What are the benefits of being polite?

Question 1: What are the benefits of being polite to others? Politeness refers to the idea and behavior of harmonious coexistence between people, and it is the embodiment of respect and friendship for others in manners. In other words, being polite to others may make others have a better impression on you. To exaggerate, if everyone in the world is polite, the world may be very peaceful; However, if you don't want to be polite to others and others won't be polite to you, it may make everyone unhappy. Take society as an example again. If everyone is rude and doesn't say sorry when stepping on others, it may make others bored, which may turn into a fight, then the world will be very chaotic. Hope to adopt.

Question 2: What is civilized manners? Simply put, it is a code of conduct of self-discipline and respect for others, and it is a process and means to show respect and understanding for others. Giving up your seat by bus is a civilized etiquette, observing the queuing order is a civilized etiquette, and caring for public property is a civilized etiquette. Civilized etiquette is not only the embodiment of personal quality and education, but also the embodiment of personal morality and social morality. It is the face of the city and the face of the country. As a "state of etiquette" with a history of 5, years, stressing civilization and using etiquette is also an important way for China to carry forward national culture and show national spirit. But have we really done this? The impolite and uncivilized phenomena we have seen inside and outside the campus: spitting, chewing gum, trampling on the lawn and scribbling on cultural relics; Don't look at the red light and walk on the sidewalk when crossing the road; Take a bus to grab a seat desperately, and don't bother to say sorry when you squeeze into or step on others; The canteen and the boiling water room are always in a state of disorder; Bicycles are dumped in the parking lot, seat-occupying textbooks can be seen everywhere in the self-study classroom, and sudden mobile phones * * *, and so on. Many uncivilized phenomena occur around us. Faced with this fact, the team members are lost in thought. China, an ancient civilization and a country of etiquette, is our fine tradition to stress civilization and etiquette. If we want to be qualified students, we must have the minimum civilized manners. Those bad habits we make are aimed at being quick for a while, but we lose our personality and dignity. We may hear or see many good performances of foreign countries in terms of civilization and etiquette. In contrast, everyone can see the quality gap between China and western developed countries. My heart is very bad.

what exactly should be done about civilized manners? Civilized etiquette should start from small things, and see civilization in details. Each of us should start from small things and start from the things around us. As the saying goes, "Don't do it because it is good, and don't do it because it is evil!" Throughout the ages, we can see that a successful great man must have his orderly code of conduct. Similarly, if we want to be a qualified student, we must standardize our words and deeds and make a good foundation for the future society. Some students mentioned that respecting others is also a kind of civilized etiquette. For example, learning to give full respect when others speak and listen to others reflects a high quality of civilization. Civilized etiquette is not only on the moral level, but also a kind of knowledge and culture. In Beiyu, a small United Nations with people from 17 countries, what we show our foreign friends is China and China culture. It is from us that foreigners see the quality of Chinese people. Of course, we should pay attention to what we say and do, and show them the civilized culture, instead of showing them the humble side of our national quality. As China students of North Language, we also play a normal role for foreign students. As a result, foreign students learn to squeeze elevators in order to adapt to the environment. There are too many such examples. At the same time, we need to know the civilized manners of other countries, respect them and learn from them, so as to avoid making intellectual jokes in international social occasions and making foreigners feel that we China people lack manners. Civilized manners require us to change these unsatisfactory situations around us quietly. Moreover, it is important that not only we should set an example, but also the broad masses of us should receive education and establish a sense of civilization and etiquette.

Generally speaking, everyone has gained a lot from the discussion about civilized manners. We all agree that through this league school activity, we have not only regained the consciousness of the league members, defined the goals of the league members, but also clearly recognized the existing problems of civilization and etiquette and the tasks we shoulder. The year 28 is drawing near, so how to make the Beijing Olympic Games reflect the courtesy and restraint of China people, and the civilization and friendship of a state of etiquette is undoubtedly an important spiritual civilization construction work. As league members, we have the responsibility and obligation to start with me and drive a large number of people to work together for this cause.

Question 3: What are the benefits of talking about civilized manners? Etiquette is a must for everyone. Learn etiquette well to make your external image better and impress people. Academically, people feel that you are a scholar and educated; In terms of employment, it gives people strong credibility, which will make people feel that you have the ability to do a good job and grasp the status quo; Learn good manners to make you more valuable.

first, family etiquette;

The family is the smallest unit of human society, the cradle of children, the place to cultivate family virtues and the important part of spiritual civilization construction. Auditors should take good care of her and nurture her. Good family etiquette can make husband and wife harmonious. Marriage is fate, and husband and wife are the longest-lasting partners. It is hard to achieve. Combining greatness, both sides should cherish and safeguard her, and they should not be half-hearted and distracted. Care for the elderly, every family has an elderly person, everyone will be old, everyone has dual parents, and everyone should be dual parents. Respect and care for both parents; It is the responsibility of parents to love their children, educate their offspring and raise their children, and educating their children is the burden of both parents. A warm family environment and persuasive education methods will leave a lifelong shadow on children; Treat relatives and friends of both parties equally; Neighborhood unity, harmony, as the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, neighbors get along, harmony is more important, and mutual care and friendship are more important; Diligent housekeeping, moderate living, well-managed, well-controlled income and expenditure, well-organized food, clothing, housing and use, and prosperous life, others will praise and envy.

second, proper social etiquette is the only way to promote yourself successfully.

Etiquette reflects a person's accomplishment, the quality of a nation, the possession and application ability of personal knowledge, and the level of a person's etiquette accomplishment determines people's impression of it and the success of social activities.

(1) Etiquette shows mutual respect. Only those who know how to respect others can be respected by others.

(2) Etiquette shapes the right image. Conversation pays attention to etiquette and can become civilized; Manners pay attention to etiquette and can become elegant; Dressing with manners can make you generous .........................................................................................................................................................................

(4) Etiquette reflects self-cultivation.

question 4: what are the advantages of polite greeting when meeting people? If you want to be respected by others, you must respect others first. It should be like this.

Question 5: Why should we be polite? What kind of people do we become by being polite? Politeness lies in sincerity, which is a sincere respect for others and a clever way to remind others to respect themselves. It needs a modest attitude and tolerance. It is not only a superficial formality, but a very important factor to maintain the harmonious operation of society. It can not only increase the happiness of daily life, but also reduce interpersonal friction and violence. Politeness is not just a form of appearance, but a bridge to communicate people's friendly feelings. If we can be polite to others consciously, we can not only make the relationship between people more pure and beautiful, but also avoid and reduce some unnecessary personal conflicts and make social life more harmonious and peaceful. In this beautiful and harmonious environment, people can enhance friendship, strengthen unity, study, live and work better, and feel kindness, warmth, happiness and strength from it. When people live in society, they always associate with others, learn to be polite and use polite language properly, which can make the whole society more harmonious and beautiful.

Question 6: Composition: The advantages of being polite are illustrated by one thing. Politeness comes first.

China is known as an "ancient civilization" and a "state of etiquette". For thousands of years, the broad masses of people have been inheriting the virtues of attaching importance to etiquette and being polite. As a primary school student in the new century, we should inherit and carry forward this traditional virtue. We should start with small things in our daily life and study. Cultivate yourself to form good habits, be polite to others, and be civilized.

First of all, we should pay attention to personal gfd, manners, speech, dress, etc. We should behave in a civilized and generous manner, sit upright, stand tall and straight, walk briskly, and show respect, understanding and goodwill to people with a smile. Speak with sincerity and kindness, use civilized language, and be concise and decent. Dress in a clean, neat and decent manner, which conforms to students' identity and reflects the vigorous and progressive style of students in the new century.

Secondly, pay attention to public etiquette. In school, we should abide by school rules and disciplines, respect teachers, unite students, understand each other and be tolerant of others. Take care of the flowers and trees in the school and don't litter; In shopping malls, theaters and other public places, you can't talk loudly; Obey the public order. Thirdly, at home, we should be polite and know the rules. We should be courteous to our parents and family members. We should not contradict our parents, listen carefully to their teachings, do our own things, be filial and respect our elders. People are required to be polite everywhere in social life. Civilized manners not only bring happiness and harmony to others and society, but also create a loving environment, bring happiness and warmth to ourselves. Start with small things. Only in this way can we gradually develop civilized etiquette habits and become the "four newcomers" needed by the society in the new period. As small masters of the country, we have the responsibility to carry forward the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Let's join hands and be small masters of civilization in the new century.

Question 7: What role does etiquette have on people? Etiquette plays a very important role in the current socialist modernization.

(1) Etiquette is the code of conduct for people to communicate with each other

People can't do without communication with others. Marx pointed out: "the essence of man is not an abstract thing inherent in a single person." In its reality, it is the sum of all social relations. " ("Outline on Feuerbach") That is to say, it is precisely because of his sociality that man becomes a man. As a member of society, people always get involved in all kinds of "social relations". People's social life is multifaceted, and the social relations involved are extremely extensive and complicated, including relations of production, class, party, nationality, family, relatives, teachers and students, friends, and so on. These relationships involve economy, politics, ideology, culture, law, religion and other fields. No matter what kind of social relationship, it must be expressed through communication.

in order to make people's communication go smoothly, we must pay attention to etiquette. Under the new situation of developing socialist market economy and opening wider to the outside world, we should pay more attention to this problem. As a "rational, moral, educated and disciplined socialist citizen" (Resolution), we must always pay attention to etiquette everywhere. From visiting relatives and friends, answering phone calls, attending banquets or dances, presiding over meetings and receiving visitors, and attending business negotiations or foreign affairs activities, we must abide by certain etiquette norms. Only by paying attention to etiquette and treating people with courtesy in social communication can we win each other's goodwill and trust and make their communication produce good results. Otherwise, improper speech, improper behavior, rudeness to others and disgust to the other party will inevitably affect the normal communication and even bring losses in work and career. For example, Joe, a world-famous car salesman? Gillard, once selling a car to a customer, was about to close the deal. At this moment, the customer suddenly talked about his son, saying that his son played baseball well and won the championship yesterday. He wanted to buy a car for his son. Young Gillard was inexperienced at that time, preoccupied with collecting money and turning over the key, and paid no attention to the customer talking about his son. As a result, the customer stuffed back the money that had been almost taken out and turned away. In the evening, Gillard called the customer. He said, "I don't want to sell cars to you anymore. I just want to ask you a question. What have I done to you today?" The customer said, "Just because you didn't listen well when I talked about my son, I won't buy it.". It turns out that you don't care about the customer's excitement. He thinks you don't respect his feelings, so the business is ruined. This unforgettable lesson for young Gillard vividly illustrates the importance of paying attention to etiquette in interpersonal communication.

(2) Etiquette is an important means of shaping social image

As long as you associate with people, there is a question of what image appears. The so-called image is a comprehensive and systematic impression formed by both sides in each other's minds. A person's voice, appearance, words and deeds, dress and even temperament are all elements of image, which must not be taken lightly. Facts show that a bad image can't win the trust of the other party and social recognition. Ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, such examples are endless. For example, there is a story in ancient China: A man named Hu Shitang applied for admission to Beijing in the Yuan Dynasty, and when Kublai Khan summoned him in Yuan Shizu, he did not find his hat askew. Yuan Shizu asked him what he studied, and Hu Shitang replied, "The study of governing the country and leveling the world". Yuan Shizu said with a smile: "If you don't wear a hat correctly, can you still level the world?" Therefore, Hushitang was not put into use.

In foreign countries, there are many cases of people like Hu Shitang who have neglected their image and affected their career development. For example, when the United States ran for president in 196, Nixon was defeated by Kennedy because of his poor image when he took part in the TV debate despite his illness. It can be seen that the role of people's appearance image in dealing with others and socializing can not be ignored. Paying attention to etiquette helps to shape a good social image. Facts show that neat and generous personal appearance, decent speech, elegant manners and good temperament and demeanor will often leave a deep and beautiful impression on each other, thus establishing friendship and trust and achieving social goals.

(3) Etiquette is a powerful measure to promote international exchanges and cooperation

It is the consistent practice of our country to respect international etiquette and communication etiquette and the customs and habits of people of all countries. It reflects China's sincere desire to safeguard world peace and strengthen international friendly cooperation. Since the reform and opening up, in China's international exchanges, in addition to formal official exchanges, non-governmental exchanges have also increased day by day. In this case, it is more and more necessary to study etiquette, so that etiquette can better serve China's foreign policy ..... >; >

question 8: what are the benefits of etiquette? (1) learning social etiquette is conducive to improving social psychological endurance.

No one can be isolated from the world, so there is communication. People need to learn a lot in the process of socialization, and social etiquette education is a must in the process of socialization.