What if my husband doesn't make progress?

My husband used to be content with the status quo. Married for nearly three years, my husband works in a state-owned enterprise. I thought he was very promising when I first met him, but now their company's benefits are getting worse and worse, and their wages are getting lower and lower. I quit my job to take care of the children at home with him. After the child grew up, I began to work again, and I didn't have extra time to take care of his mood at ordinary times. Although I was aware of his changes at that time, I believed that he had the ability of self-adjustment, so I didn't communicate with him in time.

At that time, he was competing for the position of section chief. Unexpectedly, a journey appeared halfway, which made him think that the position of the section chief was gone. That young man is talented and educated. He is inferior to others in all aspects, and he behaves calmly in front of outsiders, but I know he is uncomfortable. But I didn't expect him to be devastated by this incident and muddle along from then on.

Now his salary is not as high as mine, and as the children grow up day by day, our family's expenses become beyond our means. But we can't always maintain the current stable status quo, and we won't even have the economic strength to bear the problems in the future. I have been studying and studying, hoping to influence him with my actions. We also advised him to either cheer up or resign and open a small shop. It is the comfortable environment of state-owned enterprises and the blow he suffered that led him to be content with the status quo in his work. In fact, he is not an ordinary person at heart. He finally decided to change jobs and leave this stagnant environment. Let‘s cross the bridge when we come to it. As long as we have the will to change, we will always find a solution to the problem.

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