Smart people have no self-esteem.

Jobs said: "I especially like to associate with smart people because I don't have to consider each other's dignity."

Don't smart people have dignity?

Don't! Obviously not!

Smart people pay more attention to their own growth and always keep an open mind.

And fools pay more attention to their own face and try their best to prove me right.

What Jobs means is that smart people can establish an objective perspective away from themselves, so facing criticism and censure will not be understood as personal attacks, so they can make great progress.

Reflect on why my progress is slow, mostly because of "blx".

The more sensitive and fragile a person's heart is, the more it will hinder his own development.

Smart people never take themselves seriously.

This sentence reveals the fact that smart people don't pay much attention to self-esteem and face.

When a wise man is opposed, he will not take it as a denial of his personality, but seriously consider whether this opinion is desirable for his work.

In other words, smart people don't take themselves seriously.

But put the needs of work and society first.

It is to regard every mistake or criticism of others as an opportunity to learn and improve yourself.

When people with good face hear criticism, their first reaction is to feel humiliated, and then refute it to prove that they are right and earn back face.

Afraid of losing face, afraid to put forward their own ideas.

Afraid of losing face, afraid to communicate with others.

Afraid of losing face, afraid to undertake important tasks.

Afraid of losing face, I dare not be known that I don't understand, let alone ask others.

Chu and Han fought for hegemony and were ashamed to see their elders in Jiangdong.

Du Mu, a poet, once wrote a poem comment: A military strategist's plan won or lost unexpectedly. There are many talented children in Jiangdong. Whether they will make a comeback is still unknown.

After the drama "Royal Love in Ruyi Palace", Highland was humiliated by Gao Guifei. Just as easy to comfort her, others treat you as a joke. As long as you are indifferent, no one can beat you.

Indeed, those who bear the burden of humiliation, laugh it off, continue to focus on their own affairs and constantly improve themselves will eventually be respected by everyone.

The more shameless you are, the less you take yourself seriously, and the more you can live high.

You know, what you need most is growth and better performance, not angry dignity.

Be smart, put down your face and live a comfortable life.