that we were actually not well matched, because I didn't like what you liked, and I didn't care what you cared about. When I got married, I married you in a hurry without careful consideration. We are not strangers at all. So, I have been looking for marriage, and I made a mistake, so I opened a Jiayuan account. Com, but I have never seen any women online, but you have met other men, and more than once. I did something wrong, and you want to do it again to get back at me?

Today, although I feel ashamed of divorce, I would rather leave than be exhausted by you.

I know too many farmers have experienced hardships, so I work hard. In the past 10 years, I went from an IT person to a CIO today. Only those who have experienced it know how many ways to go. You don't know much about CIO, only know that the salary is higher than others. However, you know that several of these people are exhausted all over the country. Because people like us work harder than people in other business departments, they need to understand the business, and at the same time, they can't lose their skills. Compared with others, the workload will double. These are the places where you think I am excellent, and that's why you chose me in the first place. However, do you think you are suitable for this kind of person? We should not only see the income of such people, but also see their contribution. Don't think that you should buy high-end cosmetics just because you travel abroad. I'm in a hurry. I won't even give you a domestic tour. The cheap cosmetics department will buy it for you. Forget it if you want to marry, and don't care about IELTS Lauder and travel!

Today, in my heart, you look strong and reasonable. You want to force me to divorce you. I believe you will regret it, but not today, but several years later. I'm not afraid of how you threaten me today, but when I help you, I am also helping myself.

Divorced from you, I will never look back, because I know we are not suitable at all, but the original farce caused this marriage between us, where to start and where to end. You told me that you divorced me and asked me to chase you again. That's unrealistic. A divorced man can find a unmarried woman as long as he doesn't have children. Can you? You've been divorced twice. Do you think you can find a man who has never been married? I can find a woman who has never been married, but you can't. This is the difference between me and you. This may hurt your self-esteem, but you must face it. That is the reality.

You are 30 years old and have been divorced twice. I don't know when you can let go of your unruly and lofty. In fact, all my friends around me told me that you are a very strong woman, but you should not be strong with me at home, because being strong in front of me is meaningless! Especially for those who are not strong, it is very different!

Please don't blame me for being unfaithful to you, because you never reassured me from the beginning! I'm not the man you want. I listen to you, satisfy you, be good and be absolutely loyal! My opinion of you is almost the same as that of a man. It's better if you despise it. You can't control it. You don't have the ability. You will divorce because your possessiveness is stronger than a man's love for women!