In this life, there are four things you'd better not do. If you talk about them, it will be annoying. Do you know that?/You know what?

The function of the mouth is not only to fill the stomach, but also to communicate with people. Talking is more important than eating. Most people who can talk eat well, while those who can only eat get fatter and fatter bodies.

Language is an eternal art, and people who can express themselves can make friends everywhere. His high EQ is the capital of travelling in rivers and lakes. When you step into the society, you will feel that EQ is more important than IQ. In the handling of interpersonal relationships, it is really important to be able to speak. Many people are used to talking straight, talking without thinking, and offending people to death in one sentence; And some people, a mouth is like a spring breeze. If you say it correctly on different occasions, you can understand the implication of others. Such people are natural social kings. Some people will be sour, not only the flattering dog leg, but also not everyone can be a dog leg.

If you have no hope of emotional intelligence, you can only talk less so as not to offend a large group of people invisibly.

In this life, there are four things you'd better not do. If you talk about them, it will be annoying.

If you are not satisfied with other people's opinions, don't share them everywhere.

No one is perfect. Who doesn't have a little problem? Would you please look in the mirror before talking about others? Where are you better than others? Find out what virtue you are first, and then talk about others. Besides, who are you? Don't you like that he can do him substantial harm?

Since people's words and deeds don't interfere with you and have no conflict of interest with you, then you talk about people everywhere and even deliberately smear them, then you are looking for a beating. Even if you want to throw up again, you must endure it. In case the person you confide in is a big mouth, then this hatred is over. And your behavior of speaking ill of others behind their backs will also be spurned by everyone.

Don't be a disseminator of rumors about negative news about others.

Scandal spreads much faster than you think, and everyone has a gossip mentality. As long as the protagonist of the matter is not myself, whether it is true or not, I am happy to eat this melon.

These remarks are groundless. They only know fragments of things, and after reading a few pictures, they begin to make up stories, no matter how exaggerated. Ironically, some people still believe that the truth of the matter has not been hammered out, as if they had witnessed it with their own eyes, and then they embellished it with their own efforts, so rumors spread.

Even if a rumor is finally created, they still believe the version of the story and insist on spreading it.

When you accidentally discover others' secrets, remember to protect their privacy.

Without the initiative of the other party, even if you don't know it, it is disrespectful to others. We are very sensitive to other people's emotions. When you know a corner, driven by curiosity, you will want to know everything. This is an affront to others.

Since your curiosity has been satisfied, it is good to know it yourself, respect the privacy of others, and don't be a traitor. How would you feel if your secret was widely publicized?

As a small statue of this matter, you will arouse everyone's disgust, and no one will pay attention to you again. After all, no one wants their secrets to be known to the public.

It is enough for you to know the ups and downs of your past life.

If a person always likes to brag about his past, it can only show that he has not made any progress in these years, otherwise he will not always indulge in the past, because looking back over the past ten years, the only thing worth showing off is what he once had.

If your life is not as good as before, it's just bring disgrace to oneself. People are respectful to you on the surface, but their hearts are full of contempt for you. If you were really capable, you wouldn't be like this.

Learn to let the past be the past. Living in the present is enough. There's no need to talk about your past when you catch someone.