My mother-in-law obviously wants to see my jokes, hoping that I can condescend to please her, curry favor with her, and rush to their house to live. They can do whatever they want.

She dragged her son for decades with a handful of shit and urine, and you easily hooked him up. A little emotional is understandable. Handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law with an understanding attitude. Of course, your husband's attitude is also important. If you find it difficult to live, there is no need to embarrass yourself. Toads with two legs are hard to find, and men with three legs are plentiful.