What are your chat skills?

1. Praise the behavior rather than the person

For example, if the other person is a chef, never say: You are a great chef. He knew in his heart that there were many better cooks than him. But if you tell him that you eat at his restaurant half the time a week, that's a great compliment.

2. Use polite words appropriately

Kind words show your respect and gratitude, so be sure to use them in moderation. If the other person hears your compliment indirectly through someone else, it will be more of a surprise than if you tell it directly to yourself. On the contrary, if you are criticizing the other party, never tell the person concerned through a third party to avoid adding jealousy.

3. When faced with compliments from others, just say thank you

When most people are complimented, most of them will reply that it’s okay! Or bring it on with a smile. Instead of doing this, accept it openly and say thank you directly to the other person. Sometimes when someone compliments us on our clothing or something, if you say: This is just a bargain! Instead, it will embarrass the other person.

4. Have the magnanimity to appreciate your competitors

When your opponent or someone you hate is praised, don’t rush to say: But..., even if you don’t agree with the other person, on the surface, I have to say, he works hard. Show your magnanimity.

5. Three Key Points of Criticism

Good advice may not be offensive. Even if you mean well, the other party may not appreciate it or even misunderstand your good intentions. Unless you have a certain foundation of friendship or trust with the other person, don't make random criticisms.