If you want to be beautiful, don't take reading as a joke.

Reading is a part of culture, but culture is not limited to reading. What is culture? This definition is very broad, and no country can accurately and comprehensively summarize culture. The basic definition is extensive knowledge and cultivation rooted in the heart. Where does knowledge come from? Usually obtained from reading books. Maybe when the books you have read are higher than yours, you can probably understand the so-called culture.

Reading is the only way to excellence. How can you be excellent if you don't study? People who don't study are arrogant, and their manners always lack a little cultural polishing. This is most obvious in the nouveau riche. Their cultural level can't keep up with the economic development, and their manners and manners displayed by the psychology of getting rich are particularly grandiose, lacking in quality, while the quality can't keep up with the material, and money can't cover up the smell of the soil turtle. If the nouveau riche were placed in ancient times, the real first-class aristocrats would despise this portal.

If a person is knowledgeable and well-informed, such a person does not need to dress up deliberately, and will have a temperament from the inside out. On the contrary, if there is no connotation, no matter how he dresses up, he will not appear temperament.

Reading keeps you from falling into the vulgar swamp.

Nowadays, in this impetuous era, people who can read books have become more and more valuable. According to the survey, China's per capita annual reading volume is only 0.7, which is not a general disparity compared with the reading volume of dozens of books per capita in Europe and America.

A nation that does not study has no future. If China people can't wake up, the future of the nation will be worrying. Culture is the strength of a country as well as a personal strength. From state affairs to daily life, there is no place where culture is not needed. It is culture that determines social development.

In daily life, people who study and people who don't study sit together, talk a few words and immediately see the real chapter. The words used by readers can be regarded as unique, and the beauty of words is everywhere. People who don't study often turn over and over the same cliche and talk tasteless.

Even if the reader pretends to be forced, he can just pretend to be beautiful.

When you see the afterglow of the sunset, you should think of the sunset and lonely Qi Fei, and grow with the autumn water, not just: I grass, many birds, really beautiful.

When it snows, people will say, "Wow! It's snowing! " At that time. You can simply say, "The snow in Mei Xu Xun is white, but there is a piece of Mei Xiang missing from the snow." Otherwise, quote the poem in A Dream of Red Mansions and sigh: "It's so clean when it's all white."

The same snow scene, after cultural treatment, does the artistic conception suddenly rise to another level at this moment?

There are many advantages of reading, one of which is that you can be forced at a higher level.

What I want to talk about today is not how to force reading, but how to force reading. Why do you want to talk about this topic? Mainly this year, I really tore up a lot with people.

Sometimes, even if you don't provoke people, there are good people to provoke. The purpose of my life has always been that people don't attack me and I don't commit crimes. If someone attacks me, I will hit the nail on the head when I can't bear it, and humiliate it with all the harsh words until I die.

For most people, losing money is a blessing, and there is no need to be common sense with such people. In my opinion, this is a sign of cowardice and incompetence. People are good at being bullied, and human nature has a mean psychology. Retreating in the face of deliberate provocation is tantamount to fueling the arrogance of such a good person.

There are a few troublemakers in the class this year, and these good people are all aimed at me as a group owner.

At first, the measure was not to talk nonsense with such people, but to kick the black sheep out of the group and keep the students clean.

What I didn't expect was a group of classmates, and good things emerged one after another. Teared one, and one more. I can't help feeling: after all, I'm just a primary school classmate, and my cultural level and mind and vision really can't go on.

I'm always unsmiling. Even if I usually tell self-deprecating jokes or dirty jokes in the group for the sake of active atmosphere, I am still serious. I'm just joking seriously. Moreover, some people will come out to satirize your typing or think that you can joke and challenge my bottom line many times.

Once or twice is a joke. If I use it as a topic every time, it is a deliberate insult. Don't blame me for losing face. I'll give him what he is. I can't stand it anymore, even my classmates can't stand it, just hit my face. Try your best to humiliate it to the fullest with all sharp words.

Privately, my sisters advised me: "There is no need to talk nonsense with this beast and lower my level. It doesn't matter if this kind of classmate is improper. We live our own lives, stay with classmates who have fun, and don't take such people seriously. So as not to get angry and hurt your body. "

My sisters think I hurt my liver and lungs, but in fact I am hi. Every time I finish tearing it, I have a great pleasure. I am very willful to reply to them in the sister group: "I don't want it, I want to tear it to the end. Why should I put up with these deliberately provocative animals? " What a step back is bullshit. Why should I suppress my emotions for this beast? It is better to sulk twice on the spot than to sulk afterwards. "

I am an emotional person, angry and direct, and never wronged myself too much. My sisters listened to my words, understood that I was a personality messenger, and then fully supported me. If they are happy, they will tear it up.

The fifth sister also said heroically, "Anyway, I don't contact anyone except you. You forced me to cheer for you. Anyway, I am ready to be a stranger with all my classmates. "

How many real friends can you have when you are alive? But I was lucky enough to extract such a group of girls from my classmates. Seeing that I was bullied, they stood up for me.

It moved me beyond words.

These are small things.

What really makes me feel that reading can be torn up gracefully is that N years ago, I used a letter to help a colleague get justice and tore up an arrogant person. It was the first time that I felt that words were a sword, and its power was sometimes better than guns and ammunition.

A few days ago, I looked through the old log in QQ space and found that the manuscript of this letter was still preserved in the space.

I remembered the rough road and the scene of drawing swords to help each other.

At that time, we watched this docile colleague being bullied by the new master, and several of our assistants couldn't help but speak out to help, but this young and energetic master was too arrogant. Despite the public criticism, he was so self-righteous, did not apologize, did not admit his mistake, and really saw what it was like to be shameless and invincible in the world.

In addition, the company boss does not directly manage the board house, and has been in Germany or Guangzhou for a long time. He never goes to the board room when he comes back.

Another big sister-like colleague said helplessly, "What should we do if we meet such a person who is not directly managed by the boss?" How to tell the boss about these things? Have you been bullied like this? "

At that time, I remembered the basic legal knowledge and some effective rights protection methods. I said vaguely, "Why don't you write a letter to the boss, and we will jointly sign it and tell you what happened tonight?"

I didn't expect everyone to clap their hands and agree with my casual remark. Whether it's useful or not, we should do our best, and we can't watch our colleagues being bullied like this. So I came home from work that night, and I took advantage of my anger and wrote a letter.

The content is as follows:

After reading this letter, the situation is clear at a glance. I don't need to repeat it, just say the following results.

This boss is a college graduate. He has been abroad on business for a long time without an interpreter. He knows English himself. This is really rare in our town, and I heard that the boss is a literate person who thought of using this method. If I were a terrapin boss like most uneducated businessmen in town, I wouldn't play the lute to a cow. As a result, the boss called Li Shifu to the office the next day after reading the letter. As for what he said, we don't know. Probably gave him an ideological and political lesson.

After returning from the conversation, Li Shifu people said to our assistant, "I have recently disturbed you, brought you trouble and made you unhappy. I hope you can forgive me. Especially Lin Bina, the assistant, I'm really sorry. I went too far and didn't know how to respect people. The boss has fired me and will never bother you again. "

At that moment, we were delighted to get justice for our colleague Lin Bina.

A frank colleague said to him, "Young man, don't drag yourself away when you go abroad in the future." . Be a low-key person and get along well with others. "

I think this will be an unforgettable lesson in his youth life.

Afterwards, Lin Bina's colleague sincerely said to me, "Little Coconut, thank you. I'm not as literary as you, so I can only say thank you. If it weren't for you, I would really be bullied like this. " I can feel her heartfelt gratitude to me at that time, which is enough. A sincere thank you is more important than anything else.

Other colleagues lamented: "I didn't expect this town to meet such a talented woman in such a crouching tiger, hidden dragon." Although I often joke about narcissism, I am a little overwhelmed by excessive praise in person.

In fact, the more people who study, the more they realize that the world is big and their own is small. Life is limited and knowledge is infinite. It is not enough to explore infinite knowledge with limited youth. So please believe that people who love reading have a heart that will never be proud and will always be modest. Outsiders look at the so-called ostentation and extravagance and high-profile of intellectuals, but it is just a desire expressed by literati.

This is the first time I have done something meaningful with the power of words. I remember seeing the writer Han Han on the cover of a famous magazine. In the photo, he is holding a pen. At first glance, this pen looks like a dagger. The reason for taking this photo is that the artistic conception of the photo wants to express that the pen in the writer's hand is comparable to a sword, and the words written by the pen in his hand can beat you out of the water with no effort, and the power of words cannot be underestimated. So some people say that it is better to offend the writer than to offend the villain.

In the face of evil forces, there is no need to sharpen your knife and brush your gun off.

Learn to be both rigid and flexible, and defend yourself with culture.

Read more books and tear them gracefully.