How to respond tactfully to your girlfriend’s daily messages?

It’s very simple. First use a questioning tone and reply with a point from her topic; then use a statement tone to explain what you are doing.

For example, when she says "I'm home", you can reply according to the following three steps: 1. Did you have fun with your friends today? (Tone of question)? 2. We have been busy all day and haven’t spoken. Did you miss me? (Contact yourself)? 3. By the way, I'm going to prepare tomorrow's PPT later. It's quite difficult to do, but if you're okay, we can make a phone call. (State what you are doing) This is called communication.

All the moments and interactions in daily life are ended unilaterally by oneself. This is not called "communication", this is called "notification". If feelings are not responded to effectively, it is easy to worry about gains and losses. I believe the same is true for many people. When you're in a relationship, you have to be happy. If you don't have a sense of stability in a relationship, then I'm quite comfortable alone.

Actually, the most fearful thing in relationships is that I have been waiting all day for your reply, but the content I received has nothing to do with my topic. It feels like: I mustered up all the courage to be naked with you, but you turned a blind eye. Although I have always felt that communication between people is a very sad thing, because it is difficult to convey 100 meanings. But at least, at least it shows that both of you are working hard.

In fact, the same is true for judging whether a girl really likes you. It just depends on whether she is willing to tell you every interesting thing in her life. If she likes you, then she will take a photo of you when she sees a strange tree, and she will post a funny Weibo post asking for Aite. Even before you have time to reply to her last post, the next olive branch will be thrown out. It's that kind of feeling that I want to share the world with you. Therefore, once a person like this changes his or her heart and no longer loves him, it is really easy to tell and cannot be faked.

Many people don’t cherish it, maybe because they feel that the occurrence of relationships is indeed natural and easy, especially the kind of relationship in the title. Even if it is not a long-distance relationship, it is probably the kind that we don’t see often. In love? And love is just supported by some very small things. If you miss something once or twice, and again and again, you can really take back your indifference. And those little details in the other person's life will have nothing to do with you anymore.

Be clear that they never cool down all at once, and the distance from disappointment to despair is also very short. I always believe that if a person really loves you, how can he be hot and cold without contacting you? How could I ignore you? As Duras said, "Love to me is not skin-to-skin contact, not eating vegetables and eating. It is an immortal desire and a heroic dream in a tired life."

It is true that love is not just daily life, and in many cases, daily life will consume the passion of love, but it is also love, the desire to connect with the other person from the bottom of the heart, that can Resist the erosion of the trivial daily routine of living, day after day.