I want to change myself so that those who hate me will no longer hate me.

I want to change myself so that those who hate me will no longer hate me.

128 ways to change yourself

1. Don’t be offensive when speaking. Nature, don't be lethal, don't boast about your own abilities, don't criticize others, and you can naturally turn your enemies into friends.

2. A person who often looks at the shortcomings of others is not good enough because he has no time to review himself.

3. Right and wrong happen every day. If you don’t listen, there will be no right and wrong. Right and wrong will happen every day. If you don’t listen, you will still have right and wrong.

4. If you really love him, then you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.

5. To overcome the fear of death, you must accept the concept that everyone in the world will die.

6. Although you hate a person, you can still find his advantages and benefits. There are too few cultivated people like this in the world.

7. Face your inner conflicts and stains honestly, and don’t deceive yourself.

8. Karma has never owed us anything, so please don’t complain.

9. We do have such advantages, but we must also hide some of them. This is called self-cultivation.

10. The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.

11. When you are happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you have to think that the pain is not eternal.

12. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself, and changing yourself can you change others.

13. Don’t waste your life on something you will definitely regret.

14. When you let go, there will be no worries.

15. Every trauma is a kind of maturity.

16. When you know the confusion, you are not pitiful. When you don’t know the confusion, you are the most pitiful.

17. Arrogant people can be saved, but people with low self-esteem cannot be saved.

18. Don’t be dissatisfied with others all the time. You should always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, you will suffer yourself.

19. You have to be tolerant of those who have different opinions from you, so that life will be easier. If you keep trying to change him, it will be very painful for you. You have to learn how to tolerate him. You have to learn how to tolerate him.

20. To admit one's own greatness is to admit one's own stupidity.

21. If a person cannot forgive others from his heart, he will never feel at ease.

22. People who are filled with their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.

23. It only takes one sentence to destroy a person, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please be more merciful.

24. When you persuade others, if you do not take into account the self-esteem of others, then no matter how good your words are, they will be useless.

25. Don’t mix arrogance with your wisdom. Do not let your humility lack wisdom.

26. You don’t have to look back to see who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him back?

27. Being jealous of others will not add any benefits to yourself. Being jealous of others cannot diminish other people's achievements.

28. Never waste a minute of your time thinking about anyone you don’t like.

29. How many people will say the same sentence when they are about to leave this world. This world is really helpless and desolate!

30. Love is not charity and cannot be given casually. There is no formula, no principle, and no reason to follow in feelings. But people are still persisting and pursuing until death.

31. Please speak out your dissatisfaction and grievances with compassion and a gentle attitude, so that others can easily accept it.

32. Those who create opportunities are brave. He who waits for opportunity is a fool.

33. Being able to say but not do is not true wisdom.

34. Listen more carefully to what others have to say, and don’t rush to express your own opinions.

35. Why do you put poison in the same bottle? With the same mentality, why are you full of troubles?

36. We will always think that something is wonderful if we can’t get it. That’s because you know too little about him and don’t have time to spend time with him. One day, when you understand deeply, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you imagined.

37. There is only smoothness in this world, not perfection.

38. If you are alive for one day, you are blessed and you should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found someone who had no feet.

39. The more attention you have to pay attention to others, the less time you have to reflect on yourself. Do you understand?

40. If you want to know about the catastrophe of swords and weapons in the world, you can only listen to the sound of slaughter in the middle of the night. Don't just complain about your illness and disasters, but look at how many sentient beings have died under your sword?

41. Hatring others is a great loss to oneself.

42. Everyone has life, but not everyone understands life or even cherishes it. For those who do not understand life, life is a punishment to them.

43. People who think they have wealth are actually possessed by wealth.

44. Emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only when you let go of emotional attachment can you feel free.

45. Letting go is not to muddle along and follow the rules, but to do your best and listen to destiny.

46. Don’t be too sure of your own opinions, this way you will have fewer regrets.

47. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you.

48. It is shameful for people to cover up their shortcomings by hurting others.

49. A person who is full of jealousy, is not honest in his heart, and speaks incorrectly cannot be regarded as a person with good facial features.

50. Tell more jokes and deal with things with a humorous attitude, so that life will be easier.

51. Those who live in the applause of others cannot withstand the test.

52. Don’t deliberately guess what others think. If you don’t have the wisdom and experience to make the right judgment, you will usually make mistakes.

53. To understand a person, you only need to see whether his starting point and destination are the same, and you can know whether he is sincere.

54. The truth of life is just hidden in the dull.

55. If you don’t take a shower, the perfume will not smell good if you apply it hard. Fame and honor come from true talent and learning. Virtues are naturally fragrant.

56. Instead of rejecting the fact, you might as well accept it.

57. Adversity is a necessary process for growth. Those who have the courage to accept adversity will grow stronger day by day.

58. You have to thank the person who told you about your shortcomings.

59. People who can think of others will never be lonely.

60. If you can discover your own shortcomings as accurately as you can see the shortcomings of others, then your life will be extraordinary.

61. To forgive others is to leave space in your heart for recovery.

62. Time will pass, let time flow away your worries!

63. If you insist on taking simple things seriously, you will be very painful.

64. There is no cure for people who always distort the good intentions of others.

65. People are not bad, they are just habits. Everyone has habits, but the depth is different. As long as he has a good heart, forgive him if you can forgive him, and don't regard him as a bad person.

66. If you tell a lie, you have to make up ten lies to make up for it. Why bother?

67. In fact, people who love beauty just fall in love with themselves.

68. There is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be praised. When you talk a lot, others will criticize you; when you talk little, others will criticize you; when you are silent, others will still criticize you. There is no one in this world who is not criticized.

69. Those who praise us and praise us are not famous teachers. Those who can speak to us and instruct us are good teachers. Only with them can we make progress.

70. Everything you have now will become someone else’s when you die, so why not give Oxfam now to those who really need it?

71. Living a day in vain, doing nothing, is like committing the crime of theft.

72. Silence is the best answer to slander.

73. To be respectful to others is to dignify yourself.

74. If you have a selfless love, you have everything.

75. Hatred can never resolve hatred. Only tolerance can resolve hatred. This is the eternal truth.

76. It is better for you to accept than to complain. For the unchangeable facts, you have no better way except to accept them.

77. Don’t bring your own troubles because of the foolish doubts of sentient beings. Don't suffer yourself because of the ignorance of sentient beings.

78. There is no need to be angry or sad when others say something bad about us. There is no need to be happy if we say we are good. There is good among bad, and bad among good. It all depends on whether you can use it?

79. When your mistakes are exposed, don’t lose your temper. Don’t think that being willful or noisy can hide or overcome your shortcomings.

80. Don’t always feel that you are very unfortunate. There are more people in the world who are suffering than us.

81. A foolish person always wants others to understand him. Wise people work hard to understand themselves.

82. Coming is accidental, leaving is inevitable. So you must, just go with the flow and go with the flow.

83. Only by facing reality can you transcend reality.

84. Conscience is everyone’s most fair judge. You can deceive others, but you can never deceive your own conscience.

85. People who do not know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others.

86. Doing things is just learning to be a human being.

87. Sometimes we have to calmly ask ourselves, what are we pursuing? What do we live for?

88. Don’t stay away from your closest friends because of a small dispute, and don’t forget the great kindness of others because of a small resentment.

89. Having the courage to accept criticism from others can help you adjust your own shortcomings.

90. Thank God for what I have, and thank God for what I don’t have.

91. This world is inherently painful, without exception.

92. It is not so much that others make you suffer, but rather that your own cultivation is not enough.

93. If you don’t trouble yourself, others will never trouble you. Because you can’t let go of your own heart.

94. Discipline yourself well and leave others alone.

95. If you don’t forgive all living beings, if you don’t forgive all living beings, you will suffer yourself.

96. Don’t say that others are pitiful. You are even more pitiful. So what if you practice by yourself? How much do you know about life?

97. People who are not blessed enough will often hear right and wrong; people who are blessed enough will never hear right and wrong.

98. You must always be grateful to all living beings who have given you adversity.

99. You must always forgive all living beings. No matter how bad they are, or even if they have hurt you, you must let go in order to gain true happiness.

100. Most people only do three things in their lives: deceiving themselves, deceiving others, and being deceived.

101. People who appreciate themselves too much will not appreciate the advantages of others.

102. The heart is the biggest liar. Others can lie to you for a while, but it will lie to you for a lifetime.

103. When you hold on to something in your hand, you can only have this thing. If you are willing to let go, you will have the opportunity to choose something else. If a person's heart clings to his own ideas and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.

104. It is not a blessing for others to be afraid of you, and it is not an insult for others to bully you.

105. It’s not someone who annoys me, but my words and deeds that annoy myself.

106. Don’t deliberately misinterpret other people’s kindness. You should think of the good.

107. If things in the world are not as you want, that is natural.

108. My wealth is not because I have a lot, but because I ask for very little.

109. You must have a bowel movement after eating. People must learn to let it go, otherwise they will become constipated.

110. People who often think that others are paying attention to you, or hope that others will pay attention to you, will have a more troubled life.

111. I can cook for you, but I can’t eat for you. Everyone eats to satisfy everyone, and everyone's life and death are personal matters.

112. It is easy to look down on others, but very difficult to deal with oneself.

113. Just live your own life and don’t mind other people’s distortions and right and wrong.

114. If you are planning to get married, let me tell you a very important philosophical saying. You must be patient and tolerant of each other’s shortcomings. There is no absolutely happy marriage in the world. Happiness only comes from infinite tolerance and tolerance. Respect each other.

115. If you can spend a day peacefully, it is a blessing. How many people today will not be able to see the sun tomorrow, how many people are disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have their families broken up today.

116. Right and wrong and gains and losses cannot be judged until the final result.

117. It is better to forgive others yourself than to let others forgive you.

118. When you face things with troubles, you will feel that everything is karma, and the world will become ugly and hateful.

119. If you want to be like Buddhas, dragons and elephants, you must first be like horses and cows.

120. Although we cannot change the world around us, we can only change ourselves.

121. When you start your life tomorrow and someone quarrels with you, just let him win. This winning and losing are just concepts in words. When you let the other side win, you lose nothing. The so-called win, what did he win? What to get? So-called losing, what did you lose to? What to lose?

122. Most of our lives are wasted on the elusive language.

123. Don’t always feel that you are wronged. You should think that he is already very good to me. This is the skill of cultivation.

124. Others can violate cause and effect, others can harm us, beat us, and slander us. But we can't hate others because of this, why? We must maintain a complete nature and a pure heart.

125. When contacting anyone, always ask yourself, what can I do to him? benefit him. If I cannot benefit others with my personal ethics, knowledge, and practice, it is equivalent to owing a debt.

126. If a person does not feel suffering, it is not easy to sympathize with others. If you want to learn the spirit of helping those in need, you must first suffer.

127. When ordinary people encounter the other party’s power, wealth, and strength, they endure it under helpless circumstances. What kind of patience is this? True tolerance is that even if he bullies you and feels sorry for you, he is nothing compared to you. You have enough strength to deal with him, but you can tolerate him, thinking that his nature is the same as mine, and he is just confused for a moment. Or it's just that he was influenced by a bad environment. You don't have to argue with him. Being able to tolerate such a situation and state of mind is true patience.

128. If we look at it from the perspective of countless lifetimes and calamities, then among all living beings, who has not been my parents, brothers and sisters, relatives and dependents? Who has not been my enemy? If there is kindness, everyone has kindness to me; if there is injustice, everyone has injustice with me. In this way, what kind of differences do we have between us? As for wisdom and stupidity, everyone has times when they are smart and times when they are stupid. Smart people can become stupid, and stupid people can also become smart. The worst people have done many good things in the past, and they will not be bad forever; good people have also done many bad things, and they may not be good in the future.

How do I make someone who hates me stop hating me?

This requires courage to make people who hate me angry and say it

The depth of my thinking

is not a height you can reach

Hope to adopt!

A comment

I am so angry

Please accept me

Thank you! As to the people who hate me people who hate me ,

i have nothing to say Does anyone know how to make the people who hate me in the class hate me less?

You should pay more attention to your image at ordinary times, don’t be too careless or act weird, be a normal girl, help others more, be easy-going and cheerful, smile more, don’t do something very weird. If you want to do something unique, read more in-depth books, and strive to be a literary young woman. You must not be selfish at ordinary times, and people will generally be less likely to hate it.

It's possible for the family to speak It’s useless

= I don’t have time to hate those who hate me, I’m busy loving those who love me

That’s right. Go your own way and let others tell you! The eagle will not fly high just because someone says it.

Adopt what I said about hating myself

I hate myself very much

Why am I like this

This is not me If you want, just say something tactfully about the people who hate me.

Just say some people are really disgusting, and then point out what makes you hate them. Finally, add "hehe, I don't have time to hate people who hate me." I'm busy loving those who love me. Where does it come from?

I don’t know if I’ve ever heard someone say that affectionate women don’t let women bother me or hate me

Don’t run away, no matter how sad or painful you are, don’t run away. There is no win or lose in love, just work hard. Just solve it. Slowly you will find that love is really not a matter of one person. It requires two people to hold hands together to overcome difficulties. Love that one party lets go is incomplete no matter how perfect it is. Don't run away, no matter how sad or painful it is, don't run away. There is no win or lose in love, just work hard to solve it. Slowly you will find that love is really not a matter of one person. It requires two people to hold hands together to overcome difficulties. Love that one party lets go is incomplete no matter how perfect it is.