A word to test whether he loves you or not, just kidding.

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Joking is actually a good thing, which can bring us closer and enliven the atmosphere at that time, but some jokes should not only be tailored to local conditions but also vary from person to person. Many women believe that they should talk openly with their partners. In fact, only men who love you will tolerate your jokes and let themselves go with you. A man who doesn't love you will really get farther and farther away from you because of your temporary joke.

Molly and her boyfriend have been in love for six years, and they have always been on good terms. Recently, they met their parents to get married. Molly was both excited and scared at the thought of getting married. She is excited to finally live with the man she loves, but she is afraid that life will kill her love.

After thinking for a long time, Molly told her boyfriend that she was going to move to a new home first, both for a trial marriage and to appease her grumpy heart.

Anyway, the new house is ready, and my boyfriend thought about it and agreed. He also told her not to worry and think about it. After so many years, both of them have come together and are afraid of the future.

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In fact, Molly just has no confidence in herself. In her opinion, she has been tolerant of her boyfriend since she fell in love and has always been a gentle person who loves her.

It's just that the beautiful reality of love is very skinny, and life will show all aspects of a person in all the little details, which is true and incredible.

Molly is a careless girl. She likes joking and speaks straight. She can't intrigue, and beating around the bush is even more troublesome. So she and her boyfriend have been together for so many years. Although sometimes the words are too straightforward or the jokes are a little too much, her boyfriend forgave her.

She thought that the two of them would live like this all their lives, and she easily let him spoil her, but she didn't expect that the day of cohabitation didn't even last until the wedding day, and her boyfriend left because of her joke.

Not long after living together, Molly felt that her boyfriend was not so enthusiastic about herself. When I can't meet each other every day, I want to blow off my mobile phone, but when I finally get together, whatever she says to her boyfriend is perfunctory.

She also wondered if something had happened, but no matter how she asked her boyfriend, she just wouldn't say. Forced to do nothing, she had to put pressure on her boyfriend and joked: You don't even talk to me now, do you still want to talk to me? If you don't, we'll break up.

Although she knows that breaking up can't be said casually, all fools know that her words are actually a joke. How can she break up when both of them are getting married?

However, her boyfriend looked up and gave her a deep look and said, whatever you say.

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I was concerned about it through a joke, but I really broke up. Later, Molly thought for a long time in an empty room. It was not until all the bits and pieces in the past six years were in her mind that she discovered that her boyfriend didn't seem to love her as much as she thought.

His tolerance is only because he doesn't care. Because he doesn't care, he won't pay attention to his mood and tone changes. It is precisely because of this that he can forgive all his previous jokes and believe his jokes about breaking up.

If a person really loves you, how can he not care about your every word, how can he explain everything to you and how can he not give you preferential treatment?

My friend Arvin is also a girl who likes joking. She has always been a person who can afford to make jokes when talking to friends, family and lovers.

Family and friends are fine. After all, joking between friends can enhance the feelings of both sides, and joking between family members can make family ties stronger. However, due to Gao Jiawen's temper, we all advised him to joke less with her husband after marriage, in case the situation is serious, which will hurt feelings.

Facing the kind words from friends around him, Awen smiled even happier. She said you don't have to worry. My husband never takes my jokes seriously and doesn't reason with me. He can laugh with me even if I make fun of him.

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A friend told you not to push your nose and face, or you might fall even worse.

Since then, Arvin, who always likes joking, has become very serious. She said that I know everything and I can feel her husband's tolerance and love. I am grateful to know that I am taken care of as a baby, so I know very well that it will be better for him.

Looking at her proud and comfortable eyes, everyone's original worries were put down. She did a good job. The person who can catch her jokes is her husband who really loves her and wants to join hands with her.

In fact, everyone in this world is unique, and they will have their own special concerns and the bottom line they want to maintain, but these will become less important in front of their lovers. Although some jokes about the bottom line of dignity can't be played between partners, even your jokes can't be listened to, your partner is definitely not a pillow person who can grow old with you.

After all, in the eyes of two people who really love each other, jokes are fun, but I play with you and you laugh, but even if they are not fun, I will not leave but choose to be with you.

Life is a hundred years, and marriage is not easy. If jokes and disputes are inevitable, I only hope that you can meet someone who is willing to laugh with you and turn all the contradictions out with you.