Unemployed for almost a year, the girl is 26 years old. They are afraid to look for jobs. I guess they can't find anything Some don't want to live! !

Hello, I have read your long and detailed description carefully. According to your description, I found that you have several questions.

First, your self-esteem is low, your heart is fragile, and you are always afraid of failure.

First of all, you mentioned in your description that "you are blind". 1 The question I want to ask you is: Did someone tell you this judgment or did you make it yourself?

In fact, everyone's standard of looking at things and attitude towards handling things have a vision. This attitude needs to be judged according to his own work experience, not because he doesn't handle things well that he is a person with poor ability. In fact, this is a sign of inferiority.

Secondly, you are too self-abased.

In addition, you mentioned that "you are afraid of going out to find a job, losing face, being scolded and being rejected". In fact, what I want to say is: how do you know you will fail if you don't try?

Moreover, there are no good people in this world, and no one will know that you don't have a job, so they ask you, "Do you need a job? I can give you a job. "

In fact, there is no such person in this world, unless your family is a rich second generation. In other words, if you are a rich second generation, you don't have to worry about your work, do you? So this is a matter of your own mentality, and you must change it yourself.

Third, you are not independent and rely too much on your parents.

You also mentioned yourself. Although you are 26 years old, I still hope your parents can take care of you. Actually, I want to say that we have been independent for a long time. Do we still want our elderly parents to take care of us all our lives? Obviously, your mentality is not normal.

Finally, you mentioned that you have a junior college education, and your education is very low, but in fact, compared with most junior high school education and even grassroots entrepreneurs, your junior college education is not low.

In fact, strictly speaking, college education is moderate and more than enough. Besides, you have a second-class computer certificate, driver's license and other graphic design and know how to program ... You know so much, why don't you dare to go out and look for a job? How do you know you will fail unless you try?

So to sum up, I have said so much, in fact, I just want to tell you that many things are not strictly right or wrong. We should go out bravely and try bravely so that others will know what you need. Not trying and always worrying that you will fail is actually a sign of cowardice.

If you are always so cowardly and don't go out to try, then I tell you, you will never succeed.

So, for your question, I give you a suggestion: go out bravely first, find a job first, and get busy first anyway. The reason why a person can think, you will have too many problems, because you have been unemployed for half a year and have no job for half a year. "Half a year is equal to 183 days = 10980 hours =658800 minutes =39528000 seconds", and you are thinking in 39528000 seconds.

So hurry to find a job and get busy first.