How to treat the idolization of teenagers?

Correctly treating idolization and idolization reflects the social problems of cultural emptiness and cultural confusion. How to make idolatry develop healthily has become an urgent problem in society, which requires the efforts of comprehensive social engineering. Therefore, it is extremely important to guide children to establish correct values and outlook on life. Professor Peng learned that this newspaper will set up a publicity group of "healthy idolization" to enter the school, and praised the Western Business Daily for its significance, reflecting the mainstream consciousness and being very timely. Professor Peng called on fans to treat idolatry rationally and establish correct values. People tend to blame more than understand, and worry more than guide idolatry among teenagers. When analyzing and exploring the reasons, most of them also pay attention to children's own problems. In fact, we can find the reasons for regularity from the psychology of teenagers. Psychologically speaking, adolescence is in a state of half children and half adults, and it is a stage full of contradictions, rapid changes, independence and dependence, and coexistence and alternation of consciousness and naivety. Teenagers at this stage are full of hazy, fantasy, naive, naive, blind and bold characteristics. The exciting process of nerve activity is stronger than the inhibiting process. Often unwilling to be quiet, impulsive, easily distracted when carrying out various activities, unable to consciously control their emotions and rationally control their actions. Their outlook on life, values and world outlook have not yet been established and matured, and their ideals are still vague, concrete and superficial during this period. They like to imitate some ideal people as their idols. But this imitation of idol characters is mostly superficial and dynamic. Most of them imitate the external behaviors and superficial features of the characters, such as their clothes, hairstyles, language and movements, without paying attention to the internal qualities of the characters. Therefore, this kind of idolatry and imitation is unstable, and it is easy to change with the growth of age, the deepening of experience and the change of time and space environment. The psychological and social reasons of teenagers tell us: don't criticize and worry too much about their idolization, and don't generally oppose and exclude them. Taking a simple and rude way is often counterproductive, which is easy to make them have rebellious psychology and form an unfavorable situation in which the pursuit of surplus is prohibited and the pursuit is not openly pursued. In fact, idolatry among teenagers has its positive side. Teenagers are active in thinking and like to imitate is a valuable psychological quality, which only needs the correct education and guidance of our family, school and society. Wise parents and teachers often adopt tolerance, participation and discussion to deal with the idolatry of teenagers. Is to open your heart to them and speak freely. Why do you like a star? What will you do when you grow up? What should we do now? In the process of discussion, exploration, thinking, gradual understanding and screening, the problem is gradually led to the depth and the topic is introduced. Don't laugh at or ridicule their naive or even ridiculous ideas, leaving them room for self-awareness, self-adjustment, self-correction and self-improvement.