If you want to get married, marry a man who dotes on you

My friend Lele is almost thirty and still unmarried. After missing the marriageable age, she was labeled as a "leftover woman" and worried about her family. At the beginning, she would swear that "there is only the feeling of getting married in this world, and there is no age for getting married."

However, under the strong contrast between her lonely single life and the double harvest of her peers' family and career around her, she finally couldn't help but marry a man who didn't love her very much and just wanted to find someone to live with.

I thought that when I became husband and wife, with that certificate, people who no longer loved would gradually become cute. However, the shortcomings before marriage will not converge because of marriage, but will only be infinitely magnified after marriage. The biggest shortcoming of Lele's husband is that he doesn't love her.

Once I visited Lele's house, Lele was very enthusiastic and was busy in the kitchen alone. In the panic, Lele accidentally cut her finger. We rushed to help her stop the bleeding. "This wound is quite deep. Is there a band-aid? " "Band-aid is in ..." Seeing Lele looking confused, we had to turn to her husband for help. "Li Ge, do you have a band-aid? Lele cut her hand. "

"Band-aid, I don't know, just wipe it with paper." Li Ge's weak voice.

Li Ge's calm answer surprised me. Why doesn't my wife care about cutting her hand?

Lele smiled awkwardly and said, it's actually no big deal. I'll just press it with paper.

Later Lele got pregnant. Most of the time, she goes to the prenatal examination alone. Her husband will still accompany her when he has time, but he only does his duty to accompany her.

Men are creatures with delicate hearts. When they face people they don't love, the shortcomings of nervousness are particularly obvious.

Lele said he was neither good nor bad, just an ordinary person, but he didn't love me so much. If you ask him to do something, he will still do it, but I will be tougher.

After getting married, everything Lele paid for this family appeared on her face. After a year of marriage, she seems to be ten years older. She has so many things to worry about that the only man who can share with her doesn't understand her heart and has no mind to know more.

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Colleague Xiaoqiu is an extremely lively and lovely girl. She has a baby face and big round eyes. After several contacts, she couldn't help being attracted by her generous and crisp personality.

She is decisive, capable and popular, and became a team leader at a young age. We are all thinking, who can "subdue" such a lively Uber? When we met her boyfriend, we found that this was the answer in our hearts. He is a person who loves her in his hand.

Her boyfriend is her classmate and good friend for many years. He is tall and handsome and has a good family. I have known each other for seven or eight years, and I have been together for five or six years. They are very familiar with each other's temperament and preferences.

How much does he spoil her?

Xiaoqiu is a lazy cancer patient. She wants to go to the bathroom and doesn't want to get up. He'll take her to the bathroom.

She didn't want to go, so she squatted on him and let him carry it;

He couldn't bear to buy expensive clothes himself, and didn't blink when he bought them for her;

He cares about everyone in her family and tries to be liked by her family.

He remembers every anniversary and will prepare various surprises in advance. ...

Everyone who knows him tells Xiaoqiu that he is cold to others, but he only has you in his hand, as if he were possessed.

That's because Xiaoqiu is worth it. She is hard-working, strong and independent, and she is already very cute, and her love is becoming more and more charming. In the eyes of outsiders, she is smart and capable, and is often praised as "you are very capable and have a strong atmosphere." But in the eyes of the man who dotes on her, she will always be a child.

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In 2006, 24-year-old Xu Ziqi married Li Ka-shing, son of Lee Shau Kee, the second richest man in Hong Kong. After marriage, the two worked hard to "make people." Two daughters were born in less than three years after marriage. She was laughed at by the outside world for not giving birth to a son. She was actively pregnant and gave birth to two sons on 20 1 1 and 20 15.

In the eyes of many people, Xu Ziqi is like a "fertility machine", and she may not be lucky enough to marry into a rich family. But in fact, when Li Ka-shing proposed to Xu Ziqi in 2005, this diamond ring worth HK$ 4 million was dug and polished by Li Ka-shing himself. Shortly after the marriage, Li Ka-shing sent a Ferrari worth 5 million to Xu Ziqi; On Xu Ziqi's birthday in 20 12, Li Ka-shing sent a 20-carat pigeon egg giant diamond worth over 100 million yuan. ...

Apart from money, Li Ka-shing spoiled her as a child in her life. During pregnancy, Xu Ziqi and Li Ka-shing went out to eat and were photographed talking and laughing. Xu Ziqi stretched out his hand and touched Li Ka-shing's cheek, and Li Ka-shing gently fiddled with Xu Ziqi's hair, which was very sweet and happy.

Now that they have been married for 1 1 year, they will celebrate their birthdays together and play with their children. Their feelings are always the same.

It is said that marrying a rich man is as deep as the sea. Compared with the rough life of Liang Luoshi and Michelle monique Rice, Xu Ziqi is much smoother and is known as the winner of life in the entertainment circle.

At that time, Li Ka-shing had many affairs and was a typical playboy. Some people worried that Xu Ziqi would be cheated when he was young. Xu Ziqi smiled indifferently: This circle is like this. Every couple should have children separately. Laugh off the gossip. Although I'm only twenty years old, I'm actually over forty, so I'd better keep it simple.

True happiness cannot be faked. Now, Xu Ziqi always smiles with heartfelt happiness.

Xu Ziqi's first love was Sammo Hung's eldest son Hong Tianzhao. Although her family stopped her, she persisted until Hong Tianzhao told reporters that girls are very realistic nowadays, and men with a little knowledge are chased by many girls. Xu Ziqi broke up at once and went to study in England.

Because Xu Ziqi is very good and Li Ka-shing knows her good, there will be Xu Ziqi who is loved by Li Ka-shing.

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Don't force yourself, stick to your beliefs, love hard, live hard, and marry a man who really understands you and pampers you like a child.

Marry a man who dotes on you, and you will smile like a flower every day. You are like one of his children, afraid that you will get a little hurt.

Marry a man who doesn't spoil you. In a loveless marriage, you are very tired every day, you have to worry about everything, and even secretly quarrel with your mother-in-law and sister-in-law.

Some people say that in such a realistic society, what kind of love do you not marry? There really is, as long as you are beautiful enough to be loved and guarded.