The friends around me are particularly vicious and mean, but what if they are not personal?

With such friends around you, we must first correctly understand this behavior, so that we can see our own advantages instead of being influenced. When you get along with friends, if you can ignore them, slowly ignore them and try to see their advantages, I believe you will have a lot less trouble. If it really makes you uncomfortable, you can try to avoid it, but don't hurt your feelings. No one is perfect, and gold is not enough. You can choose to build a long-term friendship with people who are happy and full of positive energy, and stay away from being unhappy with you.