"I also want to find a woman like Li Xiuzhi as a wife ..."

Chatting with a single friend, suddenly a sentence popped up: "I also want to find a woman like Li Xiuzhi as a wife ..."

I was stunned at this end of the network. After a while, he asked, "Who is Li Xiuzhi?"

My friend made a few sarcastic expressions, and then threw them over and said, "Go and see the movie Shepherd yourself."

So, I obediently brushed up the "Herdsmen" published by 1982 on the Internet. Unexpectedly, I also succeeded in becoming a loyal fan of herders and couldn't put it down.

Let's talk about the plot of the movie first.

During the Cultural Revolution, young Xu was beaten to the right by his rich father in the United States and sent to Qilian Mountain for labor reform. Later, because of "a strange and accidental arrangement", he married Li Xiuzhi, a rural girl from Jiangyou, Sichuan. Thirty years later, his father, Xu Jingyao, felt deeply guilty for not fulfilling his father's responsibility. After returning home, he was determined to bring his son back to the United States and inherit the inheritance to make up for his guilt of abandoning his son and leaving his wife. Xu Lingjun loves his wife and children deeply, and he doesn't want to leave those ranchers who share weal and woe. He chose to give up the opportunity to go to the United States with his father, return to Qilian Mountain, which he loves, and live a quiet life with his wife Xiuzhi and his lovely son.

The picture of the film is simple and clean, but the kind of mutual help, kindness and simplicity of human nature is unobstructed. I don't want to discuss the so-called feelings of home and country in the film Xu He's innocent feelings in the film deeply touched the author.

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The temperature in marriage is interdependent.

That's how love begins.

Xu was cooking when he burst in: "Hey, do you want a wife?"

Xu froze.

Guo Zi: "If you want a wife, just ask and I'll send it to you in a minute."

Xu Lingjun thought Guo Zi was joking and said with a smile, "Then you can send it."

Guo Zi: "OK, it's a deal. You're ready."

So,

Xu, a rightist in his thirties, is still unmarried.

Li Xiuzhi, a woman who escaped from the desert but died unexpectedly because of the marriage partner introduced by her cousin,

With the help of Guo Zi, an enthusiastic herdsman, they were "matched" together.

After they met, they seemed a little overwhelmed, but in the first interaction, people felt tears.

After Guo Zi left, two strange men and women had nothing to say.

At this time, the porridge cooked in the pot is ready.

"Eat, I cooked porridge."

Xu put porridge in a big bowl and put it in front of Xiuzhi. Xiuzhi looked at the only bowl of porridge and looked at him with surprised eyes.

Xu Lingjun: "You eat, I'm ... I'm not hungry. "

Xiuzhi brought the bowl to him: "You eat, you have been busy all day."

Ling Jun pushed the bowl to her again: "Eat."

Xiuzhi smiled and said, "Let's share it."

When I saw this passage, I thought of talking about the ups and downs of marriage with my friend Xiao. She told a very common story on the Internet, but it was a portrayal of her real life.

Xiao and her husband are both working civil servants. The child is 5 years old and is a particularly naughty boy. During the day, the husband's parents help to take care of the kindergarten, and the husband and wife take it home at night. It is said that the couple brought it by themselves. In fact, both of them were brought by Xiao A, because after returning home, the husbands were waiting for dinner by playing games on the sofa on the grounds of work fatigue. After dinner, they will turn to bed to play games.

This is not the most disappointing thing for Xiao A.

The most disappointing thing is that most of the time, because I have to take care of my children to eat first, when I sit at the dinner table, I find that as long as my husband likes to eat, all the dishes have been eaten cleanly and nothing will be left to her. Dislikes are usually pulled out of shape.

The little boy said, "whenever I see the cups and plates on the table in a mess, I want to lift the table many times."

I know I won't choose divorce. She will think that in my small county, there may be no better one after divorce.

However, the temperature in marriage will gradually disappear because of these small details.

In the film, after eating porridge, Xu and Xu compete to wash the dishes. Finally, I began to wash the dishes, and I opened the thermos in time to add hot water to the bowl.

I think this is the temperature in marriage.

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A good marriage is a heartfelt recognition.

Xu has always felt inferior because of his rightist identity. He thought he couldn't give Li Xiuzhi happiness, so he took out all his savings and hoped that Li Xiuzhi would go home.

"Xiuzhi", Xu Lingjun sighed, "I made a mistake and was destined to work here all my life."

"What's wrong with working for a lifetime? I will work here with you. "

"That's so sorry for you."

"I'm sorry me? My life is very good. "

"Why?"

"I see, I met a good person!"

Xu Lingjun grabbed Li Xiuzhi's hand excitedly.

Perhaps, for Xu, an isolated and despised rightist everywhere, what could be more intimate than the name "good man"?

In fact, according to modern marriage, many people who are struggling just want to find a lover like Li Xiuzhi.

She is hardworking and kind, pregnant with infinite strength, and does not reduce her love for her husband because of his external conditions.

Just like later, Xu was rehabilitated and took back 500 yuan. Xiuzhi has been sitting there counting money.

Xu Lingjun said, "Hey, Xiuzhi, what are you doing?"

Xiuzhi smiled and said, "What a mess! I can't count it! Counted several times, so much money! "

Xu Lingjun: "Oh, you are such a person! ..... What is money? Thankfully, I was reborn politically. "

Xiuzhi: "What are the political freshmen? You are still you in my eyes. "

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Marriage fit is to live comfortably in each other's space.

We can see that after Xu He got married, their married life was of high quality.

Xu is very supportive of building a courtyard wall and a room, and she also wants her to go to school. I love Xiuzhi more in my life. As Xiuzhi himself said, "You will coax me like a child."

I believe that a woman who is spoiled like a child by a man must be full of happiness.

Xu left Qilian Mountain the night before to see his father.

The couple were lying in bed, and Ling Jun slowly held Xiuzhi's hand and said, "Xiuzhi, what if my father asked me to go to America?"

Xiuzhi replied, "You can go there. There is a mansion to live in, a car to sit in, and naked dancing. As long as you are happy, I can eat anything. "

But Li Xiuzhi shed tears.

I believe that if Xu Lingjun really chooses to go to the United States, then the most painful person must be Li Xiuzhi. But I also believe that she will be strong enough to live and bring up her children.

Of course, at the end of the film, Xu returned to his side and the three of them lived a happy life.

Back to the beginning of the article, I want to say to those men who want to find a wife like Li Xiuzhi, in fact, there are many "Li Xiuzhi" around us, but you just haven't found them. At the same time, because you are not "Xu Lingjun", even if you find out, you don't know how to cherish her kindness.

Finally, let's look at a story of nine cows.

Once upon a time, there were two brothers. They didn't find the girl they wanted in their village, so they decided to go outside together to find the girl they wanted.

At the entrance to the village, they met a girl. My brother thought that the girl was the right person, so he said to his brother, "That girl is the one I am looking for. I want to stay here. "

My brother saw that the girl was not very beautiful, so he advised his brother, "Forget it, this one is really not beautiful. Let's keep looking! " "

My younger brother insisted on staying and inquired about the local marriage proposal custom. To propose to a more beautiful girl, you have to send many cows, up to nine.

As a result, my brother bought nine cows and proposed to them.

The girl's father said, "You don't have to rush so many cows to propose. My daughter is just an ordinary person, and she needs three or four cows at most. It is wrong of you to send so many cows. My neighbors will laugh if I accept them. "

The younger brother said, "no, old man, I think your daughter is the most beautiful and best girl in the world." I think she is worth nine cows. " Please be sure to accept it. "

After marriage, my brother has always regarded the girl as the most beautiful and lovely woman.

A few years later, my brother came back. He was puzzled that the girl was far from that beautiful.

The younger brother said, "Since childhood, everyone thought she was an ordinary person, and even thought she was nothing special. But since I took her back as a nine-bull, she began to learn the advantages of nine-bull. As a result, three years have passed, but I didn't expect her to really become a smart, virtuous, beautiful and lovely person. "

I have always believed that this is the true meaning of marriage.

The secret of a happy marriage is that what the other person looks like in your heart will become what he looks like. Of course, the premise is that you have to meet the person who is "not afraid of difficulties and keep pace with you" in your marriage. There is nothing fishy in life. Only two people work together can Qi Xin move forward.

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The picture comes from the internet.