Keep your heart alone, keep your mouth shut in groups.

Now everyone can say that sales people, personnel people and bosses all have glib tongues, but if they talk too much, they will lose. It is useless to talk too much.

I met a new friend recently. He is very good at talking. When we have dinner together, it is difficult for others to interrupt. If you say one word, he will say ten words.

I can see that he likes to compare with others, especially in front of women. He must show himself to be very powerful, at least better than all the men at the same table, just like some bosses, who must control the right to speak in the company.

It's humbling to be with this kind of person, just like a meeting. You can't speak until he asks you. If you say something wrong, he will "talk" to you. I make friends now, just to be happy, and it is best to have no interests. Unfortunately, this idea is difficult to realize.

Because most people come to talk to you because they think it's profitable for you. When someone comes to make friends with me, I'm so happy, but every time I'm full of hope, I'm disappointed in the end.

Nowadays, everyone has his own career. People with all kinds of strange ideas can get together, not because of mutual tolerance, but because of money.

My friend told me that her company is very strange, and everyone is very realistic. She has worked for ten years and has never met such a company.

First, the boss's reality is that he only has money in his eyes, and he paints big cakes every day, staring at whether every employee works or not. Whoever doesn't work well, the boss will run on this person who they think is not working well with his subordinates who pretend to be grandchildren.

My friend works in HR, and her boss asks her to recruit people every day, even if the company is not short of people. Moreover, we can't recruit people with too high academic qualifications, too smart, too capable, and the salary is very low.

my friend said, if I make a hundred phone calls, at most one or two people will come. The key is that the salary is too low. Who wants to come? Nobody is stupid!

But her boss just wants to recruit obedient people. To put it bluntly, he works for them. To put it bluntly, it's a bit of a joke. The other company has no money in its account, so why do you still "pretend" to recruit people every day?

Second, colleagues are very realistic. Don't pretend to be polite at ordinary times. Once the interests are involved, no one will let anyone.

My friend said that many colleagues who left the company told me that your company was too strange and the people in your company were very cold, as if they had no humanity at all, just like working machines.

my friend said, actually, I also feel that this company atmosphere is particularly depressing and weird. There is no temperature between people, and they all wander around their own interests, which is boring. I also want to resign!

I thought, are there many circles with temperature now? I have also been to several companies, most of which are like this. There is no temperature at all. Several colleagues have dinner together, each of whom is silent. After dinner, you quickly come out for air and feel how carefree freedom is.

In the past, friends talked about everything, but now "friends" have no connection without interests. Friends and colleagues are becoming more and more silent.

There are fewer and fewer people who can play truth or dare with you. When a few people go to KTV to sing, there is nothing to say. Sit down in a corner, drink hard, whoever likes to sing, shout a few times and say goodbye to each other politely. After many years, it will really be goodbye forever.

It's not that everyone doesn't want to make friends. It's that we're all scared, afraid of being laughed at for telling the truth, afraid of being misunderstood for saying too much, so we'll be embarrassed. We'll listen to whoever makes money, and our colleagues and friends will be in trouble. When we get home, we'll be left alone and feel lonely, sometimes lonely. I really want to buy a robot and have a good chat with me.

Being alone and keeping your mouth shut in groups is very suitable for this era. Otherwise, there are so many people who would rather travel alone than join a group, and would rather watch TV at home than attend any party.

A person, especially man show, can live happily, have some fun, make more use of spare time to work hard, spend less time gossiping and complaining, and live a good life, which is better than anything else.