The husband cursed his wife in the delivery room. What happened?

Man is a man or a ghost. Usually, he always gives clues. It is impossible for a wife to give birth in the delivery room, and a husband will become a living person outside the door, from a person to a ghost.

I saw something on the hot search recently. A wife just had a caesarean section. Probably the family agreed in advance not to breastfeed. As a result, after giving birth to the baby, the anesthetic didn't pass, and the mother was in a daze and asked the nurse to open the milk.

She didn't tell her husband about it until she had a fever in the middle of the night and her milk increased. Great, this is a hornet's nest.

Her husband scolded a woman who had just given birth for three hours continuously, and maintained a high intensity, high decibel and high density output.

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The nurse couldn't stand it any longer, so she came over and advised: Just after the operation, the lower edge still hurts.

Without thinking, the husband opened his mouth and came: she loves her to death!

It was only a physical injury, but now it is a mental blow.

Oh, hey, the cow of the production team was scolded so much just after giving birth. Everyone else must be fair: Master's conscience is gone!

This woman who just walked through the gate of hell was scolded by her husband. Yes, she just gave birth to a baby by caesarean section, but I didn't know that she was not cutting her stomach, but her husband's ancestral grave!

What is even more outrageous is that the community comes to coordinate family conflicts, and the conclusion is that the man usually cares more about his wife, but his temper is hot.

Well, if you even care about scolding for three hours, that's really bad. According to this logic, I have never cared so much about anyone in my life, and I have never cared so much about anyone. This temper is not hot, but a barrel explosion, right? Or a serial explosion that continues to detonate.

Curse the wife who just gave birth to a child to die. Is this a favor?

Paying more attention to your wife means being grumpy, which is a typical mediation method of neighborhood committees/women's federations/civil affairs bureaus.

Although his mouth is bad, his heart is good.

"Although he doesn't earn much money, he is honest."

"Although he has someone outside, it is only temporary, and his heart is still at home;"

"He really loves you, even though his family beat people up;"

"Although he is drunk, drunk, he is still drunk, but he is still good when he is awake;"

As long as people are not in the refrigerator, it is a small matter. This is China's philosophy of "making peace". After all, it is better to destroy a marriage than to tear down ten temples!

Swearing can also be distorted into caring, so we want to ask the mediator: this blessing is for you, do you want it?

From the maternal point of view, I just gave birth to a baby, but I still had a caesarean section. I have no strength at all. I can't talk back, I can't sleep, I can't feed my baby, and my stomach still hurts. Maybe I haven't changed my lochia, but I have to bear the attack from my father, the child who should be my close lover.

No postpartum depression!

As I said at the beginning of the article, whether a person is a person or a ghost doesn't have to wait until he is a baby. If this man is a gentle and honest husband, he can never scold in the delivery room for three hours and say such hurtful words as "She loves her to death".

Nine times out of ten, he dared to do so because he had already done so, and his wife was indifferent and patient at that time.

He knows very well that his wife's bottom line is no bottom line, otherwise he would never dare to do so.

No matter what kind of relationship it is, once the cards are shown to the other side, it is the purely weak side.

I'm not saying that pregnant women who are scolded must divorce, but have the courage to divorce and break up. Don't think that if you have children, you will never be able to leave this man again. No matter how much the other party goes too far, no matter how pua, how to insult yourself, they all suffer silently.

Although women are weak, being a mother is just. It doesn't mean that when you are a mother, your head is iron, you can stand being scolded and beaten, you can put on armor, and you don't lose Iron Man.

It is the tenacity after becoming a mother, which can protect children from harm and grow up healthily.

Not to mention that such a father will scold his children in the future. The child came into contact with his father and mother from birth. When children grow up, they will feel that it is normal to be scolded and swear. In the future, he will get married and establish a close relationship. I'm afraid he will take it for granted that swearing is caring and being scolded is communication. ...

How twisted is this baby?

Only when women are strong and have the courage to break their wrists can they protect their children and protect themselves, and they are no longer in a purely weak position in marriage.

I remember watching a short video before and seeing a mother working alone with her children in a village in the city. Life is hard, I have to take care of my children and earn money to support my family. Life is hard, but there is light in her eyes.

She said that her ex-husband was born a gambler, gambling all his money and taking the money she earned. But before, she had been very patient with her children and was unwilling to divorce, fearing that her children would be wronged without their father.

It was not until her ex-husband lost the bet and sold the house that she gave up completely and resolutely divorced with her children. Life is hard, but she has also slowly saved money, and her future is bright and promising. Children don't have to feel the haze caused by their parents' quarrels all the time, but smile more.

Apart from pornography, gambling and domestic violence, China people often think that cold violence is not violence. Many people think that it is no big deal for the other half of pua to insult each other and refuse to communicate. At this time, only divorce can make the other party take communication seriously.

I have a friend whose husband can earn money and take care of his family. He seldom socializes outside after work. Like a good husband. But she always feels very painful. Because no matter what she does, her husband will degrade her to nothing first, and then make a speech. This makes her feel inferior and always feels useless.

In fact, this is a typical PUA. My friend is also highly educated with a master's degree. Before marriage, he was also a confident and sunny white man. When he got married, his condition got worse and worse.

She once had the idea of divorce, but her parents' relatives didn't support it.

Finally, she couldn't bear it. She directly drafted the divorce agreement and put it in her husband's hand, only then did he know that she was serious. Of course, the last marriage didn't end, but it is said that her husband has restrained a lot, but he can't help but belittle her occasionally.

Divorce requires courage, which includes both psychological ability and economic strength to live independently. At this point, full-time wives will be affected. This is why many men like to say to their wives, "I support you!" " "The main reason. Once a woman loses her financial ability, it will be easy to control.

Full-time wives can find some part-time jobs in their spare time, and when they earn money, they will have the right to speak.

In marriage, a woman must have the courage to leave each other before she can say "no".

At least next time, when a man does something and says nothing, he has to think about the consequences.