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The old lady seized her grandchildren and refused to give them. The daughter-in-law was forced to cry three times a day, but it didn't work for her son to knock on the door. What should I do?

I'm also bored with this. I thought it was my postpartum depression before, and I couldn't hide my mother-in-law from stealing my children. Now that the children are two years old, I find that this is not the case. She is always very rude to steal children from me. I got it in one hand. When the child cries, I want the child, and she always turns away. Turn your back on me, lest I rob it.

when the child wants me, she drags on and turns away from giving me the child. If the child cries in my arms, she answers, and the child doesn't want her. She dragged it by death. Like I'm the stepmother. A mother doesn't even want to meet such a person. I don't want her to hold my baby at all. In the second month, I want to bite people when she does this. All experienced mothers should have this feeling.

if I heard that, I would be hurt, too. Feelings return to feelings. We need reasonable actions besides emotions. After all, parents have the greatest influence on children, and what we say and do will affect them.

It's understandable to live apart from each other. It's better for grandparents to love their grandchildren than to ignore them. In that case, we will still get hurt.

If I were a stay-at-home mother, I would take the initiative to arrange time for my grandparents to spend alone with their children. With these time, I would quietly read books to improve myself, spend a private time with my husband to enjoy our special time, and make an afternoon tea with friends to keep in touch and friendship, and so on. In this way, it is a win-win solution, which not only gives grandparents and grandchildren a happy family together, but also has time to do their own things.

Then if we give our children to the elderly, we have to trust them. No one has a good or bad influence on the children. What we need to adjust is always our own behavior, and we can't decide what others think or do.

In fact, it is impossible for in-laws to take their grandchildren for themselves, and grandparents can never replace their children's parents.

The subject's worry is unnecessary, and it is desirable for parents to take care of their children. Maybe your stay-at-home mom is addicted. It's just a joke. It is a blessing for a daughter-in-law to have grandparents to take care of her children. She can free up her hands to do something else, go out and find a job that suits her, or do some suitable business to be her own boss. This will not only make money, but also realize my own life value, which is much more fulfilling than staying at home and being a full-time mother. You can take care of your children when you come home from work, and it doesn't affect the parent-child relationship.

Besides, it's natural for grandparents to take good care of their grandchildren. They don't take their grandchildren for themselves, so it's not worth making a fuss about. The traditional "generational separation" makes the elderly love their grandchildren more than their own children, and care for their grandchildren's food, drink, Lazar and other daily life in every possible way, so that their parents can rest assured and worry-free. I also gave birth to a nanny fee for my son and daughter-in-law, which reduced part of the burden of life. Why not?

be content! Cherish your blessings! Be grateful! Be kind to your grandparents! It is not malicious for them to take care of their grandchildren, and it is also very hard. It is really not easy for them.