When colleagues are having dinner at the wine table, someone wants to make you look bad. How should you respond?

Generally, if you don’t drink, you will be greeted with this sentence: Do you look down on me? Then you answer loudly: That’s right. It was both a joke and a slap in the face of his dignity that he wanted to knock me down. Of course, if you are toasted, you have to drink it. If he toasts me one cup, I will give him three cups in return before my butt even touches the ground. Once you come back and forth, no one will dare to drink it. When others toast, they think highly of you, so you should still drink unless it is a special occasion.

If you are asking for help from others, then you drink. If we are equal, I’m sorry, I won’t drink. At this point, if you want to force me to drink, I’m sorry, I ignore you. Even if you Stand up and toast me. I drink the most drinks. If you don't know your face, it's a loss of face for you, not mine.

Don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. It’s so obvious that you don’t want to drink that they force you to drink. It shows that they don’t take you seriously. You just want to be happy in life, that’s fine. Whatever cats or dogs are necessary, you should also take care of them. In short, I think it mainly depends on you. If you want to drink, no one can stop you. If you don’t want to drink, no one can persuade you to do so. Don't be in trouble with your body. After all, wine is a social aid and will not be used to treat guests. So cherish yourself and others. That should do the trick.

With high status, you can drink as much as you want at any time without having to think about it. If you have a low status, there is nothing you can do. Usually when we drink, everyone walks around one by one, and then we can do whatever we want. I feel like it's still a matter of personal aura. You should always keep a good distance from others so that others don't dare to drink from you rashly.

The culture of the wine table is about momentum. In this case, you can choose the other person to drink first when you come up. To put it politely, you should respect the other person first.

Anyone who likes to pick people to drink is a bully. If you really make him feel that way, even if you go out and pick his neck and vomit three times today, you still have to knock him down, and he will not mess with you.

An interesting phenomenon will even happen, he will stop you from drinking. As for how to deal with the group attack, there is no way. We can only rely on talking to delay time. It is important to find the right target. You should know this. When you were fighting when you were a child, if there were three opponents and you were alone, you would definitely be staring at each other and hitting each other.