How to let go after being deceived by the person you love and trust most?

Love and killing each other is actually a joke in real life. Most betrayals often end in forgiveness or forgetting. In fact, the deeper you love, the more you trust life. When a lie is exposed, the more you subconsciously want to escape. Healing alone is the choice of most people. In this healing process, many people are depressed because they can't get out of the pain, and even become moody, often taking it out on others.

It's not easy to let go, because the more you invest in this relationship, the more you will be hurt. Then I think the first way to let go is also a more insightful way, which is self-suggestion. Actually, you can think so. Power is mutual. The feelings you two give are equal. Even if he betrays you, you two will only hurt each other. Betrayal is always a way of losing 800 enemy troops and 1000. As long as he does this, he won't be too happy.

Under the influence of this psychological suggestion, you will feel relatively balanced. When you get out of the initial extreme pessimism, you can find something to do to make up for the empty window. Don't trust anyone at this stage, because the wound hasn't healed yet, and you can't judge the purpose of the other person appearing beside you. Once you blindly seek comfort, it is easy to get hurt again.

When you completely calm down by doing things, you can completely calmly face and analyze the previous events and carefully analyze the reasons for your betrayal. Why did you end up so close? Why can you believe it easily? Where is your sense of discrimination and crisis? Losing something is not terrible. It may not belong to you. The terrible thing is that you don't know why you lost it.