1 year-old baby is "ripened" by mother with breast milk, and everyone shows off. The doctor shook his head: ignorant pit baby, what do you think?

Ma Bao wants to return to the workplace. One of the biggest questions is who will take care of these children?

Xiaoyun returned to the workplace, and her mother-in-law became the best helper, but after three months, Xiaoyun began to regret that she had made such a rash decision.

It turned out that in three months, my mother-in-law developed her 8-month-old grandson into a fat man of more than 30 kilograms. Everyone boasted, "Look how well I have raised my grandson. When it first arrived, it made me feel so distressed that I had no food. Now I am good, and I weigh more than 30 kilograms. " My mother-in-law is full of pride in this matter.

What Xiaoyun can see is a fat son who has been completely deformed. Not only are the limbs unusually thick, but the face has completely turned into a "pie face". The whole person looks listless, but sits softly in the stroller, just like the fat son of the landlord in the old society! "

Xiao Yun held her breath and said, "Mom, I told you earlier that children should not be too fat. Being too fat is bad for your health. You must control these snacks and fruits, or what kind of children are fat? "

When the mother-in-law heard this, her face was unhappy: "What do you know? I have walked more roads than you have eaten salt. When children are young, just eat more. Big fat boys are the best! " "

"But, mom, just feed the children like pigs like you?" Xiaoyun couldn't bear it any longer and began to question her mother-in-law loudly.

"What do you young people know? I have worked hard to raise my children so well. You are ungrateful and cynical. I just want to raise my grandchildren to be fat in vain! " Mother-in-law was opinionated and scolded her daughter-in-law loudly.

"You take care of children too hard. I'd better do it myself! " Xiaoyun was so angry that tears came out. Then, she left in a hurry with the fat boy, leaving only her mother-in-law with a blank face.

It is the wish of every family member to raise a healthy and tender child, but the times are changing and the concept is constantly improving. On the issue of "big fat man", it is really necessary to change old ideas and achieve a "degree" harmony.

You know, being too fat does have many bad effects on children.

1, obese children lack necessary exercise, which is not conducive to growth.

Bao, chief physician of pediatrics of Peking Union Medical College, believes that obese children have great difficulty in moving, and their natural growth training will be relatively backward, whether they turn over or sit up straight. In the process of learning to walk, due to the heavy physical load, too much stress on both feet will cause flat feet.

Psychologists also believe that in infancy, children develop cognitive ability and intelligence through a lot of behaviors such as grasping, touching, crawling and walking.

If the external movement is reduced, the overall development will become slow and dull.

2. Obese children can also cause related physical diseases.

Obese children are relatively weak, more likely to catch a cold and be attacked by diseases. Moreover, obese babies will produce a lot of fat in their bodies. You know, fat cells also have memory function, and once formed, it is likely to have a long-term impact on the body.

These long-term effects will lead to long-term obesity, and even after adulthood, it is more likely to be obese. Moreover, obesity itself is easy to cause many diseases, such as hyperglycemia and hypertension.

Being too fat is not something to be proud of. Therefore, two generations should have a friendly concept of parenting and solve the contradictions at home from the root.

How to build a harmonious and happy parenting environment is a problem worthy of in-depth study. (1) Clarify the concept of parenting of several people, and finally run in with each other and unify them into a whole.

With the progress of society, people's requirements for materials are getting higher and higher, and the cost and pressure of life are increasing day by day.

Many young parents reluctantly leave their children to the care of the older generation, but this further aggravates the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

If you want to work and have a happy family, you can hold family meetings regularly. Clearly put forward everyone's parenting concept, openly and transparently discuss major differences on the table, and then through scientific matching, finally run in with each other to achieve overall unity and become a joint force.

Only in this way can we avoid the escalation and deterioration of contradictions and start more secure and democratic parenting.

(2) In parenting, family members need to study together and make progress together.

Learning is not a person's business. Not only do parents have important learning responsibilities, but also the gentle and friendly popularization of the concept of expert parenting to the older generation. * * * Listen to expert lectures and read parenting books.

Young parents should also take the initiative to find relevant videos for the older generation so that the whole family can study together and make progress together.

Raising children is never a matter for one person. What he needs is the efforts and growth of a family. Only in this way can we form a happy family.