How to use play hard to get with girls?

Lesson 1: The first plan: the iron plan. With the development of society, MM has become more and more fierce. Women are fiercer than tigers. It is best to wear an iron mask if you want to win over a girl without getting hurt by her. Protected by an iron face, he can say disgusting words without blushing, and his nose will not be sore even if his sister's jade hands hit him, and his eyes will not be dazzled. He is too handsome and once learned this trick from the leader of the village. When my sister is tired and annoyed, she will agree. An iron face is far better than having both ability and political integrity! My advice is not to use this strategy in Dayang. Dayang's girls are so powerful, they are like tigers among tigers. This strategy is especially ineffective in the happy E family. You have the iron face strategy, and the Oriental girl has the kicking skills.

The second plan: discount plan. When you see a girl, you must first calm down. If sex is not attractive, people will be obsessed with it. Don't mess up your shooting skills when you see MM. No matter how beautiful or proud the girl is, you can check it out at a discount. Just because she's beautiful doesn't necessarily mean she's meek. She's a beauty, but she might be a loser. No matter how good the girl is, if the discount reaches her ankles, she will be ignored by everyone. Don't take MM seriously, that's half the battle, I believe this. Girls are unpredictable, so don't discount her too much or lose interest in her. An old man once said that we should ignore MM strategically and pay attention to MM tactically.

The third plan: swing plan. Anyone who has experience playing on a swing knows that in order to swing high, you need to apply force step by step. To successfully soak a MM, you have to increase your strength step by step. If you apply more force today, you will lose force tomorrow, and you can only dangle in the same place. Unless you are a worldly expert who spends three days fishing and two days drying nets to maintain your balance, you will only be able to hold your arms alone and watch other girls come and go. Remember, you have to be organized when picking up girls. You can’t eat hot tofu if you are in a hurry. Picking up girls is like being a human being, you need to take it one step at a time.

The fourth plan: eating grass. A good horse never eats grass that turns back, so a good horse is always hungry. In this world, as long as MM exists, GG's fate will be one more day. When girls are thrown away like a bear breaking off a stick, fortunately you are not a bear. It doesn't matter if you don't have a stick under your arm at the moment. You can go back and walk around again. Many girls dive very deep, so be careful to look for clues of the beauty shark. Xin GG studied this strategy nine hundred years ago. He said that when he suddenly looked back, the girl was there in the dim light.

The fifth plan: the top hat plan. Everyone likes to wear high hats, and MM is a human being, so MM likes to wear high hats. A GG who knows how to flatter a girl is a good GG, and a GG who knows how to flatter a girl is even more outstanding among people. This strategy is not easy to grasp. Some high-level girls can only be defeated by high-level flatterers. The sweet-tongued GG has a girl to hold her. She has come from practice and will continue to go to practice. It is easy to attack a girl who falls down, but you must not attack a girl who falls down frequently. For example, beware of the Eastern girl hiding in the rabbit kicking eagle position when she falls to the ground.

The sixth plan: the yellow flower plan. The golden flower plan refers to the fact that youth is perishable, and many things and many people become yesterday's yellow flowers in the blink of an eye. JJ Du Qiuniang said in "Three Hundred Songs about Picking Up Girls" that flowers can only be cut when they bloom, but do not wait until the flowers are empty and the branches are broken. How long can you have fun in life? Not only is it not easy for GG to meet a good MM, but it is also not easy for MM to meet a good GG. We must seize the opportunity and keep pace with the times. Girls are like yellow flowers, and they fly away in a blink of an eye. Time waits for no one to pick up girls! I remember the painful memory of a GG who wasted countless precious time picking up girls, "Recalling the past, the years are full of vicissitudes, but it is a pity that I was so sad when I didn't pick up girls, and my young head turned gray."

Seventh plan: fork rice. count. The fork-and-rice plan means that no matter how good the food is, you will always get tired of eating the same food. Only balanced nutrition can be beneficial to your health. The same is true for picking up girls, which is beneficial to the health of GGs. One day when you feel tired of picking up a certain girl, you should consider learning like shredded fish, sometimes soaking rice girls, sometimes soaking sesame cake girls, so as to pick up girls to be healthy and happy. Don't eat too much rice, and don't soak too much.

The eighth plan: the potato plan. The more the potato vine spreads, the farther the potatoes will grow. Even if the vine is destroyed, the potatoes can still be preserved. This strategy does not apply to Oriental MM. She is a biology teacher. When I tried this strategy on her, she had to dig the potatoes three feet into the ground. come out. The main idea is that when you pick up a girl, you have to get the rewards of picking up one girl. Don't pick up N girls and it's like you haven't picked up one girl yet.

A foreigner named Paul once said that GG's life should be spent like this. When he looks back on the past, he does not regret for wasting his years, and does not feel ashamed for being mediocre. He should be proud to say...

The ninth plan: shooting wild geese. This plan is very old, but it remains new over time. Lang Jun still wrote it down. Old trees can also bloom new flowers! When two ancient people shot wild geese and discussed how to eat them, the geese had already flown away. When you see a girl, don't always think about how to have sex with her after you get her. Just when you are daydreaming, she might have fallen into the arms of another GG. The main idea of ??the Shooting Goose Strategy is to take action when it is time to take action. If the action is not accurate, it is a technical problem, and if the action is not fast, it is an ideological problem.

The tenth plan: money plan. Nine out of ten girls are greedy for money. If you can't get a girl, don't worry. It is better to retreat and build a net if you are envious of fish in the abyss. It has nothing to do with you if a hundred GGs die under her skirt, you just have to keep silent and make money. When your pockets are bulging, you don't need to go to girls, girls will line up to pick you up. A rich GG will naturally have witty words, good looks, a gentleman's demeanor, and a diamond ring.

The eleventh plan: coffee plan. Although coffee is bitter, it can refresh you, and even if it is bitter, picking up girls can also refresh you. Even if you pick up a girl and go to bed, you need to know that going to bed is a strenuous job. Picking up girls may seem glamorous on the surface, but only you know the ups and downs. Being with a girl is naturally very refreshing. Excessive refreshing will inevitably lead to neurasthenia, inability to eat well, and restless sleep. This is a typical syndrome of picking up girls.

The twelfth plan: the lackey plan. This is the most common trick used by GGs all over the world when picking up girls. In the tenderness of MM's eyes, I would rather be a lackey, regardless of time, fame and fortune, rain or shine, no regrets. In fact, it is quite effective. The running dog tactic is really a simple and unpretentious way to pick up girls. The recommendation index is five stars.

The thirteenth plan: billiards plan. I remember there was a joke about the difference between women and billiards. Women score the ball but not the stick, while billiards makes the ball score but not the stick. Although there is a difference between playing with your sister and playing billiards, the goal is to make a hole. Although you can't ask for a hole-in-the-shot like Davis enjoyed the benefits, you still have to play a few shots to make a hole. How about billiards? It's hard to say. Picking up girls is like playing billiards. Scoring a hole in ten is also a victory. If you pick up a girl only for her soul and not for her body, then all the GGs in the ocean will admire your high level.

Plan 14: Journey to the West. Being a girl is like a master and a disciple learning from each other. Picking up girls is often not a matter of one person, but a matter of a group of people. There are three gangs to pick up girls, and unity is strength. Most girls are helpless in the face of a pack of wolves. The key to success is to decide on a master to pick up girls, so that you don't get into trouble before the girl is picked up. Confucius has an experience, GG's worry is not about picking up girls, but in staying within the wall.

The fifteenth plan: the smelly socks plan. Socks worn for a month without washing are logically more smelly than socks worn for a day without washing. A GG who doesn't pick up girls for a month is logically more energetic than a GG who doesn't pick up girls for a day. This kind of energy is too tempting for MM, and MM also needs to try new things. To live, one needs to have the energy to live, and to pick up girls, one needs to have the energy to pick up girls.

Sixteenth plan: sell oranges. There is a mandarin orange seller in Hangzhou. The outside is gold and jade, and the inside is rotten catkins. He puts them on the market and sells them for ten times the price. They are rushing to buy them. That's what MM is like, even if she is a loser, as long as she is beautiful, there will always be fans. Although all pretty girls are idiots, if you want to date beautiful girls, GG must not be idiots. What if you are a idiot? It's easy to handle, you just need to be lucky, and her GG is more stupid than you.

The Seventeenth Strategy: Two-sided strategy. A gentleman on the outside but a gangster secretly. People with these two faces are extremely good at picking up girls. This plan has been prepared by predecessors, but Lang Jun does not want to continue Diao. Let’s just talk about China’s gangster culture. Out of ten GGs, nine are yellow, and one is a gangster. Hooligans are all talented men, so for thousands of years, the success rate of hooligans in picking up girls has remained high. In the Book of Songs, it is the little hooligan who picks up girls by holding cloth silk, the big hooligan who gets promoted and makes money, and the biggest hooligan who becomes the emperor. Don't you brag that you have so many girls? No matter how many girls you have, are they still more than the emperor?

The Eighteenth Strategy: Butterfly Strategy. You and I are the wings of a butterfly, close together when we land and separated when we fly. This strategy is used in a wonderful way, like a butterfly dancing like a butterfly.

This is a common method used by higher-level GGs and higher-level MMs. Being away or leaving does not mean that you are hot and cold towards MM, but that your separation will affect MM's heart. Tempting——What a wonderful thing!

The nineteenth plan: solve the cow plan. The cook understands that a cow has a blind eye, but he will also have a blind eye when it comes to picking up girls. The cook has been handling cattle for nineteen years, and he is very good at it. He is still frightened when he sees a cow, so he stops it. His behavior is late, and he uses the knife very little. A skilled GG will also be cautious when he sees a girl. Under the knife of the cook, the cow is like the soil and the earth; under the GG gun, the girl is like the soil and the earth. Pay special attention to the fact that Cook Ding has been using his sword for nineteen years but the blade is as new as a young man. I don’t know if there is a GG in the world who has been picking up girls for nineteen years and the sword is as new as a teenager. Be careful when picking up girls, be careful with it, it is the most deadly weapon in the world, do it as a last resort!

Plan 20: Draw a pie plan. Of course, painting cakes is to satisfy hunger. If you haven't picked up a girl, getting a picture of her is always better than nothing. Lang Jun was once confused, should he regard this plan as a cake painting plan or a plum blossom plan? In the end, I decided to draw cakes, because I have already painted cakes with Qingshengyu silk, so painting cakes must be more enjoyable than looking at plum blossoms. The taste of plum blossoms is sour, and it would not be good if your teeth fall out. It's easy to pick up girls if you draw a cake, but it's not us to draw a cake every year.

The second plan: Tang poetry plan. I have read 300 Tang poems by heart, and even if I can't recite poems, I will become obscene. Ai's student once said that the genius of picking up girls is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration. You have sweated 99% of the time trying to pick up girls, and you are almost a genius at picking up girls. Picking up girls is a skilled job, haven’t you managed to pick up girls? It's not that you're unlucky, it's that you're not skilled. There is a poem that proves that it is noon to pick up girls, and the sweat is dripping on the soil. Who knows that picking up girls is hard work for everyone.

Second plan: toilet plan. I'm not teaching you to spy on the toilet. You want to go to the toilet when you are holding in your pee, or you just want to go to the toilet to clean yourself and have a cigarette. What next? Of course, leave, who wants to stay in the toilet for a lifetime. You have many reasons to pick up girls, and you have many reasons to get rid of the girls you pick up. well! This is reality. Planning to dump a girl before picking her up is the tragedy of GG and the tragedy of MM.

The second and third plan: Apple plan. When an apple hit his head, Newton immediately thought of gravity. When MM passes by, you should learn from GG and think of picking her up immediately. All things in the world have the same principles, and the law of universal gravitation applies to the law of picking up girls. When a beautiful girl passes by, GG will always feel the force of gravity. The success of picking up girls is directly proportional to the quality of GG and inversely proportional to the distance. You have no way to improve the quality for the time being. You can only find ways to get closer. The one who is closer to the water and the tower will get the moon first, and the one who is close to the GG will get the girl first. In fact, a girl is quite lonely if she has no one to hang out with. It is simply a crime to make a girl lonely. If you don’t believe it, we can do an experiment on the Oriental girl. Don’t say hello to the Oriental girl for a day and see how the Oriental girl reacts. However, this agreement may not be reached. Oriental girls are too attractive to wolves.

The second and fourth plan: a small fresh plan. Governing a big country is like cooking small delicacies, and picking up girls is like running a country. Lao Tzu's words do not mean that governing a big country is as easy as cooking a small fish, but that when cooking a small fish, you cannot always turn it, otherwise it will turn the fish into pieces. It is about governing by doing nothing. When it comes to picking up girls without doing anything, of course you can pick up whoever you want. However, doing nothing is too difficult. For those who are just learning GG, they only need to remember to think twice before speaking and doing things, talk less nonsense, and do less trivial things. Every word and every thing should have a good effect on picking up girls. It should scratch the girl's itch, just like cooking fresh food. It doesn't turn much, but it gets twice the result with half the effort.

Top 25: Overlord strategy. Lang Jun did not ask GGs to review the "Criminal Law" and then rap. Gentleness has no lethality at all to many girls, so a bully is needed to take the bow. Junior high school physics textbooks remind us that the resistance to picking up girls is constant, so the greater the intensity of picking up girls, the faster the speed of picking up girls. Of course, when you use your overlord power, you will definitely encounter resistance from the MM. The force you use must exceed the resistance, otherwise the MM will not give in. If you can use the Overlord Strategy, you can do a small test. She is walking hand in hand with a man on the street. Do you dare to hold her face and kiss her? If not, I suggest you use Strategy 20. .

Plan 26: Sleeping plan. If you feel sluggish about picking up girls, then go get some sleep. You are thinking about her day and night, your clothes are getting wider and wider, and she will not know at all.

She can be the boss in front of her, but just treat her as a pig behind her back. Go get some sleep. Tomorrow you can tell her with full energy that you didn't sleep last night and let her heart beat. How can GG, who can't even sleep well, be so good with MM? It can be said without any exaggeration that sleep is the only criterion for testing the psychological quality of picking up girls.

The 27th plan: happy plan. If you want to pick up a girl, you must first go to the Happy E tribe, which is poor and mouthy. When you become enchanted, your eyes are green, and your mouth is oily, you can go pick up girls. MM likes humor and GG remains unchanged through the ages. How did Liang Jinsong meet Fu Mingxia? According to Fu Mingxia, Liang was more humorous. MM and you are happy together. At this time, if you ask MM to leave, she will be reluctant to leave. It is recommended that the Happy Edition hold a Happy GG competition, and anyone who gets the ranking can go out to pick up girls.

The 28th plan: Ya Po plan: If there is no matchmaker, Zhang Sheng will not be able to make Yingying; if there is no Wang Po, Ximen Qing will not be able to make Pan Jinlian. The power of intermediaries is really powerful. Don't ask GG to help you match others, there are too many lessons in trying to match others. When Lang Jun was studying, he once discussed with MM, what would happen to the world if Zhang Sheng dated the matchmaker and Ximen Qing dated the queen?

The 29th plan: Qiu Hong plan. Su Dongpo warned his niece about the commonly used methods of picking up girls in the world: people come with letters like Qiu Hong, and things are like spring dreams without leaving a trace. Chunmeng Wuhen is talking about the last of the three or six strategies, which will be explained below. What people like Qiuhong said is that you have to be honest when picking up girls. Although the woman is nicknamed mentally retarded, women have always been very sensitive. She can feel if she is honest or dishonest. "Book of Rites: Doctrine of the Mean" says that sincerity is self-contained.

The thirtieth plan: Lottery plan. Buy lottery tickets in order to win a prize, even though the possibility of winning is very small. Finding a good girl is about as difficult as winning the jackpot. Some GGs didn't catch the rabbits, and some GGs vomited blood but still couldn't catch the rabbits. However, in order to pick up the girl they like, the GGs still keep going. Buying lottery tickets and reading Cai Jing, picking up girls and watching Qing Jing, all you can do is stay calm, and there is always a feeling that you are just a little bit behind. A simple probability question, there is not one girl in a hundred with a good figure, there is not one girl in a hundred that is beautiful, there is not one girl in a hundred that is well-educated, one hundred to the third power is one million , a good sister is one in a million! . The husband advises that winning a five-dollar lottery ticket is also a lottery win, and picking up a girl with a score of 60 points is also picking up a girl.

The third plan: the drunken plan. Wine is a matchmaker for sex, and it is easy to get a girl after drinking wine. But now many GGs are not up to par, and they can’t beat MMs when drinking. In sadness, I don’t want to say more.

The third and second plan: the plan to defeat the mantis. Shit beetles push dung balls, Wu Dalang plays night owl, and a GG of any grade picks up a girl of a certain grade. This is generally the case. If the toad eats the hawkmoth meat, don't end up not being able to eat even the fly excrement. Envying flowers on cow dung is a normal psychological reaction. But don't underestimate cow dung, he must be outstanding. Lai Han takes a fairy wife, and he looks good on the surface, but secretly he endures a lot of hardships. A Lai Han who can marry a fairy wife is not far from a great man.

The third and third strategy: keep the clumsy strategy. Guo Jing mastered the Shou Zhuo plan, so he became a master of martial arts and Huang Rong became a master. You don't have to have great wisdom to use this trick. The husband just mentioned this phenomenon. If you can really reach the realm of skill and clumsiness, you can become the teacher of the husband, even if you need the husband to teach him how to pick up girls. Lang Jun has never seen a really stupid boy who can pick up a good girl.

The third and fourth plan: the bell-ringing plan. When a girl is lonely, it is inevitable that Hongxing will cheat on her, so you should always be afraid of being stubborn. Being a monk for a day makes you hit the clock, and dating a girl means you have to please the girl for an extra day. However, girls are quite complicated now. Even if you visit her every day, she will inevitably throw herself at other GGs, but you should be nicer to her. She throws herself at other GGs less frequently. Sigh! In this world, a girl who doesn't have sex with others is a good girl, woo woo woo...

The third and fifth strategy: save wine. A husband never stores wine in one place, otherwise the bottle will be empty by the time he drinks it. The common method is to store wine A somewhere, wine B somewhere, somewhere... the girl will only regret it when she needs it. It is often needed Have some backup ready. There is MM A somewhere, MM B somewhere, somewhere...

Plan No. 36: Flying Wings Plot. Su Dongpo explained to his niece how to pick up girls: "It's like a spring dream without a trace."

Li Bai said harshly: "When it's over, just brush off your clothes and hide yourself and your name." There is a poem that GG often chants, passing among thousands of flowers, not a single leaf touches me. Lang Jun understands this principle well, so he uses this strategy as a tactic to suppress the roll. Thirty-six strategies, even if it is too slow to go, it is still fast to fly!

Let me show you my experience.

First, save the country through curves. Enter her circle of friends, find someone close to her, someone with whom you have a good relationship, bring you in, and have a PART chat with her, have a drink or something. Even if she wants to show off to you, she still has to worry about the face of her friends, so at this time, it is best for you to give full play to your strengths, such as humor, comedy, rich knowledge, beautiful dancing, and beautiful singing voice. Let her know more about you.

Second, avoid the important and take the easy. Don't ever mention the word "chasing". Think about it, even if she knows you are interested in her but you just don't say "chasing", how can she reject you? So don't be too nervous and be confident if you want to be with her again. Men, hold your head up! ! ! We must ignore it strategically and pay attention tactically. You are even afraid of being with MM, and people won’t laugh at your good prospects.

Third, you are pretending to be public for personal gain. What should I do if she doesn’t want to be alone with you, or doesn’t want to be in contact with you at all?

It doesn’t matter, you can contact her at work, even if she doesn’t want to be with you, then you can show it and She did a great job and performed a talented and handsome song in front of her. I believe it has an effect.

Fourth, take advantage of the opportunity. Girls, in their hearts, they still long to rely on. You'd better have an insider first, without paying a lot of money to bribe him! ! ! If something happens to her, you have to show it. For example, if she is sick, of course you have to show up, check on her, and bring some small gifts. She is in a bad mood recently, so send more text messages with jokes.

Fifth, it’s hard work. He is single and very well-behaved once he gets it ^_^ My girlfriend is. At that time you will be her support. So, persistence is important. No matter how hateful a girl is, she is still an emotional creature and hates being moved. It’s not like the iceberg didn’t melt one day.

Finally, you have to act cool. Why should a man worry about not having a wife? Even if you can't catch up, be generous and don't be too narrow-minded. At worst, you should do a better job and let her know that she had an eye problem in the first place! ! !

Brother, this is the information I gave you, it feels good:

I am a girl. I see some boys who want to chase the girl they like but dare not. I feel disgusted when people pursue her.

From a girl’s perspective, I understand girls’ psychology better. Most girls will not take the initiative to pursue the boy they like, unless they really like him too much or are brave girls with more personality. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is interested in you, then take the initiative and don't get into a tug-of-war with her. If you feel uncomfortable, the person you like may suffer too.

Whenever a girl is chased by someone, her psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is also a little scared. She has an ambivalent attitude towards this boy who breaks into her peaceful life. She does not mean to refuse but welcome him. Don't think that she is testing you, she is actually fighting with herself, and she is afraid of being hurt.

Don’t be afraid that your initiative will offend her. If you don’t take the initiative, she won’t take the initiative either, and she will slowly fade away. If your initial confession is rejected by her, that's normal. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess your love twice more, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you suffer a setback, leave immediately, never talk to this girl again, protect yourself tightly, and lick your wounds silently. While you are in pain, little do you know, that girl Maybe I am feeling regretful and regretful in my heart! Also? Wei low mourning dowry? Ligao coriander? Four contradictions? Sweeping fluke? Bad difficulty is scar? Bu gorge onion mold? Pry? Bed for Xiu Yue Tadan? Yuan for Kongxie Yun 湩 vinegar bandit? D Stunned tomb? Que Nao kills parrot model? Supports and rong tears α waiter? ⒆ Use equipment to copy?

She will think that you don't sincerely like him, otherwise why would you just give up on her?

Some people say that it is so difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role positioning of men and women. From a physiological and social perspective, women are always passive. If it were the other way around, and men would be shy and women would move forward courageously, the world would be in chaos! A woman's shyness is always beautiful and touching~ I have always heard that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are very few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are stalkers and get a bad reputation. But I think that when a boy pursues a girl he likes and continues to be nice to the girl after some setbacks, it means that he really likes her and is sincere. If he doesn't succeed, he doesn't regret it. It's nothing, right? Who made people like it? I hate other people messing around the most, and I also hate boys who have no idea of ??their own and care too much about what others think of them. Such boys deserve to be unable to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are inherently emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you have worked hard, once your sincerity touches her, you will get more and longer love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are very gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. In exchange for this sweetness, what is the hard work in the beginning? And most good girls are very devoted and dedicated in love.

So, I suggest some boys to be brave and pursue the girl they like. Don’t be so timid. Firstly, it will make people think you are unmanly. Secondly, it will make you feel uncomfortable. But the most important thing is: in the end you get nothing. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!

One more thing, I think it’s good to be proactive, because your goal is something you really like. Girls are often passive, and the passive ones can only choose to accept or reject, so I would rather take the initiative. , love what I love, no regrets!

1. Be confident and responsible

Don’t be like a child. Girls are very lazy and hope to find someone to rely on. You have to show your confidence and Come on with responsibility.

It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

2. Don’t be too serious, but don’t be too casual either.

Be serious where you should be serious, and laugh when you should be ridiculous.

What kind of sex is there to play if the female servant is not in charge of the team? What kind of fish is there? The member is allowed to be the cook and the cook is the successor? Eggplant? 舭戉?

3. Look more mature

A man who is calm and unhurried in times of trouble is fatally attracted to his sister.

2. How to have further contact with mm (time: the beginning of chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be anxious, not to make things so clear, let People can tell at a glance that you are chasing them.

Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not hate you at first glance. They are all ordinary people’s children (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau or Kevin Coster) (Na), goodwill needs to be realized as understanding continues to increase, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from a girl’s perspective: If you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find out that I don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't it be like playing tricks on you? So if you come out with a determined attitude from the beginning, you will basically be put back immediately.

2. Start with a low profile

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". If you want to become a "good friend", it is okay if you have good taste. Ask the other person to become a "confidante" or something like that, but never say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you - how can she reject you if you don't pursue her? !

This can reduce the psychological pressure on girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that you will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other. You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not arise out of thin air.

3. Don’t be too impatient in the process of dating.

Be relaxed and don’t pester others all day long. You will get tired of anyone who treats you like this. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing a girl is eight words - "hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the culmination of many years of hard work by my classmate).

Of course they won’t think well of you if you keep pestering them all day long. If you cool off for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

Also, don’t have the ambition of “I won’t marry you unless you want me”. It’s not good if the price is too low. Sometimes you can use some tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately

As mentioned earlier, don’t make things immediately turn into “you are chasing someone else”, and you need to get the opportunity to get close to girls. It all depends on your creativity.

You can collect intelligence and find ways to turn waiting around into an encounter; you can also pretend to be casual and find the most sufficient reasons to invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it really doesn’t work, you can ask your seniors for advice.

5. Don’t: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things and give them to others. However, they don’t know that this is the most taboo thing for chasing girls.

As the saying goes, "No reward for no work". If you give people things like this, you are putting pressure on them. People will feel that they owe you something, so they will find a way to pay you back. If they can't pay you back, they will Find a way not to associate with you so that you don't always owe you favors.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask a girl to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play together. Girls will naturally be able to see that you spend money. It was a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people together rather than turned into things to take home.

3. What exactly is a “girlfriend”?

1. "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise

When you start dating a girl, you change from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", and then to To "a very, very good friend who talks about everything", you "accidentally" held her hand on a sunny afternoon; to "the moon above the willows", you suddenly attacked and kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks that you are her boyfriend.

I know that the wisest person didn’t even ask “Will you be my girlfriend” until we went to bed? In the end, the girl got anxious and said, “Why don’t you ask me to be your girlfriend? ”

So, don’t rush to pierce the window paper. The more hazy the situation is, the better it is for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As mentioned before, confession is actually just a formality. The correct sequence should be: Only when she has actually become your girlfriend can you confess your love to others, and it will be a matter of course. Many people don't understand this issue and always think that someone agrees to be their girlfriend first and then does whatever they want. I can only say that it is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Is there ever a time when you “have no choice but to express your feelings”?

Yes, for example, a third party appears, or the relationship between you and the girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a period of time.

The confession at this time is an immature confession, and the risk is very high. It is similar to the serious situation when playing Go. The lagging side is forced to release the "winner's hand", and if it wins, it wins. If you lose, you can only say "Unlucky people are born".

4. Don’t say the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confessions" appearing on forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even a kind of responsibility.

Men who say "love" casually are irresponsible.

4. Civilized love cannot be forced.

1. Not every girl can be pursued.

There will always be many people chasing good girls. No. Maybe everyone's wish comes true, but there will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the most advanced principles of chasing girls, you still can't catch up with anyone in TWINS.

Think about the problem from another angle. A rural nanny who has not graduated from elementary school, no matter how nice she is to you, earns 600 a month and buys you 700 gifts (overdraft), and is willing to "play a role" for you. "You won't fall in love with her either. If she cries and pesters you every day, you will definitely feel annoyed.

So love needs a material foundation, or at least a balance.

2. Chasing girls is a serious social activity.

Don’t annoy others and leave a way out for yourself. Why should a man worry about not having a wife? Some girls are indeed snobbish (a minority). If you are not convinced, you can work hard and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time." Never mislead others or yourself