How to avoid becoming a sand sculpture?

If you want to avoid becoming a "sand sculpture", I believe the following methods will help you:

1, try to make yourself colder, talk less and do more at ordinary times, so that your life will become more substantial and efficient. In the eyes of others, you are also a powerful "player".

Try not to do boring things. You need to pay attention to your personal behavior in public places, because I can easily become a "sand sculpture" in the eyes of others with small moves.