What should I send to those who visit the moon?

People's dietary choices are increasingly rich, and maternal supplementary nutrition is not limited to eggs. So what should people who visit the moon give? The following are the gifts I have collected for those who are confined to the moon, hoping to help you.

What to send to the people in the confinement? 1, cash-filled red envelopes.

Cash-filled red envelopes is easy, worry-free and practical. Instead of giving a lot of gifts that maternity families don't need at all, it is better to give money directly. People want to buy something. However, how much is appropriate? Do what you can, 200 or 300 is not too little, and 12000 is not too much, mainly depending on your economic strength and your relationship with your family. If you are very close and rich, no one will stop you from sending gold bars.

2. Gold and silver ornaments

If you think giving red envelopes is too vulgar, you can consider gold and silver ornaments such as baby bracelets, long life locks and small pendants. On the one hand, it can reflect the value, on the other hand, it is not afraid of giving it to others or being impractical. As for what to buy, according to your budget, gold bracelets and longevity locks are about 2000-5000 yuan, and silver bracelets and longevity locks 100-500 yuan. When the child grows up, parents may say: Your uncle Wang/aunt Zhang bought this for you.

3. Make an appointment for a hundred days of photography

This is my first gift to my sister and niece. She is still ignorant, but her mother likes it very much. Hundred days of sunshine is definitely to be filmed. You can make an appointment for the baby's family in advance and pay the money. Very far-sighted and practical! However, choosing a store is a science. Be sure to choose one with good reputation and guaranteed quality, otherwise it will be embarrassing.

4, baby dining car, cart, etc.

A crib, a baby dining car, a trolley and a safety seat are all very thoughtful, warm and practical gifts. However, if someone buys from you, one of them will be scrapped. So, if you are not sure, buy a small toy, Baby Doby.

5, diapers and other consumables

Yes! You are not mistaken! It's just diapers If you know what brand of diapers your baby uses, you can consider buying a batch in bulk. Because the consumption of diapers is too large! Sisters who have given birth to babies around Xiao Sheng say that children are not poor, but almost! However, many parents still have high requirements for brand and size, so you can ask in advance.

Precautions for people visiting confinement are best visited after confinement.

The new mother has just given birth to a baby and is very weak. At this time, she needs a good rest, especially not to visit her as soon as she is born, because she just wants to sleep! Sleep! Sleep!

If it is an appointment to visit the hospital, Wang Jian suggested not to give big gifts, so as not to increase the discharge baggage. If you are good at cooking, make a soup and give it to your new mother. She will be very grateful to you, because the whole family is very busy at this time, and many new mothers can only eat takeout.

Ask the new mother for advice before visiting. It's better to make an appointment first, and then go without calling. I'm already downstairs? Or just knock on the door, it will make people unprepared. Sitting on the moon, the general image will be poor, people will be haggard, wearing loose nursing clothes, and their hair will be greasy and messy. At this time, the new mother may not want to see anyone. At this time, I am busy at home and have no time to tidy up the house. Maybe the house is full of children and maternal and child products, and she will be embarrassed to show it to others.

Shorten the visit time

When you visit, don't stay too long, or even stay for dinner. It's unreasonable. Both the new mother and the baby need a good rest, and there are two people to take care of at home. There is usually not enough manpower, so stop making trouble.

Don't take care of children.

Children have poor resistance and are easy to get sick with the source of the disease. And some bear Haizi are hard to keep clean. In addition, if the child is not light or heavy, parents will feel distressed if they collide with a newborn baby.

A Ma Baoren named Zhou Kunkun said that her husband's colleagues came to see her at home with their children. As soon as the little guy entered the room, he climbed into bed and kept coughing. That dirty little hand always wants to touch his daughter, and his colleagues can't help it. The boy called and slapped his daughter in the face. She was very distressed, but she couldn't say anything. Luckily, she missed her eyes.

Relatives and friends suffering from colds or other infectious diseases should not visit.

I believe that adults can understand this, especially in the face of new mothers and babies with low resistance, it is easy to cross-infect, and I think everyone will be conscious.

Try not to be crowded in the delivery room.

The new mother is afraid of the wind, so the room is always closed with doors and windows, or with a small crack. The air is not particularly good. If a group of people squeeze in, it is full of carbon dioxide, which is very bad for the new mother and baby. If this situation cannot be avoided, the new mother's room should be ventilated with the doors and windows open for half an hour after the visitors go out. When ventilated, the new mother can take the baby to another room to escape.

Please don't enter the delivery room without inviting men.

Rui Rui's mother said that once she was breastfeeding, her husband's uncle went straight into the room. Well, it's really embarrassing. Even if you don't breastfeed, the most common thing that new mothers wear when they are confined is breastfeeding clothes. In order to facilitate breastfeeding, they are used to not wearing bras at home, and it will be very uncomfortable if they are vaguely seen.

Please don't sit on the delivery bed.

Bean Miao's mother told Wang that many relatives of her husband's family came to the room and sat around the bed when they came to visit. Although they are very uncomfortable, they can't talk, but they can only talk with smiling faces.

Bed rest is the private domain of husband and wife. Sleeping and giving birth are all done on it. Some people are also neat. Is it really appropriate for you to sit up so rudely? What's more, the clothes you shuttle outside will carry dust, even some bacteria, and the new mother and baby have poor resistance, so avoid sitting on the maternal bed.

You'd better wash your hands before holding the baby.

You'd better wash your hands before holding the baby. It's best not to touch your face and hands. If the baby can eat his hands, his little hands should always be clean. And don't hold it for too long. Newborn babies need to lie in bed and can't hold them often, otherwise it is not conducive to the development of bones, and it is easy to spread the bacteria in saliva to the baby when talking to the baby.

Watch your tone.

Some families still have the concept of son preference, and women who give birth to girls often have to face psychological pressure, so when visiting, they should avoid talking about this topic, talk more happy words and don't interfere with the baby's rest too loudly.

The custom of confinement-Shanxi folk tradition

In confinement, the traditional practice of Shanxi folk is: you are not allowed to get out of bed for three days, you are not allowed to leave the house for one month, you are not allowed to go to the streets, and you are only allowed to eat and live indoors.

During the confinement period, people pay more attention to it, mainly to take good care of the health of the mother and the baby, and to be afraid of the moon disease.

During confinement, women should wear more clothes than usual and cover their foreheads with handkerchiefs for fear of catching the wind. During confinement, you should eat moderately, especially don't eat too much. If you are full, it will hurt your spleen and stomach, causing symptoms that can never be cured. In rural Shanxi, most pregnant women are given millet porridge, eggs, dried noodles and noodles, and rice and other foods are rarely eaten.

During confinement, pregnant women are forbidden to talk more for fear of causing tongue disease; It is forbidden for pregnant women to go to work for fear of overwork; It is forbidden for lying-in women to wash their hands with cold water for fear of damaging their joints. At the same time, strangers are forbidden to enter the maternal and child room. Are strangers afraid to enter the room? Step on life? , become a baby's disease. In the delivery room, you are generally not allowed to enter your own family. Only the mother, mother-in-law, husband and other people who take care of the mother are allowed to enter, and even the mother's father and father-in-law can't meet before the mother's full term.

Meizhou Hakka's custom of confinement

After giving birth, Hakka women should stay in their rooms to recuperate until after the full moon (usually 30 days). During the confinement period, the parturient enjoys the most generous treatment: comprehensive service, good diet and adequate rest, and becomes the central figure of the whole family.

During confinement, there are usually three meals and three snacks every day. The food is more exquisite. First, it should be nutritious and beneficial to the body, and increase milk. Second, choose? Warm, hot and flat? Sexual food, fasting and cold food, raw and cold food, generally do not eat green vegetables, eat dried vegetables. Among the foods eaten by lying-in women, the most common and distinctive is chicken wine (including ginger, chicken and wine). Ginger needs old ginger, which is mostly used to cook chicken and eggs. Meizhou people cook chicken by frying ginger in an oil pan, adding glutinous rice wine and simmering. Eating chicken wine on the day after delivery, it is best to be a big cock (called? Rooster? ), and then generally eat capons, it would be better if there were chickens that didn't lay eggs. Hakka women usually eat ten to thirty chickens, more than ten kilograms of old ginger and more than thirty kilograms of glutinous rice wine in confinement.

During confinement, the mother does not do other housework except take care of the baby.